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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Ok, so the forums are full threads giving advise to men's profiles. And women (including myself) can be quite critical in what they like to see in a profile.

So let's turn this round and give the single men a chance to say what they like to see, and what they look for in a ladies' or couple's profile. What don't they like? What makes them move on to the next profile?

And what photos do men like on ladies' or couple's profiles. Face, bum, legs, pussy? Guys what is your fave? Do men like close-ups of body parts, or more artistic shots? Are close-up open pussies a turn on for a lot of men? Or do some men like something to be left to the imagination? What about clothing, lingerie etc. Do men like action picsof women having sex, giving blowjobs etc?

Guys let us know what you like

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not a big fan of aggressive statuses, e.g. don't mess with me, or I'll rip your cock off! etc.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I used to wonder why women never asked for profile advice and came up with the following..

We are far more articulate

We know what we want

We have boobs

We have arses

We have fannies

Which is why I doubt very much what the content of the profile contains

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By *odareyouMan  over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I say it often... The same principals apply to any demographic regarding the text in a profile .. we're all trying to inform and d attract people

Picture wise .. lingerie, arty , nothing too graphic for me. boobs always work for me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I say it often... The same principals apply to any demographic regarding the text in a profile .. we're all trying to inform and d attract people

Picture wise .. lingerie, arty , nothing too graphic for me. boobs always work for me. "

I'm all about the boobs..won't ever show my nethers tho!

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I think my profile is starting to look like a lingerie catalogue

No full on boobs or pussy shots on mine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The way some women describe themselves and what their looking for, they must actually think their gods gift or something, I don't mind confidence but some ladies portray themselves to be very arrogant, which puts me off regardless of how attractive they are.

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By *igeiaWoman  over a year ago

Bristol

Mine's a mix although I really ought to buy some pastel or pale lingerie; it's definitely missing in the sea of black lingerie and socks. I came to the conclusion long ago that if I post the pics I like and someone else likes them then we're starting out with something in common. As for my profile, I doubt anyone actually reads it. But I wrote it to sum me up so again, if people don't like it then we're not compatible to start with.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Tasteful erotic pictures, leaving the imagination go wild. Not too much negativity about men on this site. Some humour goes down well.

Tattoos help, and a cute bum.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think my profile is starting to look like a lingerie catalogue

No full on boobs or pussy shots on mine "

I'm with you. I will admit to the use of capitals but they made me! Joking aside, I find keeping it simple works well for me. What say you fellas?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I say it often... The same principals apply to any demographic regarding the text in a profile .. we're all trying to inform and d attract people

Picture wise .. lingerie, arty , nothing too graphic for me. boobs always work for me. "

I think you have it spot on

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I say it often... The same principals apply to any demographic regarding the text in a profile .. we're all trying to inform and d attract people

Picture wise .. lingerie, arty , nothing too graphic for me. boobs always work for me.

I think you have it spot on "

My earlier pics were sort of legs and nice clothes. Then I ventured into ligerie and earned a few more Fabs. But when I pop a boob out its amazing how the Fabs come flooding in, even for my modest assets' Yes I think it's fair to say that men do like a boob on display

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And what photos do men like on ladies' or couple's profiles. Face, bum, legs, pussy? Guys what is your fave? Do men like close-ups of body parts, or more artistic shots? Are close-up open pussies a turn on for a lot of men? Or do some men like something to be left to the imagination? What about clothing, lingerie etc. Do men like action picsof women having sex, giving blowjobs etc?

"

Yes...all of that, except for 'leaving something to the imagination'!? This is supposed to be a sex site not blind date!?

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"And what photos do men like on ladies' or couple's profiles. Face, bum, legs, pussy? Guys what is your fave? Do men like close-ups of body parts, or more artistic shots? Are close-up open pussies a turn on for a lot of men? Or do some men like something to be left to the imagination? What about clothing, lingerie etc. Do men like action picsof women having sex, giving blowjobs etc?

Yes...all of that, except for 'leaving something to the imagination'!? This is supposed to be a sex site not blind date!?"

What's blind date got to do with it? If we choose to not have sexually explicit pictures of ourselves on here but have a variety of other one's what are you complaining about?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"And what photos do men like on ladies' or couple's profiles. Face, bum, legs, pussy? Guys what is your fave? Do men like close-ups of body parts, or more artistic shots? Are close-up open pussies a turn on for a lot of men? Or do some men like something to be left to the imagination? What about clothing, lingerie etc. Do men like action picsof women having sex, giving blowjobs etc?

