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"Sorry about the heading. GUSHING!" Too late lol | |||
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"Just wondering seen as its such a big thing now asked by men. Is it possible to be taught to gush or not.
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Raven"It's very easy just stimulate the g spot with your fingers.I have made 4 girls gush for the first time they loved it. | |||
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"Just wondering seen as its such a big thing now asked by men. Is it possible to be taught to gush or not.
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Raven
It's very easy just stimulate the g spot with your fingers.I have made 4 girls gush for the first time they loved it."How do you stimulate it? | |||
"Just wondering seen as its such a big thing now asked by men. Is it possible to be taught to gush or not.
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Raven
It's very easy just stimulate the g spot with your fingers.I have made 4 girls gush for the first time they loved it.
How do you stimulate it? "From my experience of men trying to do this by finger bashing | |||
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"Sorry about the heading. GUSHING! Too late lol " | |||
"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush. Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS! "I'm not a fan either Don't even feel good its just the visual effect men like Get your head down there and give me a real orgasm you lazy bastard | |||
"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush. Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS! "yeah had that with no sucess just hurt | |||
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"The joys of porn."  | |||
"Just wondering seen as its such a big thing now asked by men. Is it possible to be taught to gush or not.
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Raven"Hi Raven This is most favourite like, but I'm my experiences over the years, a gushing female / Squirters can be coaxed / massaged in right area on her pelvis area which aids it, but I am no expert I just adore being on receiving end ......I have managed to make a women squirt whilst licking her clit that was cool  | |||
"Just wondering seen as its such a big thing now asked by men. Is it possible to be taught to gush or not.
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Raven
It's very easy just stimulate the g spot with your fingers.I have made 4 girls gush for the first time they loved it.
How do you stimulate it?
From my experience of men trying to do this by finger bashing "You use 2 fingers in a stroking motion back and forth then speed it up apply more pressure then gush | |||
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"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush. Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!
I'm not a fan either
Agree!
Don't even feel good its just the visual effect men like
Get your head down there and give me a real orgasm you lazy bastard " | |||
"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush. Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!
I'm not a fan either
Don't even feel good its just the visual effect men like
Get your head down there and give me a real orgasm you lazy bastard "Pahahaha many can't even do that right either | |||
"I have no desire to try it" Gutted  | |||
"Just wondering seen as its such a big thing now asked by men. Is it possible to be taught to gush or not.
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Raven
It's very easy just stimulate the g spot with your fingers.I have made 4 girls gush for the first time they loved it.
How do you stimulate it?
From my experience of men trying to do this by finger bashing
You use 2 fingers in a stroking motion back and forth then speed it up apply more pressure then gush"easier said then done | |||
"I suppose it bother me because its something i cant do and im not comforable with that. "It's not an orgasm It does not feel great Honest don't stress it I stop guys if they try and make me gush, I dislike it so don't let them do it All it is is a few mins of finger ramming and a wet feeling | |||
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"I have no desire to try it Gutted "If you want me to pee over your bedding and furniture then fair enough,but it's not happening over mine ok 
Disclaimer: I don't know what the fluid is  | |||
"I have no desire to try it Gutted
If you want me to pee over your bedding and furniture then fair enough,but it's not happening over mine ok
Disclaimer: I don't know what the fluid is "My flat is infurnished love, living the minimalist lifestyle | |||
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"I have no desire to try it Gutted
If you want me to pee over your bedding and furniture then fair enough,but it's not happening over mine ok
Disclaimer: I don't know what the fluid is
My flat is infurnished love, living the minimalist lifestyle "What no bed?! | |||
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"I have no desire to try it Gutted
If you want me to pee over your bedding and furniture then fair enough,but it's not happening over mine ok
Disclaimer: I don't know what the fluid is
My flat is infurnished love, living the minimalist lifestyle
What no bed?! "Nope | |||
"Who cares. Why are men putting themselves and us under so much pressure?" Well to be fair thats a bit of a daft question, im presuming that its the female half of the couple thats posting because i cant imagine a man ever asking it. Men are putting themselves under so much pressure because they are in the weaker market position when it comes to this game. We are the selected, not the selector. So its all a competetive open market and its us who have the pressure on to complete and succeed. | |||
"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush. Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!
