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How many meets in one week?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do what works for you?
Slut shaming yourself isn't the best way to go about things though!"
I'm not slut shaming myself, just curious after chats with a couple of other people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do what works for you?
Slut shaming yourself isn't the best way to go about things though!
I'm not slut shaming myself, just curious after chats with a couple of other people "
Hm love to have like 2 but maybe like meet those two and have fun nearly everyday xx |
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"Just curious how many meets people would go for in one week? Do people feel sluttish if they have two or three? (With different people) just curious "
I have ranged from nil in a week to three in one long night in three different locations . They were all couples whom I had meet before .
I did not feel sluttish , just needed some rest aferwards . |
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By *aralewisCouple
over a year ago
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We would like more but never goes to plan
Some people arrange and has no intention of turning up
Some msg you till you say can you meet tonight only to be told sorry we can arrange for another time...
I think that slutty talk wrong
Coz if men does it they become studs so why should it be slutty for women..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you everyone
So my weeks planned activities aren't too bad then
But I'm not ashamed/embarrassed about what I do, was just very curious about others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do what works for you?
Slut shaming yourself isn't the best way to go about things though!"
That is a really rude thing to say!
So what if she wants 3 meets every day it's got nothing to do with anyone she just asked a simple question.
Who are you to judge her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just curious how many meets people would go for in one week? Do people feel sluttish if they have two or three? (With different people) just curious "
Meets a week?
I'm lucky if I get one meet a month
Never had to worry about more than one meet a week |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do what works for you?
Slut shaming yourself isn't the best way to go about things though!
That is a really rude thing to say!
So what if she wants 3 meets every day it's got nothing to do with anyone she just asked a simple question.
Who are you to judge her"
I think she's saying don't call yourself a slut. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been known to have 3 different meets within a 24hr period and I have also gone months without having a meet at all.
Do whatever feels right (and if it's not 'right' make sure it's fun). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just curious how many meets people would go for in one week? Do people feel sluttish if they have two or three? (With different people) just curious "
lucky to get 1 a year lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just curious how many meets people would go for in one week? Do people feel sluttish if they have two or three? (With different people) just curious "
I have had three in one week. MMF first then MF then MMFF. Now that was a good week  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do what works for you?
Slut shaming yourself isn't the best way to go about things though!
That is a really rude thing to say!
So what if she wants 3 meets every day it's got nothing to do with anyone she just asked a simple question.
Who are you to judge her
I think she's saying don't call yourself a slut. "
I was saying that the number and frequency of partners and sex that you have being referenced as 'sluttish is a societal concept- of them out there, and not us in here!
Being female and having a strong sexual appetite does not equate to being a 'slut' in swinging, although there is a 'kink' for it as part of BDSM x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I, a year or two ago had two 3somes within an hour of each other.
Had arranged to meet the first couple when another couple I had been chatting too wanted to meet too. The second couple had been trying to meet for a while, so when I told them I already had a meet that day asked me to come anyway. Finished with the first couple, drove 30 minutes to the second and 30 minutes after that was playing with the female while her partner watched.
Not something that has happened since! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Generally we have a minimum threshold but no maximum expressed.
We aim to have a minimum of 1 meet every 90 days, however we have booked 2 in the same week before. One went UNLOS before the day, the other we did proceed with.
Generally because we have scheduling issues and cant always be sure when we are going to be free we are perfectly happy to have a couple in the same week if thats how the timing works out. Wouldnt necessarily do more than that.
But its horses for courses, if you are a single female, or in a couple where your partner is happy with the frequency, do what makes you happy |
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The most I've done (outside group sessions, although this included a couple of 3sums) was 12 in 5 days before Xmas last tear.
Went for 7 fucks in 7 days for a birthday a couple of years ago and the total body count was 11.
Don'tyajustluvit?!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nov to be negative on this post, and I'm sure I don't need to count how much sarcasm has been posted here. I'm having to keep the laughter in whilst I answer.
I could manage 2 or 3. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nov to be negative on this post, and I'm sure I don't need to count how much sarcasm has been posted here. I'm having to keep the laughter in whilst I answer.
I could manage 2 or 3. "
Strange response 
Are you saying people are lying?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nov to be negative on this post, and I'm sure I don't need to count how much sarcasm has been posted here. I'm having to keep the laughter in whilst I answer.
I could manage 2 or 3.
Strange response
Are you saying people are lying? "
Sorry. I've not met anyone. I put that answer above as I laughed thinking how many I could manage if s meet WAS offered. But to be creative, I could have gone with...
1 meet a week would be nice...
1 meet a MONTH would be great...
What is a meet?....
People meet people on here? 
But others had already done that kind of thing. I didn't think anyone was lying. |
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By *pal2Man
over a year ago
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Dont know I go for quality rather than quantity.
Does a gangbang or greedy girls event cout as one meet? If not one meet every now and again and I keep logging in on here whilst I have some work in progress. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It varies massively for me! Occasionally I may have two or more meets in a week - but at least one will often be a social - and some weeks I don't meet at all!
The kids break up soon, for instance, so meets will be few and far between during the holidays! That's the beauty of fab though I think - that you can pick it up and put it down at leisure - without hurting anyone/letting them down! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most for me was the tail end of June for me 5 women, 6 meets in 7 days..... Never again though as I was absolutely wrecked by the end of it.
Normally I see a regular playmate at the weekend then An occasional midweek meet as well, 2 a week is fine for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do something on average about once a month. Usually a party, but sometimes a private meet. We've got kids so it's impractical to meet more frequently than that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never feel slutty for the frequency of my sexual encounters. I can go months without meeting anyone from here,although I do have regular partners I met away from here,who I started see. Most men I had sex with was 7 in 9 days; including a mmf and two separate men in one day. I couldn't do that now,I'd keel over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just curious how many meets people would go for in one week? Do people feel sluttish if they have two or three? (With different people) just curious lucky to get 1 a year lol"
Lol... now I don't feel as bad....thought it was just me x |
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