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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How experienced are you if you don't mind me asking? Have you been a Dom for long or are you a newbie cashing in on the 50 Shades phenomenon?
I'm no expert but as I understand it a good Dom / Sub relationship takes time and trust to develop (particularly as I'm guessing it's a female sub you're after?) but I wish you all the best in your search and hope you find what you're looking for  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm just gonna refer you back to the advixe i gave you and the other guy on the other dom thread complaining about lack of success.
Do you think you're comming across as in control, and mindful? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does having a big penis have to do with being a Dom? And exactly what is a super Dom?"
A super Dom is a guy with a big cock who thinks that meeting a woman and face fucking her and fucking her roughly makes him dominant
The harder her fucks the more dominant he is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can only be "Super" if you wear a cape!
If I wear my cape with my dress and high heels does that make me a "super" as well? "
If you wear a cape, you are instanly Super! |
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"What does having a big penis have to do with being a Dom? And exactly what is a super Dom?
A super Dom is a guy with a big cock who thinks that meeting a woman and face fucking her and fucking her roughly makes him dominant
The harder her fucks the more dominant he is "
Silly me I forgot!
I wonder if the lack of blood flow to the brain while maintaining such a large erection is a positive or negative side effect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do wonder if the OP actually knows the true meaning of Dominant...  "
This isn't aimed to the OP but just in general most guys who claim to be Dom actually aren't
Most guys think that because they like rough sex it makes them Dom
Most don't have a care about the woman's needs they just want a face fuck and a shag and they think that asking for a sub women they will get this because subs do as they are told don't they
When really they are just lazy and selfish lovers |
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Totally pissed off with so called "doms" ... We've experienced full on bdsm doms from our other profile on fet sites ... and these guys who state "oh I'm a dom guy".. maybes in your own little hairy palmed world of tossers ... ... its like saying some one is a millionaire .... ... but it's Turkish lira or whatever .. it bears no resemblance to true doms ... please refrain from calling self a dom .. it gives true bdsm people a bad bad vision of fab .. .. .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do wonder if the OP actually knows the true meaning of Dominant...
This isn't aimed to the OP but just in general most guys who claim to be Dom actually aren't
Most guys think that because they like rough sex it makes them Dom
Most don't have a care about the woman's needs they just want a face fuck and a shag and they think that asking for a sub women they will get this because subs do as they are told don't they
When really they are just lazy and selfish lovers "
Also find a lot of bullies disguise try to disguise themselves under the mantle of a Dom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do wonder if the OP actually knows the true meaning of Dominant...
This isn't aimed to the OP but just in general most guys who claim to be Dom actually aren't
Most guys think that because they like rough sex it makes them Dom
Most don't have a care about the woman's needs they just want a face fuck and a shag and they think that asking for a sub women they will get this because subs do as they are told don't they
When really they are just lazy and selfish lovers
Also find a lot of bullies disguise try to disguise themselves under the mantle of a Dom. "
Ffs too much disguising going on there but you know what i mean lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do wonder if the OP actually knows the true meaning of Dominant...
This isn't aimed to the OP but just in general most guys who claim to be Dom actually aren't
Most guys think that because they like rough sex it makes them Dom
Most don't have a care about the woman's needs they just want a face fuck and a shag and they think that asking for a sub women they will get this because subs do as they are told don't they
When really they are just lazy and selfish lovers
Also find a lot of bullies disguise try to disguise themselves under the mantle of a Dom.
Ffs too much disguising going on there but you know what i mean lol"
I know what you mean and I agree
Aggression does not make you a Dom and a lot of these guys are just sexually aggressive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do wonder if the OP actually knows the true meaning of Dominant...
This isn't aimed to the OP but just in general most guys who claim to be Dom actually aren't
Most guys think that because they like rough sex it makes them Dom
Most don't have a care about the woman's needs they just want a face fuck and a shag and they think that asking for a sub women they will get this because subs do as they are told don't they
When really they are just lazy and selfish lovers
Also find a lot of bullies disguise try to disguise themselves under the mantle of a Dom.
Ffs too much disguising going on there but you know what i mean lol
I know what you mean and I agree
Aggression does not make you a Dom and a lot of these guys are just sexually aggressive "
Whilst I agree that aggression doesn't equal Dominant. It does have to be said that sexual aggression is a fetish. I know it's not the same but for some it plays a part in some D/s dynamics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"whats your style of domming?
With a 10" cock you don't need any style 
..10" on its own doesnt do it for me, the man needs my kind of style  "
10 inch full stop does not do it for me
No way would I fuck a cock that size |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"whats your style of domming?
With a 10" cock you don't need any style
..10" on its own doesnt do it for me, the man needs my kind of style
10 inch full stop does not do it for me
No way would I fuck a cock that size "
How about 4" and a nice smile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"whats your style of domming?
With a 10" cock you don't need any style
..10" on its own doesnt do it for me, the man needs my kind of style
10 inch full stop does not do it for me
No way would I fuck a cock that size
How about 4" and a nice smile "
How about a 6" sub, and cookie for £4.99? |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"whats your style of domming?
