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over a year ago
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Had someone get annoyed when I said that if they met me it would have to be covered as they had been with someone with lots of verifications - am I wrong to insist? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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oh condoms, ffs i should just go back to bed, my brain is dying and.
nothing wrong with saying what you want. if they don't like it then just don't bother with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had someone get annoyed when I said that if they met me it would have to be covered as they had been with someone with lots of verifications - am I wrong to insist? "
Surely you could have said no glove no live without mentioning the veris number.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what you mean covered? like under a blanket or something. 
I think that would have made for a good thread.  "
i'm half asleep lol. honestly pictured someone being taken out under a blanket for social. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should use them anyway ffs! Only takes once you know ......"
Nah, once you've caught a few nasties you can stop worrying about them and it takes the stress out of meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Should use them anyway ffs! Only takes once you know ......
Nah, once you've caught a few nasties you can stop worrying about them and it takes the stress out of meeting "
Ahhhh yes ha ha sharing is caring lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Should use them anyway ffs! Only takes once you know ......
Nah, once you've caught a few nasties you can stop worrying about them and it takes the stress out of meeting
Ahhhh yes ha ha sharing is caring lol "
Every cloud has a silver lining... or a green mouldy one in this case |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had someone get annoyed when I said that if they met me it would have to be covered as they had been with someone with lots of verifications - am I wrong to insist? "
So you if you meet someone with a few veries you take the spunk but not if they have over x number ?  |
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"what you mean covered? like under a blanket or something.
I think that would have made for a good thread.
i'm half asleep lol. honestly pictured someone being taken out under a blanket for social. "
Wanky under the blanky? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what you mean covered? like under a blanket or something.
I think that would have made for a good thread.
i'm half asleep lol. honestly pictured someone being taken out under a blanket for social.
Wanky under the blanky?"
haha, please don't make me visualise anything else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had someone get annoyed when I said that if they met me it would have to be covered as they had been with someone with lots of verifications - am I wrong to insist?
So you if you meet someone with a few veries you take the spunk but not if they have over x number ? "
Yeah that's our policy, but only anal creampie so there's no risk of pregnancy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Barebacking is popular in swinging, mostly with couples, but yes use a sock, just in case lol."
In the days of old, when knights were bold and condoms weren't invented; the grabbed their socks and wrapped them round their cock and babies were prevented |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm riddled with STIs. If you reply to this post now you'll catch herpes.
already got aids here, i might as well reply."
I don't have anything more serious than gangrene |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No, what I meant was that I wanted them to use protection regardless but when they questioned why I mentioned that they had been with people who insisted on bare (amongst others) and I wanted to be safe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No, what I meant was that I wanted them to use protection regardless but when they questioned why I mentioned that they had been with people who insisted on bare (amongst others) and I wanted to be safe."
Don't take this the wrong way but are you seriously considering fucking someone who demands an explanation for why you want to use condoms? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm riddled with STIs. If you reply to this post now you'll catch herpes.
already got aids here, i might as well reply.
I don't have anything more serious than gangrene "
sorry you now have aids and herpes. and i have gangrene.
that's how it works. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Barebacking is popular in swinging, mostly with couples, but yes use a sock, just in case lol.
In the days of old, when knights were bold and condoms weren't invented; the grabbed their socks and wrapped them round their cock and babies were prevented"
Yes and now too, couples openly talk about it on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Barebacking is popular in swinging, mostly with couples, but yes use a sock, just in case lol.
In the days of old, when knights were bold and condoms weren't invented; the grabbed their socks and wrapped them round their cock and babies were preventedYes and now too, couples openly talk about it on here."
Have they no shame |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No, what I meant was that I wanted them to use protection regardless but when they questioned why I mentioned that they had been with people who insisted on bare (amongst others) and I wanted to be safe."
Oh right. Tell him you have to use them because you have gonorrhea  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many in what period of time do you consider lots? Would you not mind going without protection if he had only met women with one verification each?
5,000 of them "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Barebacking is popular in swinging, mostly with couples, but yes use a sock, just in case lol.
In the days of old, when knights were bold and condoms weren't invented; the grabbed their socks and wrapped them round their cock and babies were preventedYes and now too, couples openly talk about it on here.
Have they no shame"
I don't think they do lol x. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't entirely agree that if you have lots of verifications,that makes you a higher risk of having a std.."
Depends if you are talking about the individual or probabilistically |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Surely if you only have one partner who only meets you there is little chance of catching something.
If you meet someone who has loads of partners and they subsequently have loads of partners then aren't you talking about having exposure to hundreds of people, most of whom you don't know? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely if you only have one partner who only meets you there is little chance of catching something.
If you meet someone who has loads of partners and they subsequently have loads of partners then aren't you talking about having exposure to hundreds of people, most of whom you don't know?"
Yes that's the probabilistic conclusion and you stated it correctly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely if you only have one partner who only meets you there is little chance of catching something.
If you meet someone who has loads of partners and they subsequently have loads of partners then aren't you talking about having exposure to hundreds of people, most of whom you don't know?"
Risk taking is about probability. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are right to insist on condoms. But that should be irrespective of their sexual history. I think it's best not to comment on people's sexual history, and just assume that everybody has multiple partners. |
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