Yes...all of that, except for 'leaving something to the imagination'!? This is supposed to be a sex site not blind date!?"

The imagination can be very sexual though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And what photos do men like on ladies' or couple's profiles. Face, bum, legs, pussy? Guys what is your fave? Do men like close-ups of body parts, or more artistic shots? Are close-up open pussies a turn on for a lot of men? Or do some men like something to be left to the imagination? What about clothing, lingerie etc. Do men like action picsof women having sex, giving blowjobs etc?

Yes...all of that, except for 'leaving something to the imagination'!? This is supposed to be a sex site not blind date!?

The imagination can be very sexual though "

I think that's (traditionally) more of a female thing !

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

So do many guys like to see pussy pics too?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

To be honest would rather see

Erotic pics than woman with

Vibrators and all their

Bits hanging out )

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By *ikeC81Man  over a year ago

harrow

Ummm I don't mind the odd pussy pic, love seeing it with a toy in

I like seeing erotic photos that the photographer has clearly thought about who is looking for example classy your photos some really entice the viewer in

Don't get me wrong I like to see a nice boob and bum and sonetimes action shot

Depends what I want at that time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm personally to shy to put anything to graphic on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I say it often... The same principals apply to any demographic regarding the text in a profile .. we're all trying to inform and d attract people

Picture wise .. lingerie, arty , nothing too graphic for me. boobs always work for me. "

Well articulated...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love a woman's smile and lips. Some of you women on Fab really do have some stunning luscious lips.

Bum shots with sexy lengerie are a favourite of mine along with cleavage shots xx

Simple but very effective.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I say it often... The same principals apply to any demographic regarding the text in a profile .. we're all trying to inform and d attract people

Picture wise .. lingerie, arty , nothing too graphic for me. boobs always work for me.

I'm all about the boobs..won't ever show my nethers tho! "

You have ace pics! Tantalising, and tempting and encourages a person to be intrigued x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Prefer something a bit sexier and elegant looking than just a pussy hanging out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ummm I don't mind the odd pussy pic, love seeing it with a toy in

I like seeing erotic photos that the photographer has clearly thought about who is looking for example classy your photos some really entice the viewer in

Don't get me wrong I like to see a nice boob and bum and sonetimes action shot

Depends what I want at that time "

Ours should suit

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like straightforward profiles which get straight to the point and leave little or no ambiguity. Where pictures are concerned, I always think a woman looks far sexier with some form of apparel, so it gets the viewers imagination going.

And bums will always be a winner for me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Reading profile and browsing pics is too much effort, just wink me and me done with it .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Interesting thread!

I totally agree with the guys who don't like aggressive or arrogant profiles. There are some women whose profiles virtually say 'approach me at your peril'! That's not sexy!

Regarding pics, a pussy pic is rarely that interesting. It's nice if her finger or a dildo or cock is in it as it shows a woman enjoying sex and that's nice. Good lingerie, sexy pose, action shot - all great!

And for face pics - please smile ladies! Pouts may sell for pro models in mags but they often just make a woman look miserable! A natural feminine smile can be bloody alluring!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I absolutely can't stand self degrading attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Interesting thread!

I totally agree with the guys who don't like aggressive or arrogant profiles. There are some women whose profiles virtually say 'approach me at your peril'! That's not sexy!

Regarding pics, a pussy pic is rarely that interesting. It's nice if her finger or a dildo or cock is in it as it shows a woman enjoying sex and that's nice. Good lingerie, sexy pose, action shot - all great!

And for face pics - please smile ladies! Pouts may sell for pro models in mags but they often just make a woman look miserable! A natural feminine smile can be bloody alluring! "

Could say that about cock pics

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By *at69driveMan  over a year ago

Hertford


"So do many guys like to see pussy pics too?"
Pussy pics àll look the same . A partly dressed photo wearing erotic gear is what I find most appealing .

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By *rotiquexxxMan  over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

Women who go in depth about what they want leaves little to the imagination and makes men feel like they cannot live up to your high standards. There's one really fit girl whi I want to talk to but wont because her profile is off putting because she seems sexually ruined and I wouldn't stand a chance with her.

