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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do swingers on fab have a secret code or signal they use when out in public to let other swingers know we both play in the same naughty world of swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No they don't. Some wag will be along in a minute to tell you its the sign of a fish on their car though. 
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Or pampas grass in their front garden 
Mind you, my first apartment had some....maybe that was a sign |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most fabbers would baulk at the thought of being approached out in public, I would also, it's very much an invasion of privacy and awfully indiscreet. If you see someone then send them a message on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have to hit them round the head with a pampas while shaking your ankle bracelet like a morris dancer and shouting "oh what a FAB time we're all having!"
Thought I'd get them all in at once "
And there's us stood in asda, standing on one leg, left hand on our heads waiting for someone to come and do the secret handshake! 
Wondered why we've not had any luck, we've been doing it wrong! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No they don't. Some wag will be along in a minute to tell you its the sign of a fish on their car though.
Or pampas grass in their front garden
Mind you, my first apartment had some....maybe that was a sign"
I have pampas grass!  |
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"I just flirt with woman of ever couple I see in the bar. Either I'm going to get beat up by the husband/boyfriend or I'm going to have some great sex "
If it was us it might get a little rough but not violent... |
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We are a hot wife with often chastity locked hubby. I, the wife wears an ankle bracelet with hubbys key attached when out in the pub or Club etc. A few knowing people have noticed this. And yes on rear occasions this has introduced us to new people |
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"I just flirt with woman of ever couple I see in the bar. Either I'm going to get beat up by the husband/boyfriend or I'm going to have some great sex
If it was us it might get a little rough but not violent... "
Perfect! Love watching the wife getting chatted up |
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"I just flirt with woman of ever couple I see in the bar. Either I'm going to get beat up by the husband/boyfriend or I'm going to have some great sex
If it was us it might get a little rough but not violent...
Perfect! Love watching the wife getting chatted up"
Me too...  |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"We have a chameleon on the caravan. ...front and back ..... And use fab a lot if we fancy a couple. X"
i so want the chameleon to be the new swinger symbol..oh please id even have a tattoo..if this was the case...enlighten me is it your thing or does it stand for something? x
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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Signs of a fab swinger in public - They'll be the touch screen phone droids incessantly updating their profile status message telling everyone how much of an amazing sexy time their having, updating their profile status.
It's no longer pampas grass or fems of cpls with ankle bracelets |
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I think cos chameleons do change identity (colour) and blend in quietly with out shouting about it, and also the club chameleons but not entirely sure. Seem to notice it discreetly at house party's , on the wall or little ornament xx |
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We've tried most things - Chameleons wristbands, black rings, the 'swingpin' symbol, but the only way we've played with strangers outside of clubs and parties has been to raise the subject of swinging during conversation. Obviously we don't come straight out at the start and say "do you swing?" but you often get the vibes that others may be swingers and steer the conversation around to the subject. Sometimes you get the reply "no!" but it's nice when the others say yes, and you go and play. |
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"Do swingers on fab have a secret code or signal they use when out in public to let other swingers know we both play in the same naughty world of swinging "
I see it as like in LGBT+, you can be out or in the closet. I'm an out swinger, its better that way. Although I actually see it as polyamory really as I personally always hope each meet will lead to a full relationship, and if the other person only wants casual sex that is their stuff to deal with, nothing to do with me. This guards me from the pitfall of sex addiction. |
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"Do swingers on fab have a secret code or signal they use when out in public to let other swingers know we both play in the same naughty world of swinging
I see it as like in LGBT+, you can be out or in the closet. I'm an out swinger, its better that way. Although I actually see it as polyamory really as I personally always hope each meet will lead to a full relationship, and if the other person only wants casual sex that is their stuff to deal with, nothing to do with me. This guards me from the pitfall of sex addiction."
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Do swingers on fab have a secret code or signal they use when out in public to let other swingers know we both play in the same naughty world of swinging
I see it as like in LGBT+, you can be out or in the closet. I'm an out swinger, its better that way. Although I actually see it as polyamory really as I personally always hope each meet will lead to a full relationship, and if the other person only wants casual sex that is their stuff to deal with, nothing to do with me. This guards me from the pitfall of sex addiction."
love this description..thankyou for putting it into words xx |
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"Do swingers on fab have a secret code or signal they use when out in public to let other swingers know we both play in the same naughty world of swinging
I see it as like in LGBT+, you can be out or in the closet. I'm an out swinger, its better that way. Although I actually see it as polyamory really as I personally always hope each meet will lead to a full relationship, and if the other person only wants casual sex that is their stuff to deal with, nothing to do with me. This guards me from the pitfall of sex addiction.love this description..thankyou for putting it into words xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do swingers on fab have a secret code or signal they use when out in public to let other swingers know we both play in the same naughty world of swinging "
Certainly.
But they are secret.
So no one will ever know.
If they were public, everyone and his dog would know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That was her not me lol
Im still in trouble for my 'nip tat worse than childbirth' comment...oops
Re hidden symbols
We both have the BDSM symbol as tats in plain sight....
99.99999999% of people have no clue what it is..... |
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"Do swingers on fab have a secret code or signal they use when out in public to let other swingers know we both play in the same naughty world of swinging
I see it as like in LGBT+, you can be out or in the closet. I'm an out swinger, its better that way. Although I actualloy see it as polyamory really as I personally always hope each meet will lead to a full relationship, and if the other person only wants casual sex that is their stuff to deal with, nothing to do with me. This guards me from the pitfall of sex addiction."
I do enjoy casual sex occasionally though if its hot and feels right. |
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"Do swingers on fab have a secret code or signal they use when out in public to let other swingers know we both play in the same naughty world of swinging
I see it as like in LGBT+, you can be out or in the closet. I'm an out swinger, its better that way. Although I actualloy see it as polyamory really as I personally always hope each meet will lead to a full relationship, and if the other person only wants casual sex that is their stuff to deal with, nothing to do with me. This guards me from the pitfall of sex addiction.
I do enjoy casual sex occasionally though if its hot and feels right."
I believe its up to the individual to decide on their own boundaries, when they feel their having too much. |
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