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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello Fab Members. This is csfantasies. I have an issue that needs to be discussed.
When you set up your profile, we don't need to see another dick or pussy, unless you want people sitting at home jerking off to it. If your a true swinger, post a pic or 2 of both of you, face and body. Does not have to be nude. You are a guy, or are hiding something. Rejection is part of the game. I am tired though of always having to ask to see pics. If you want to be noticed post body and face. If your not a swinger, keep posting your dick or pussy.
This is easy as 123. You look at the pics, find attraction, move on to some getting to know each other, if that works plan a date. Don't be afraid. Swinging is the ultimate fantasy, but just do it right.
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I wish you'd said that earlier!  I flopped my cock out as my avatar earlier and poor miss knitter almost had a heart attack. The number of messages quadrupled though, so, actually....I don't agree.
Fap ya cock out, men!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People are entitled to post whatever pics they want. Its their profile and choice, true swinger definition has nothing to do with what type of pictures you upload. Unfortunately there is no way to filter 'graphic' avatars so you will have to live through it . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my opinion. If I see a pretty face or pussy. I am going for the face. Tells me more. We have all different faces but the junk is the same"
There's the magic word...opinion  |
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By *un43Couple
over a year ago
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We would have face pics if we were in another countries fab like yourselves OP.
Easy to judge people 3000 miles away. We like things just the way we have them thank you 
We get your point to a degree but each to there own and there is no right or wrong way |
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"In my opinion. If I see a pretty face or pussy. I am going for the face. Tells me more. We have all different faces but the junk is the same"
Actually, that's not true. Everyone's 'junk' is different. I just think that suggesting that I'm not a 'swinger' based on my differing profile approach is based on erroneous assumptions. Anyway, if I'm not a swinger, I'm a twat and guess what? Suits me. |
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"In my opinion. If I see a pretty face or pussy. I am going for the face. Tells me more. We have all different faces but the junk is the same"
I like a nice face pic of a man but demanding they be on show is a bit OTT.
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"In my opinion. If I see a pretty face or pussy. I am going for the face. Tells me more. We have all different faces but the junk is the same"
Some people really can't post public face pictures. For myself personally, working in a school means I would be stupid to post public face pics. If our swinging as public knowledge I would certainly lose my job.
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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There is no right or wrong way!
It's up to individuals, what pics they're comfortable with posting. How they approach swinging & meeting people in general.
We personally get fed up with others telling us how things should be done.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my opinion. If I see a pretty face or pussy. I am going for the face. Tells me more. We have all different faces but the junk is the same
Some people really can't post public face pictures. For myself personally, working in a school means I would be stupid to post public face pics. If our swinging as public knowledge I would certainly lose my job.
Cal"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is no right or wrong way!
It's up to individuals, what pics they're comfortable with posting. How they approach swinging & meeting people in general.
We personally get fed up with others telling us how things should be done.
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^^^^^this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish you'd said that earlier! I flopped my cock out as my avatar earlier and poor miss knitter almost had a heart attack. The number of messages quadrupled though, so, actually....I don't agree.
Fap ya cock out, men!!! "
Oh goodness its still out Steve  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After 5 years of doing this, its my opinion and everyone who disagrees carry on"
The opinion of someone who can't grasp the reply and quote function..
Nah..i'll make my own mind up ta |
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"I wish you'd said that earlier! I flopped my cock out as my avatar earlier and poor miss knitter almost had a heart attack. The number of messages quadrupled though, so, actually....I don't agree.
Fap ya cock out, men!!!
Oh goodness its still out Steve "
I have to provide proof to complete strangers that I'm not a swinger. Otherwise, my whole social life is invalidated and worthless. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After 5 years of doing this, its my opinion and everyone who disagrees carry on"
Ooo goodie swingers top trumps!!! I laugh at your poxy 5 years and give you 25 years that tell me your opinion is worth jack shit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish you'd said that earlier! I flopped my cock out as my avatar earlier and poor miss knitter almost had a heart attack. The number of messages quadrupled though, so, actually....I don't agree.
Fap ya cock out, men!!!
