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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm skinny and have no hair on my chest. Do you lot think that's why I struggle here? Sounds silly but all I see is pics of fat hairy guys having a whale of a time. I'm young. I'm fit. But have no belly and no chest hair?... is that my problem?.... (serious question) |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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do you honestly think by comparing yourself to others in such a way is constructive and going to make the difference.
you have met 3 times, what did they see in you and what attracted them
that's actuals, rather than hypotheticals. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's a mixture of a few things, having a good mixture of pics on your profile oh and the way people come across on here and the way you've come on saying that fat guys with hairy chest seem to do well won't go down well on here.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The ones that do ok are the ones that sell themselves best. Irrespective of bellies and hair 
You haven't asked specifically for a profile critique so I won't give one but ask yourself if your profile is the best representation of yourself that you can give?
You seem a decent good looking chap that the ladies would find attractive - and you've had meets before so you must be doing something right!
Sell yourself positively and proactively both in your profile, on the forums and for that matter in your PMs you send to people you're looking to meet and I'm sure the meets will follow!
Good luck fella  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm skinny and have no hair on my chest. Do you lot think that's why I struggle here? Sounds silly but all I see is pics of fat hairy guys having a whale of a time. I'm young. I'm fit. But have no belly and no chest hair?... is that my problem?.... (serious question)"
 Yes it must be that!
Serious answer... Men that do well are those that generally 'sell' themselves the best. Both in their profile & pics and by their messages & forum posts.
It's not because they have chest hair. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm skinny and have no hair on my chest. Do you lot think that's why I struggle here? Sounds silly but all I see is pics of fat hairy guys having a whale of a time. I'm young. I'm fit. But have no belly and no chest hair?... is that my problem?.... (serious question)"
No. Your problem is that you run other people down. |
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"I'm skinny and have no hair on my chest. Do you lot think that's why I struggle here? Sounds silly but all I see is pics of fat hairy guys having a whale of a time. I'm young. I'm fit. But have no belly and no chest hair?... is that my problem?.... (serious question)"
Insulting other guys won't help your case!
More pics on your public profile would help, as would some actual profile text that isn't a rant! |
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