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By *dventurousAlexMan  over a year ago

Ipswich


"I used to wonder why women never asked for profile advice and came up with the following..

We are far more articulate

We know what we want

We have boobs

We have arses

We have fannies

Which is why I doubt very much what the content of the profile contains "

I agree. Women usually have so much more emotional intelligence than most men. Men are often like horny zombies driven by their cock. Plus the dynamics of this type of site mean women have to be more fussy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think a woman in sent lingerie is so much better than showing your pussy.

I'm sorry, but ALOT of ladies rant on their profiles that they don't want to see cock pics as once you've seen one you've seen them all, well, the same goes for us guys ladies. Leaving things to our imagination is better than showing all of the goods on offer

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By *igeiaWoman  over a year ago

Bristol


"I think a woman in sent lingerie is so much better than showing your pussy.

I'm sorry, but ALOT of ladies rant on their profiles that they don't want to see cock pics as once you've seen one you've seen them all, well, the same goes for us guys ladies. Leaving things to our imagination is better than showing all of the goods on offer"

And yet...

Do as I say, not as I do?

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By *dventurousAlexMan  over a year ago

Ipswich

I'm not a fan of the graphic pictures. Love the arty and erotic.

Essentially I want to imagine I could be there with you. Seeing the full body, face if possible and being able to relate to a possible scenario that might happen.

From the profile I want to get a sense of who you are and what you like.

Biggest gripe would be someone who puts no information about them on their profile... especially when they complain about boring messages... with absolutely nothing to go on.

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By *litty Clitty Bang BangMan  over a year ago

widnes

Profiles that insist if no pics on your profile they will not reply/will instantly block you, yet they have no pictures on their profile and very little in the way of words other than stating the above see's me moving on to the next profile. As far as public pics go, i like to see pictures that intrigue me, that trigger my imagination

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Profiles that insist if no pics on your profile they will not reply/will instantly block you, yet they have no pictures on their profile and very little in the way of words other than stating the above see's me moving on to the next profile. "

So true

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'm pretty arty at the moment

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By *arkedMan  over a year ago

Trim


"I think my profile is starting to look like a lingerie catalogue "

And having just perved my way through them I have to say that you would have a stunning catalogue

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The way some women describe themselves and what their looking for, they must actually think their gods gift or something, I don't mind confidence but some ladies portray themselves to be very arrogant, which puts me off regardless of how attractive they are. "

But I am god's gift

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Aggressive profiles aside. There is one thing that I don't like to see in a profile and that is the "legs in the bath" pic.

There. I've said it.

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan  over a year ago

Willenhall

Pics focused purely on feet. I just don't like feet. Just...no.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yeah, I agree with Hantsman!! Agressive / arrogant (sanctimonious type) profiles are huge turn-off!!

Your profile is actually particularly nice / erotic / classy!! I like that xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

...and bad grammar...espescially during a rant!! lol

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By *iganflirt1Man  over a year ago

wigan

Woman begging for their pics to be fabbed is a pet hate of mine.

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By *hiterabbit6Couple  over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray


"Ummm I don't mind the odd pussy pic, love seeing it with a toy in

I like seeing erotic photos that the photographer has clearly thought about who is looking for example classy your photos some really entice the viewer in

Don't get me wrong I like to see a nice boob and bum and sonetimes action shot

Depends what I want at that time "

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By *allipygousMan  over a year ago

Leicester

It really doesn't matter what a single woman's profile is like, it can have no pics and a three word sentence and she'll still get plenty of cock.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It really doesn't matter what a single woman's profile is like, it can have no pics and a three word sentence and she'll still get plenty of cock."

Most of us are after quality not quantity

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Tasteful erotic pictures, leaving the imagination go wild. Not too much negativity about men on this site. Some humour goes down well.

Tattoos help, and a cute bum. "

Definitely this, ticks all my boxes.

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By *requent_FerryersCouple  over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)

We like to see the photos that are provocative without the "spatchcock" presentation of a pussy!

Photos that someone has thought about!

We also like to read what the profile-owner is looking for, any particular likes or dislikes, immediate boundaries, etc.

Oh! And that they like older farts like us!! lol

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By *allipygousMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"It really doesn't matter what a single woman's profile is like, it can have no pics and a three word sentence and she'll still get plenty of cock.