Oh goodness its still out Steve
I have to provide proof to complete strangers that I'm not a swinger. Otherwise, my whole social life is invalidated and worthless. "
Well don't leave "da beast" out too long its making me feel all funny  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish you'd said that earlier! I flopped my cock out as my avatar earlier and poor miss knitter almost had a heart attack. The number of messages quadrupled though, so, actually....I don't agree.
Fap ya cock out, men!!! "
Yes flop it out, definitely XXX |
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We don't keep our face pics in our public gallery. We send them with messages, on request or on the occasion we partake in face-pic-Friday.
Couldn't give a fuck whether you or others consider us to be wimps. We will continue to post our pics the way we want. |
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"I've changed it to a glass of Merlot.
And you can't beat a good glass of Merlot like you can your junk "
Hahaha!
I think proper swingers need a sense of humour based on my 4 years of shagging about in Brighton |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Steve, have I converted you to a cock pic? Lol
Mine is away and hiding again now, the thread I made didn't go down too well! Haha
Regarding the OP question, it's up th the individual what pics are displayed on profile, and seeing as we have HUNDREDS of 'swingers' round near us, we prefer to keep our faces hidden.
If we speak to anyone and we get along, we may send a pic via message, but Deffo not on public display. |
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"Remember. Just my opinion. This is what We look for all else get deleted. No need to get angry. "
With freedom of speech, which you get in this public forum, also comes an expectation of maturity insofar as responsibility regarding not denigrating others who don't follow what you think is right. An example, calling people 'wimps'. I think rather than getting angry, people are hooting with laughter. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Hello Fab Members. This is csfantasies. I have an issue that needs to be discussed.
When you set up your profile, we don't need to see another dick or pussy, unless you want people sitting at home jerking off to it. If your a true swinger, post a pic or 2 of both of you, face and body. Does not have to be nude. You are a guy, or are hiding something. Rejection is part of the game. I am tired though of always having to ask to see pics. If you want to be noticed post body and face. If your not a swinger, keep posting your dick or pussy.
This is easy as 123. You look at the pics, find attraction, move on to some getting to know each other, if that works plan a date. Don't be afraid. Swinging is the ultimate fantasy, but just do it right.
Thank You"
Or people run their profile how they want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello Fab Members. This is csfantasies. I have an issue that needs to be discussed.
When you set up your profile, we don't need to see another dick or pussy, unless you want people sitting at home jerking off to it. If your a true swinger, post a pic or 2 of both of you, face and body. Does not have to be nude. You are a guy, or are hiding something. Rejection is part of the game. I am tired though of always having to ask to see pics. If you want to be noticed post body and face. If your not a swinger, keep posting your dick or pussy.
This is easy as 123. You look at the pics, find attraction, move on to some getting to know each other, if that works plan a date. Don't be afraid. Swinging is the ultimate fantasy, but just do it right.
Thank You"
In your opinion only. This thread is wrong, it gives the impression that you are fab admin rule makers and newbies might think this is what they have to do.
Sorry but we all have the right to have what we want on our profiles picturewise, so tough to try to you. If you don't like what you see move along. Sounds like you are the Fab police some of us don't want face pictures public, I don't, I go into a school every school day.
So swing off xx |
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"Remember. Just my opinion. This is what We look for all else get deleted. No need to get angry.
With freedom of speech, which you get in this public forum, also comes an expectation of maturity insofar as responsibility regarding not denigrating others who don't follow what you think is right. An example, calling people 'wimps'. I think rather than getting angry, people are hooting with laughter. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After 5 years of doing this, its my opinion and everyone who disagrees carry on"
Stating your opinion is one thing, and yes you are entitled to it but calling out others that don't agree with you is asking for an argument. Many people do not have face pics on display to minimize the risk of discovery by people they don't want to be discovered by. I held a very visible position within a small town recently that, had they dicovered this profile, I would have lost it. Don't know about you but I cannot afford to lose my job. And though the risk may be low, if I can discover this site from my little corner of Kansas, then so can others, and not everyone comes to sites like this with good intentions. Carry on swinging your way and we will do the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Remember. Just my opinion. This is what We look for all else get deleted. No need to get angry.