I'm not a fan either
Don't even feel good its just the visual effect men like
Get your head down there and give me a real orgasm you lazy bastard " completely agree! | |||
"I have no desire to try it Gutted "I'll gush on u no problem  | |||
"Who cares. Why are men putting themselves and us under so much pressure? Well to be fair thats a bit of a daft question, im presuming that its the female half of the couple thats posting because i cant imagine a man ever asking it. Men are putting themselves under so much pressure because they are in the weaker market position when it comes to this game. We are the selected, not the selector. So its all a competetive open market and its us who have the pressure on to complete and succeed. " So you thrusting about trying to make the lady gush makes for great sex? How many times have I read in different post how sex was crap. If a chap wants to impress then go with the flow. Make the sex impressive not a goal. A woman can't be forcefully made to gush! | |||
"I have no desire to try it Gutted
If you want me to pee over your bedding and furniture then fair enough,but it's not happening over mine ok
Disclaimer: I don't know what the fluid is
My flat is infurnished love, living the minimalist lifestyle
What no bed?!
Nope "Not even a mattress?! | |||
"I have no desire to try it Gutted
I'll gush on u no problem "Can you reach Chester from Dublin ? | |||
" So you thrusting about trying to make the lady gush makes for great sex? How many times have I read in different post how sex was crap. If a chap wants to impress then go with the flow. Make the sex impressive not a goal. A woman can't be forcefully made to gush!" Well ultimately what makes for great sex varies completely from woman to woman. Different strokes (Literally) for different folks. But ultimately how is a person meant to make sex "impressive" but not a "goal" Im not suggesting that men should absolutely focus on this one factor to the detriment of all others, but that doesnt mean i cant understand their thought process. Ultimately a lot of men, myself for a time included, presumed that a squirt was the ultimate expression of female pleasure, that it was a different category of orgasm and must therefore be infinitely more pleasurable than otherwise. I understand now this is not necessarily the case, but its a nuonced understanding that many men simply lack, especially those who havent a great deal of experience either in sex or in holding open dialogue with their sexual partners. But at the end of the day, particularly a first meet with a girl is effectively an audition. She's Simon Cowell, he's the person standing behind the mic. And if he believes that a squirt is the ultimate orgasm, and that in essence his ability to please her is going to be the factor that gets him through to the next round; which it will be; of course he's going to make it a goal. As for your final sentence, whether a woman can be forcefully made to gush, i respectfully disagree, she absolutely can, might take a lot but it can be done. Thats just a very distinct question from whether it SHOULD be done. | |||
"I have no desire to try it Gutted
If you want me to pee over your bedding and furniture then fair enough,but it's not happening over mine ok
Disclaimer: I don't know what the fluid is
My flat is infurnished love, living the minimalist lifestyle
What no bed?!
Nope
Not even a mattress?! "Not even walls haha I live like Thoreau in Walden or Alex Supertramp in into the wild, yet I have internet | |||
"I have no desire to try it Gutted
I'll gush on u no problem
Can you reach Chester from Dublin ? "I can try | |||
"I have no desire to try it Gutted
I'll gush on u no problem
Can you reach Chester from Dublin ?
I can try "I will let the window open and wait for it | |||
"I have no desire to try it Gutted
If you want me to pee over your bedding and furniture then fair enough,but it's not happening over mine ok
Disclaimer: I don't know what the fluid is
My flat is infurnished love, living the minimalist lifestyle
What no bed?!
Nope
Not even a mattress?!
Not even walls haha I live like Thoreau in Walden or Alex Supertramp in into the wild, yet I have internet "Your homeless aren't you | |||
"I have no desire to try it Gutted
If you want me to pee over your bedding and furniture then fair enough,but it's not happening over mine ok
Disclaimer: I don't know what the fluid is
My flat is infurnished love, living the minimalist lifestyle
What no bed?!
Nope
Not even a mattress?!
Not even walls haha I live like Thoreau in Walden or Alex Supertramp in into the wild, yet I have internet
Your homeless aren't you "And full of shit, no pun intended  | |||
"I have no desire to try it Gutted
If you want me to pee over your bedding and furniture then fair enough,but it's not happening over mine ok
Disclaimer: I don't know what the fluid is
My flat is infurnished love, living the minimalist lifestyle
What no bed?!
Nope
Not even a mattress?!