With a 10" cock you don't need any style
..10" on its own doesnt do it for me, the man needs my kind of style
10 inch full stop does not do it for me
No way would I fuck a cock that size
How about 4" and a nice smile
How about a 6" sub, and cookie for £4.99?"
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"whats your style of domming?
With a 10" cock you don't need any style
..10" on its own doesnt do it for me, the man needs my kind of style
10 inch full stop does not do it for me
No way would I fuck a cock that size "
i have and would again but thats also available as a fucking machine..i need something else |
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Op may be giving us Dom(mes) a bad name x
The last thing I think about when domming a play partner is rough sex
I'm instead getting inside their head and ensuring they are pleasures or denied for my pleasure x
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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago
not far from you.. |
"Does any one need a Dom? 10" super Dom here
You have much to learn/Master about what a real Dom is all about!..
Just saying xhey lovely ..how are you today ? x"
Hello Suzy,
Iam all good & well thanks hun.
How are you lovely?
Xx |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"Does any one need a Dom? 10" super Dom here
You have much to learn/Master about what a real Dom is all about!..
Just saying xhey lovely ..how are you today ? x
Hello Suzy,
Iam all good & well thanks hun.
How are you lovely?
Xx"
almost better thanks..you got me inspired the other day, so thankyou..the contemplation of nurturing a female sub, is still being processed x |
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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago
not far from you.. |
I'm glad your feeling much better!..
Your profile is an interesting read yet so very honest too.Reminded me of me in the early days of searching for a Dom/Master.
I wish you all the luck in finding him or him finding you.
He will be one happy & very lucky Dom/Master!!
Xxx |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"I'm glad your feeling much better!..
Your profile is an interesting read yet so very honest too.Reminded me of me in the early days of searching for a Dom/Master.
I wish you all the luck in finding him or him finding you.
He will be one happy & very lucky Dom/Master!!
Xxx"
i have one, hes not full time but hes great..nah, i meant training a little sub kitty of my own..i dont sub for women x |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"I must be doing it wrong i thought domination was about love, respect understanding, equality that you have for your sub  "
totally this and a willingness to grow and evolve with each other..what you put in you get out...xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must be doing it wrong i thought domination was about love, respect understanding, equality that you have for your sub totally this and a willingness to grow and evolve with each other..what you put in you get out...xx"
Thanks Suzy glad to know i am not going nuts lol |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"I must be doing it wrong i thought domination was about love, respect understanding, equality that you have for your sub totally this and a willingness to grow and evolve with each other..what you put in you get out...xx
Thanks Suzy glad to know i am not going nuts lol "
some people can play casually with sceneing sweet..however thats not for me..if i want casual ill go swinging..BDSM for me requires more commitment and effort otherwise i dont get what i really like and what satisfies me..i find it hard to ask so it takes time to get there basically..but im not everyone..i admire people who can play on the scene, im just not one of them x |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"I must be doing it wrong i thought domination was about love, respect understanding, equality that you have for your sub totally this and a willingness to grow and evolve with each other..what you put in you get out...xx"
Except in gardening. It'd be shit if that happened. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"I must be doing it wrong i thought domination was about love, respect understanding, equality that you have for your sub totally this and a willingness to grow and evolve with each other..what you put in you get out...xx
Except in gardening. It'd be shit if that happened. "
why? i grow my own food..nurturing a plant is very much like nurturing a sub ive found x  |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"I must be doing it wrong i thought domination was about love, respect understanding, equality that you have for your sub totally this and a willingness to grow and evolve with each other..what you put in you get out...xx
Except in gardening. It'd be shit if that happened. why? i grow my own food..nurturing a plant is very much like nurturing a sub ive found x "
You said "you get out what you put in". In gardening, I'm hoping to get considerably more out than I put in. Imagine planting a seed potato to produce...... another potato.... |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"I must be doing it wrong i thought domination was about love, respect understanding, equality that you have for your sub totally this and a willingness to grow and evolve with each other..what you put in you get out...xx
Except in gardening. It'd be shit if that happened. why? i grow my own food..nurturing a plant is very much like nurturing a sub ive found x
You said "you get out what you put in". In gardening, I'm hoping to get considerably more out than I put in. Imagine planting a seed potato to produce...... another potato...."
you only get one potato when you plant one potato..you need some serious horticulture training young man ;~0 xx |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"I must be doing it wrong i thought domination was about love, respect understanding, equality that you have for your sub totally this and a willingness to grow and evolve with each other..what you put in you get out...xx
Except in gardening. It'd be shit if that happened. why? i grow my own food..nurturing a plant is very much like nurturing a sub ive found x
You said "you get out what you put in". In gardening, I'm hoping to get considerably more out than I put in. Imagine planting a seed potato to produce...... another potato....you only get one potato when you plant one potato..you need some serious horticulture training young man ;~0 xx"
What potatoes have you been growing?
I'd expect up to 10 tubers off one plant (unless I'm growing them using the "stacking up typres" method, in which case I'd expect considerably more).