With freedom of speech, which you get in this public forum, also comes an expectation of maturity insofar as responsibility regarding not denigrating others who don't follow what you think is right. An example, calling people 'wimps'. I think rather than getting angry, people are hooting with laughter.
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I just deleted mine as yours was more of a true swingers answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After 5 years of doing this, its my opinion and everyone who disagrees carry on
The opinion of someone who can't grasp the reply and quote function..
Nah..i'll make my own mind up ta "
Haha I was thinking exactly that! If you don't reply and quote you're not a real swinger.... |
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"Your right in that respect. I just had a couple go off on us for asking for a face pic. Got a bit frustrated. Sorry."
Wine is there just for situations like this.
Hardly anyone will meet without a face pic first but they don't need to show it in public.
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"Your right in that respect. I just had a couple go off on us for asking for a face pic. Got a bit frustrated. Sorry."
So you decided to preach to all.
This makes no sense as you gave pictures so why wold they ask for one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes we show pics in the open gallery other times we choose not to. We pay the fee monthly and as this is our account with Fabswingers we will do what we choose to do, as and when we choose to do it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I cannot show my face for personal reasons.
What's funny tho is if it's a very public & open practice why are the clubs all quite hidden?? Hmm maybe it's to not draw attention & also the clientele feel more comfortable going into them without necessarily being seen.
And the end of the day. When you've got your mouth round a guys cock or his heads between your legs you ain't seeing much of the face are you?
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
Damn, I wondered where I was going wrong in choosing not to be approached when I'm at work or out in my home town on my daily non-swinging business. I wasn't aware that choosing who I share my actual identity with made me less of a 'swinger'. I'll tell the people I meet I'm sorry they didn't see me before they spoke to me. And the regular squeeze I swing with on occasion that I'm not doing it properly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure it's fair to expect face pics on public view. We have ours in our 'friends only gallery', in order to give us a little privacy.
But what is your definition of a 'true swinger'?
The urban dictionary describes swinging as 'a lifestyle of non-monogany where sexual relations occur outside the established couple'. I suspect this is a good description for most couples on this website. |
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"Funny all men replying opposite. Not real couple swingers"
Do we count as real couple swingers and not a photo of any sort in sight?
I notice you hide your verifications though, is that to do with wanting some sort of privacy or are you not real swingers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my opinion. If I see a pretty face or pussy. I am going for the face. Tells me more. We have all different faces but the junk is the same"
Keep your opinion to yourself |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Following the recent press invading swingfields and derogatory commemts in the media, and knowing they probably have access to this site. I prefer not to show many pics on my profile.
If you want to tell people they are not true swingers if they don't show their faces, I might just tell people how foolish they are having any photos at all displayed.
But how people run their own profiles is a personal thing and I would not dream of trying to tell people that my opinion is the right way to do things.
I think you are jolly silly !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your right in that respect. I just had a couple go off on us for asking for a face pic. Got a bit frustrated. Sorry."
It can be a frustrating place. If people are abusive report their mail.
If people won't send face pics they aren't compatible with me so I just stop mailing them and move on. |
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"PS welcome to the forum "
Crikey! A baptism of fire for sure. One thing we've all learned from here is that everyone thinks their own opinion is important, that a glass of wine is better than a cock for a photo and that the past tense of 'learn' is 'learnt'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"PS welcome to the forum
Crikey! A baptism of fire for sure. One thing we've all learned from here is that everyone thinks their own opinion is important, that a glass of wine is better than a cock for a photo and that the past tense of 'learn' is 'learnt'. "
Actual lolling going on here |
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"One thing we've all learned from here is that everyone thinks their own opinion is important, that a glass of wine is better than a cock for a photo and that the past tense of 'learn' is 'learnt'. "
It's learned  |
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"One thing we've all learned from here is that everyone thinks their own opinion is important, that a glass of wine is better than a cock for a photo and that the past tense of 'learn' is 'learnt'.
It's learned "
And this *THWAPPP!!!* is a spank on your bottom  |
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