Most of us are after quality not quantity "

Yes, quite a few of you are, but it still doesn't change the fact that you really don't need to make any effort to attract the vast majority of males off this site.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i like a profile to be short and simple saying what they want and when it comes to pictures showing a bit of sexiness like you boobs,ass and a good sex pose does it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I agonise over mine cos it's like war and peace but Im just trying not to waste guys' time. I know how difficult it can be for men on here. Im not demanding and I hope it doesnt read as diva like or aggressive. Im simply trying to get the vital stuff out of the way

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Tbh the quality of the profiles on here, in our experience varies massively on whether it's a single female or a couple. In fact the quality of everything about the person seems to vary based on that fact.

It's a shame since we are primarily about finding bi females for L that single females are so tricky on here. We brought couples in basically because they were actually friendly and decent. As opposed to most of the single females we have messaged who are just completely unworkable.

Profiles wise, in terms of words:

Absolutely nothing puts us off more then egotism. There is nothing wrong with confidence, in fact it's sexy. But a large number of single female profiles on here have gone well past confidence, well past egotism and are sitting around the "kneel before me for I am your God" level of often delusional self assuredness. Mostly we just ignore these profiles.

Others demand full essays in the first message which is not only a waste of time since you don't know if you even pass her attraction threshold, but also sets you up as a try hard before you even start the conversation. And further they usually give you bigger all to go on in terms of where to start. Perhaps they assume that we are the same level of raging narcissist that they are and we should just sent a thesis of how awesome we are. Generally we wouldn't even send anything to these types.

Grammar/spelling/punctuation beyond a certain point is a major drop in points. More for L than for me, I've seen her veto perfectly physically attractive and relatively friendly fems for text speak and general bad English.

Confusing demands are also very off-putting. If we can't figure out exactly what you are here for because your profile is contradictory and convoluted then we can't establish common boundaries.

A list of demands and proclamations longer than Beyonce's rider is an immediate turn off.

Pictures wise, we don't agree that fully explicit is necessarily a bad thing, that's down to personal choice and since a lot of our play is oral we actually like to see what it is we are going to be spending hours with our face buried into. But the standard of the shot is important, quite a few profiles of what are clearly relatively in shape, attractive people are hamstrung by photography that L would describe as "Grim". It's all about the angle and the lighting.

Overall, we like a nice profile that outlines the general area of play a person is looking for, shows as much as they wish to show but with tasteful, well taken photos, and doesn't come across as a screaming narcissistic primadonna or a 5 year old trapped in a grown woman's body.

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By *uck princess and himCouple  over a year ago

washington

Ours is what it is.

Says who we are, says what we want and says what we don't want.

Princess xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

...interesting!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've just changed mine and I try to keep it non ranty and a bit funny and not like war and peace...

At the end of the day I know what I'm looking for but whether I will find it on here remains to be seen

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By *oward1978Man  over a year ago

Rotherham

The arrogant, demanding, shouty profiles with the whiff of entitlement. So incredibly off-putting. Slagging men off in your profile is not good...obviously! Just keep it light and fun...because that's how things around here should be surely. Sometimes they can be a bit too serious sounding. Why would any decent self-respecting man want to run through some Indiana Jones style assault course of a profile in order to just try and get a reply from you?!

Picture wise I'm not too fussed. I like to see a pic where it looks like they've put some effort it. I personally love a pussy pic. I want to see it spread open. I want to see closed. It's a beautiful thing. I'm a man. Why would I not want to see that?! The more graphic the pics the better for me. I don't care for the whole less is more, leave something to the imagination thing, though that has its place and can be equally as stunning. Clothed or naked women are beautiful. I will happily to see it all though Oh and don't put up 20 identical pics of your left nipple. That's a bit silly. If nothing else you have a right nipple you could show! Show a variety of pics.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So i can say anything i like eh?

OK then...P...PP...PPP...Passamaquoddy!

What a classic!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women who go in depth about what they want leaves little to the imagination and makes men feel like they cannot live up to your high standards. There's one really fit girl whi I want to talk to but wont because her profile is off putting because she seems sexually ruined and I wouldn't stand a chance with her. "

Yep...there's alot of this....and if they've hundreds of veries even if they are social ones then it's definitely a no go for me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Honestly i do find it odd that a woman who has pics on her profile with one leg in Wales and the other in Norfolk, holding her pussy lips open to show you a black guys creampie dribbling out of her with two naked white guys in the backgroud who have just shagged her too then says "No cock shots" and "safe sex only"!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Provided all the basic's have been met, age etc, on both sides then I like to see an articulate profile, which I will read first if I am genuinely interested in them. Bad spelling or text speak, will fill in later, or ask me means I pass, as I do if it has to many demands, asking to be fab'd or any mention of renumbering which includes wine and dine, as i have seen before. For me the written word activities the imagination.