Do you also only get one bean for every bean you plant?  |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"I must be doing it wrong i thought domination was about love, respect understanding, equality that you have for your sub totally this and a willingness to grow and evolve with each other..what you put in you get out...xx
Except in gardening. It'd be shit if that happened. why? i grow my own food..nurturing a plant is very much like nurturing a sub ive found x
You said "you get out what you put in". In gardening, I'm hoping to get considerably more out than I put in. Imagine planting a seed potato to produce...... another potato....you only get one potato when you plant one potato..you need some serious horticulture training young man ;~0 xx
What potatoes have you been growing?
I'd expect up to 10 tubers off one plant (unless I'm growing them using the "stacking up typres" method, in which case I'd expect considerably more).
Do you also only get one bean for every bean you plant? "
no you went into the whole i only get one potato for a potato analogy...geez
so what to you want for your bushel of potatoes?.. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"It's a shame you're not bisexual. I'm always on the lookout for reasonably local dominant men that are around my own age."
hey but he knows how to grow potatoes..hehe got to be a bonus..right? you wont starve |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I must be doing it wrong i thought domination was about love, respect understanding, equality that you have for your sub totally this and a willingness to grow and evolve with each other..what you put in you get out...xx
Thanks Suzy glad to know i am not going nuts lol some people can play casually with sceneing sweet..however thats not for me..if i want casual ill go swinging..BDSM for me requires more commitment and effort otherwise i dont get what i really like and what satisfies me..i find it hard to ask so it takes time to get there basically..but im not everyone..i admire people who can play on the scene, im just not one of them x"
I agree i need to have a cinnection and get to know someone the trust has to be both ways |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I must be doing it wrong i thought domination was about love, respect understanding, equality that you have for your sub totally this and a willingness to grow and evolve with each other..what you put in you get out...xx
Thanks Suzy glad to know i am not going nuts lol some people can play casually with sceneing sweet..however thats not for me..if i want casual ill go swinging..BDSM for me requires more commitment and effort otherwise i dont get what i really like and what satisfies me..i find it hard to ask so it takes time to get there basically..but im not everyone..i admire people who can play on the scene, im just not one of them x
I agree i need to have a cinnection and get to know someone the trust has to be both ways "
totally, for me also.. although experienced dom is something i need otherwise i tend to railroad..protocol tends to help with this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I must be doing it wrong i thought domination was about love, respect understanding, equality that you have for your sub "
You're not doing it wrong - you're just blind to the fact that people have preferences and want to play a different way to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"whats your style of domming?
With a 10" cock you don't need any style
..10" on its own doesnt do it for me, the man needs my kind of style
10 inch full stop does not do it for me
No way would I fuck a cock that size
How about 4" and a nice smile
How about a 6" sub, and cookie for £4.99?"
Deal, grab your coat you've pulled |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I must be doing it wrong i thought domination was about love, respect understanding, equality that you have for your sub
You're not doing it wrong - you're just blind to the fact that people have preferences and want to play a different way to you."
blind is harsh.maybe hes just never thought about playing casually with it..it doesnt come into everyone's field of vision or possibility automatically wasp x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I must be doing it wrong i thought domination was about love, respect understanding, equality that you have for your sub
You're not doing it wrong - you're just blind to the fact that people have preferences and want to play a different way to you.
blind is harsh.maybe hes just never thought about playing casually with it..it doesnt come into everyone's field of vision or possibility automatically wasp x"
Not as harsh as his statement implying that people who are into playing casually with BDSM don't have respect, understanding, or equality. |
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By *uzy444Woman
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"I must be doing it wrong i thought domination was about love, respect understanding, equality that you have for your sub
You're not doing it wrong - you're just blind to the fact that people have preferences and want to play a different way to you.
blind is harsh.maybe hes just never thought about playing casually with it..it doesnt come into everyone's field of vision or possibility automatically wasp x
Not as harsh as his statement implying that people who are into playing casually with BDSM don't have respect, understanding, or equality."
did he say that? directly? i didnt see that..not like you to be so 'on it' but ok if thats what you read xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sorry i wasnt knocking anyones preferences just what works for and what it means to me for that i do not apologise.
Not looking to upset anyone or start an argument. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I must be doing it wrong i thought domination was about love, respect understanding, equality that you have for your sub
You're not doing it wrong - you're just blind to the fact that people have preferences and want to play a different way to you.
blind is harsh.maybe hes just never thought about playing casually with it..it doesnt come into everyone's field of vision or possibility automatically wasp x
Not as harsh as his statement implying that people who are into playing casually with BDSM don't have respect, understanding, or equality.did he say that? directly? i didnt see that..not like you to be so 'on it' but ok if thats what you read xx"
Sorry i dont let things normally get to me but ive not implied that at all whether casual or not it should be the same if my post caused you offence it was not my intention |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does any one need a Dom? 10" super Dom here
Can I ask what a 'super Dom' is?
Oh please can someone let me know what a super Dom is ? I would love to meet one lol "
It's like a normal Dom, but with a cape! |
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