Not even walls haha I live like Thoreau in Walden or Alex Supertramp in into the wild, yet I have internet
Your homeless aren't you
And full of shit, no pun intended "This thread is about gushing not poo poo  | |||
"I have no desire to try it Gutted
If you want me to pee over your bedding and furniture then fair enough,but it's not happening over mine ok
Disclaimer: I don't know what the fluid is
My flat is infurnished love, living the minimalist lifestyle
What no bed?!
Nope
Not even a mattress?!
Not even walls haha I live like Thoreau in Walden or Alex Supertramp in into the wild, yet I have internet
Your homeless aren't you
And full of shit, no pun intended
This thread is about gushing not poo poo "Shall I shut up then ? | |||
" And full of shit, no pun intended
This thread is about gushing not poo poo
Shall I shut up then ? "Yes,poo talk is not allowed  | |||
"I suppose it bother me because its something i cant do and im not comforable with that. "I'm a gusher / squirter and tbh it's not something that happens everytime we have sex and I'm pleased it's not. My hubby can make me gush by either using his fingers or simply through penetration - but it all depends on the situation and how horny I am as to whether I will gush. It's not an orgasm and I rarely have an orgasm if I gush and definitely prefer to come lol I tend to stop other guys trying to make me gush as they usually use the finger bashing method and it's not always pleasant. Men probably can make girls gush but think the situation has to be right and all involved need to be completely relaxed and comfortable with each other x | |||
"I have no desire to try it Gutted
I'll gush on u no problem
Can you reach Chester from Dublin ?
I can try
I will let the window open and wait for it "Grand ha | |||
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"So we have to give a woman an orgasm and make her gush now?? That's me f#$ked I can't multitask " And you must have a big cock as well | |||
"So we have to give a woman an orgasm and make her gush now?? That's me f#$ked I can't multitask " Lol | |||
"So we have to give a woman an orgasm and make her gush now?? That's me f#$ked I can't multitask And you must have a big cock as well " That's definitely me f$#ked lol | |||
"Just wondering seen as its such a big thing now asked by men. Is it possible to be taught to gush or not.
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Raven
It's very easy just stimulate the g spot with your fingers.I have made 4 girls gush for the first time they loved it.
How do you stimulate it?
From my experience of men trying to do this by finger bashing "Takes away the fun when a man thinks he can make you when you've already said u cantons they proceed to punch your fanny in trying .
And I maintain its pee! | |||
"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush. Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!
I'm not a fan either
Don't even feel good its just the visual effect men like
Get your head down there and give me a real orgasm you lazy bastard "It's amazing how many guys thing that it is an orgasm. It truly isn't. | |||
"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush. Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!
I'm not a fan either
Don't even feel good its just the visual effect men like
Get your head down there and give me a real orgasm you lazy bastard
It's amazing how many guys thing that it is an orgasm. It truly isn't." | |||
"Who cares. Why are men putting themselves and us under so much pressure?" Sorry, just sent this privately to you in error (engaging brain and pressing right button): Totally agree. | |||
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"I suppose it bother me because its something i cant do and im not comforable with that. "Don't worry about it. I didn't do it until a man bashed the fuck out of my urethra through my vaginal wall. I ended up with a 6 week kidney infection and a weakened uretha. | |||
"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush. Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!
I'm not a fan either
Don't even feel good its just the visual effect men like
Get your head down there and give me a real orgasm you lazy bastard
It's amazing how many guys thing that it is an orgasm. It truly isn't."My orgasms sometimes leave a damp patch,because the natural fluids my body secretes have oozed out during penetration. No soaked beds when I orgasm. | |||
"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush. Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!
I'm not a fan either
Don't even feel good its just the visual effect men like
Get your head down there and give me a real orgasm you lazy bastard
It's amazing how many guys thing that it is an orgasm. It truly isn't.
My orgasms sometimes leave a damp patch,because the natural fluids my body secretes have oozed out during penetration. No soaked beds when I orgasm. "Exactly..it's funny but I've spoken to loads of female friends who fake orgasms when they squirt because they think that's what they are. Once there was 20 of us in the pub having a joke and a laugh and it turned out that less than half of us had ever had a proper orgasm. Most had faked it and hardly any of them had toys. I ended up being the group sexpert! Now all of them them have love honey accounts and learnt to climax themselves. | |||
"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush. Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!