The second thing I look at is their verification summary. If they are cam only I also pass. If I want to wank I don't need fab for that. There is a high probability they don't actually meet.

Photos I prefer are non graphic. The ones that really do it for me are the spread leg photos but when they are wearing underwear. To see a cloth covered pussy, knowing what is underneath....just does it for me big time. And the same good for a nice bum. If I am in the mood for graphic then it would have to be a group shot, one female, several men allowing her to enjoy herself. Pussy shots, gaping or otherwise, one you've seen one..... They wouldn't make me pass, but not my preference.

The imagination is the most powerful tool we have and I like to use it where possible, certainly where photos are involved.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think a woman in sent lingerie is so much better than showing your pussy.

I'm sorry, but ALOT of ladies rant on their profiles that they don't want to see cock pics as once you've seen one you've seen them all, well, the same goes for us guys ladies. Leaving things to our imagination is better than showing all of the goods on offer

And yet...

Do as I say, not as I do?"

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Provided all the basic's have been met, age etc, on both sides then I like to see an articulate profile, which I will read first if I am genuinely interested in them. Bad spelling or text speak, will fill in later, or ask me means I pass, as I do if it has to many demands, asking to be fab'd or any mention of renumbering which includes wine and dine, as i have seen before. For me the written word activities the imagination.

The second thing I look at is their verification summary. If they are cam only I also pass. If I want to wank I don't need fab for that. There is a high probability they don't actually meet.

Photos I prefer are non graphic. The ones that really do it for me are the spread leg photos but when they are wearing underwear. To see a cloth covered pussy, knowing what is underneath....just does it for me big time. And the same good for a nice bum. If I am in the mood for graphic then it would have to be a group shot, one female, several men allowing her to enjoy herself. Pussy shots, gaping or otherwise, one you've seen one..... They wouldn't make me pass, but not my preference.

The imagination is the most powerful tool we have and I like to use it where possible, certainly where photos are involved.

"

Another one who shows his cock and yet slags off females showing their private parts

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not slagging off females...

I am slagging off females who slag off males for doing what the female's doing herself

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By *ellblessMan  over a year ago

Berkshire


"The way some women describe themselves and what their looking for, they must actually think their gods gift or something, I don't mind confidence but some ladies portray themselves to be very arrogant, which puts me off regardless of how attractive they are. "

I know exactly what you mean. Not all women but quite a few act like they are some sort of celebrity on here and that their pussy is made of gold (must be 6ft tall,with 9+ cock,must be clean shaven,must smell good,must drive a bugatti ect..) The problem is men do all the chasing so women on here will always win. Think about it, if a guy gets overly picky he probably will only get a few women interested in his profile if any. A female can come on here and not even have one profile pic and get hundreds of messages which is why they bulk delete.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The way some women describe themselves and what their looking for, they must actually think their gods gift or something, I don't mind confidence but some ladies portray themselves to be very arrogant, which puts me off regardless of how attractive they are.

I know exactly what you mean. Not all women but quite a few act like they are some sort of celebrity on here and that their pussy is made of gold (must be 6ft tall,with 9+ cock,must be clean shaven,must smell good,must drive a bugatti ect..) The problem is men do all the chasing so women on here will always win. Think about it, if a guy gets overly picky he probably will only get a few women interested in his profile if any. A female can come on here and not even have one profile pic and get hundreds of messages which is why they bulk delete."

I get what you're saying and agree with the most part...but may differ with the man being overly picky. There are two advantages of that.

1. You get to meet and most likely repeats with those females who are very picky themselves ( lots of benefits there which I won't go into here).

2. It can have the reverse psychology effect....what you can't have you may find some want it even more.

I'vea huge block list which in the area I live you'd think wow....who's left....but it works very very well for me.

so don't be concerned about being overtly picky....There's alot of ladies on here who often you'll not see in forums who like that and are lurking and quietly looking.

