"Sorry to be a bit thick, but what exactly is a 'social' in swinging speak?
Thanks"
It's best if you plan to meet someone for a social to just confirm that you both understand what you mean by it because people do assume different things. We always meet socially first and that means a drink and a good old chat  |
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for us a social is meeting someone to see if we all get on and want to play, sometimes a social can be purely social, sometimes it can be what we call a social and see which means if we all get on and want to go play we can, we usually meet at a pub or occasionally at someones house but we prefer to meet in a public place, usually a nice pub that way if the other people are no shows we can still enjoy the night ourselves!
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"So it's a kind of no committment, check each other out meeting before anything else"
That's one type of social. The other is a social gathering orgainsed by one or more fabsters where you get together and socialise |
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Social for us is a meetup, have a drink, a chat and (hopefully) a laugh with no expectations ( or pressure) of play, a way to see if we click. Or a evening filled with 70 fellow swingers in a pub every other month and lots of hard work getting everyone to behave themselves  |
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Meeting up for a drink or coffee - with no intension of playing. It's to out the fakes on here.
Firstly to make sure they are who they say they are - genuine
See if there a connection between both parties
If they turn up for the social and everyone gets on it only adds to the excitement for the next meet.
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"We should of had our first social tonight  but have been let down again, been chatting for 4 weeks now with no meet or pics might be time to move on  "
your more patient then we are 4 weeks ! If someone can't supply face pics within a few days ( if they are new it's understandable they might take some time but not weeks) then more likely they are fantasising or fake. You can always look in your area for organised social events, it's a way to network and ask questions about the local scene as much as find potential playmates |
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Jokes...
just checking they definatley want to fuck you.
Princess xx