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"Provided all the basic's have been met, age etc, on both sides then I like to see an articulate profile, which I will read first if I am genuinely interested in them. Bad spelling or text speak, will fill in later, or ask me means I pass, as I do if it has to many demands, asking to be fab'd or any mention of renumbering which includes wine and dine, as i have seen before. For me the written word activities the imagination.

The second thing I look at is their verification summary. If they are cam only I also pass. If I want to wank I don't need fab for that. There is a high probability they don't actually meet.

Photos I prefer are non graphic. The ones that really do it for me are the spread leg photos but when they are wearing underwear. To see a cloth covered pussy, knowing what is underneath....just does it for me big time. And the same good for a nice bum. If I am in the mood for graphic then it would have to be a group shot, one female, several men allowing her to enjoy herself. Pussy shots, gaping or otherwise, one you've seen one..... They wouldn't make me pass, but not my preference.

The imagination is the most powerful tool we have and I like to use it where possible, certainly where photos are involved.

Another one who shows his cock and yet slags off females showing their private parts "

I don't remember slagging off anyone.

You had to look for that cock pic though! Wasn't in your face!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I just put up what I like. If people like than great, if not, I'm not going to loose sleep over it.

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By *ny1localMan  over a year ago

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"Provided all the basic's have been met, age etc, on both sides then I like to see an articulate profile, which I will read first if I am genuinely interested in them. Bad spelling or text speak, will fill in later, or ask me means I pass, as I do if it has to many demands, asking to be fab'd or any mention of renumbering which includes wine and dine, as i have seen before. For me the written word activities the imagination.

The second thing I look at is their verification summary. If they are cam only I also pass. If I want to wank I don't need fab for that. There is a high probability they don't actually meet.

Photos I prefer are non graphic. The ones that really do it for me are the spread leg photos but when they are wearing underwear. To see a cloth covered pussy, knowing what is underneath....just does it for me big time. And the same good for a nice bum. If I am in the mood for graphic then it would have to be a group shot, one female, several men allowing her to enjoy herself. Pussy shots, gaping or otherwise, one you've seen one..... They wouldn't make me pass, but not my preference.

The imagination is the most powerful tool we have and I like to use it where possible, certainly where photos are involved.

Another one who shows his cock and yet slags off females showing their private parts

I don't remember slagging off anyone.

You had to look for that cock pic though! Wasn't in your face! "

don't see you slagging anyone off either,you just said what you don't like.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love kindness and naughtiness mixed together, love to be teased and to make pictures requests...a great sense of humour and intelligent conversation, not too much on show in pictures as i like to be 'shown/teased' because they want to drive me wild!

Also....bit weird but not too many verifications, i would rather be a treat than just 'another one' also for couples...guys not to hot! On par is good but not a fitness freak as egos tend to come with it usually but not always of course.

First message more than hi, which i think annoys alot of women too..again i could be wrong there but just what i have learnt from the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Provided all the basic's have been met, age etc, on both sides then I like to see an articulate profile, which I will read first if I am genuinely interested in them. Bad spelling or text speak, will fill in later, or ask me means I pass, as I do if it has to many demands, asking to be fab'd or any mention of renumbering which includes wine and dine, as i have seen before. For me the written word activities the imagination.

The second thing I look at is their verification summary. If they are cam only I also pass. If I want to wank I don't need fab for that. There is a high probability they don't actually meet.

Photos I prefer are non graphic. The ones that really do it for me are the spread leg photos but when they are wearing underwear. To see a cloth covered pussy, knowing what is underneath....just does it for me big time. And the same good for a nice bum. If I am in the mood for graphic then it would have to be a group shot, one female, several men allowing her to enjoy herself. Pussy shots, gaping or otherwise, one you've seen one..... They wouldn't make me pass, but not my preference.

The imagination is the most powerful tool we have and I like to use it where possible, certainly where photos are involved.

Another one who shows his cock and yet slags off females showing their private parts

I don't remember slagging off anyone.

You had to look for that cock pic though! Wasn't in your face! "

It was a an observation. Sorry. Perhaps you didn't slag anyone off but you at the very least have double standards!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wasn't this post for the guys to say what they like? Just saying...maybe I misunderstood the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's an open forum. Plenty of other females have commented. As long as site rules aren't broken I don't see your problem. Too much time to moan perhaps

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I hate hypocritical women. Who demand a guy as face pics on his profile but don't have ANY not even in private themselves.

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