I'm not a fan either
Don't even feel good its just the visual effect men like
Get your head down there and give me a real orgasm you lazy bastard "Lol. | |||
"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush. Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS!
I'm not a fan either
Don't even feel good its just the visual effect men like
Get your head down there and give me a real orgasm you lazy bastard
It's amazing how many guys thing that it is an orgasm. It truly isn't."Victims of popular propaganda I'm afraid. Gushing / squirting from a medical point of view is the release of fluid from the bladder. Nothing to do with orgasm other than loss of muscle control in that area. | |||
"Just wondering seen as its such a big thing now asked by men. Is it possible to be taught to gush or not.
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Raven"Well I was made to gush for the first time by one of my early lovers on the swing scene. Then after a few more times I figu_ed out how I did it, so I was able to bring it on faster. Now it's me teaching men how to make me gush. The man must have long fingers though. | |||
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"I get messages saying that they can make any woman gush. Not this one he can't. I don't do that aggressive finger hammering thing they like to try, it hurts FFS! "This!
Gushing appears to be the latest 'thing'! From what I can gather from conversations I've had with other women, some guys seem to see it as a challenge or a badge of honour, and sometimes don't even bother asking if a woman enjoys it or wants to try it.
Personally, I've never gushed and have no compulsion to try...besides which, being punched in the cunt isn't exactly my idea of fun!
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"Ok.. A bit confused.com here... Gushing is same thing with squirting..? " Not supposed to be. A squirt is a jet,a gush gushes. Some women say it comes from inside the vagina,some from the urethra but it's not urine. I say,let me enjoy my juicy sex without making me flood the bed. | |||
"Ok.. A bit confused.com here... Gushing is same thing with squirting..? Not supposed to be. A squirt is a jet,a gush gushes. Some women say it comes from inside the vagina,some from the urethra but it's not urine. I say,let me enjoy my juicy sex without making me flood the bed." ... Still confused... So the fingering g spot stimulation is for squirt... So how make that gushing thing?.. | |||
"Ok.. A bit confused.com here... Gushing is same thing with squirting..? Not supposed to be. A squirt is a jet,a gush gushes. Some women say it comes from inside the vagina,some from the urethra but it's not urine. I say,let me enjoy my juicy sex without making me flood the bed.... Still confused... So the fingering g spot stimulation is for squirt... So how make that gushing thing?.." Usually by very vigorous finger jabbing
It's not nice | |||
"Ok.. A bit confused.com here... Gushing is same thing with squirting..? Not supposed to be. A squirt is a jet,a gush gushes. Some women say it comes from inside the vagina,some from the urethra but it's not urine. I say,let me enjoy my juicy sex without making me flood the bed.... Still confused... So the fingering g spot stimulation is for squirt... So how make that gushing thing?.. Usually by very vigorous finger jabbing eh.. I am not concerned about vigourousity..
It's not nice " | |||
"Ok.. A bit confused.com here... Gushing is same thing with squirting..? Not supposed to be. A squirt is a jet,a gush gushes. Some women say it comes from inside the vagina,some from the urethra but it's not urine. I say,let me enjoy my juicy sex without making me flood the bed.... Still confused... So the fingering g spot stimulation is for squirt... So how make that gushing thing?.. Usually by very vigorous finger jabbing eh.. I am not concerned about vigourousity..
It's not nice " | |||
"Ok.. A bit confused.com here... Gushing is same thing with squirting..? Not supposed to be. A squirt is a jet,a gush gushes. Some women say it comes from inside the vagina,some from the urethra but it's not urine. I say,let me enjoy my juicy sex without making me flood the bed.... Still confused... So the fingering g spot stimulation is for squirt... So how make that gushing thing?.. Usually by very vigorous finger jabbing eh.. I am not concerned about vigourousity..
It's not nice " | |||
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"I tend to um gush/squirt way way much and not stop but the more slower and more intent the guy goes the more I get wet.. I remember yrs back I was first told not to hold back as I was so embarrassed for doing it and the more he did the more relaxed I became and no going back since " | |||
"I am gussing yes " | |||
"so many men think its an achievement cos its visual i suppose however for some ladies its not as great as an orgasm..so dont substitute one for the other, would be my imput " This....I would rather Cum from.clit play | |||
"I suppose it bother me because its something i cant do and im not comforable with that. "As you will see from here....some women can. Some women can't. Some women really really don't want to. It isn't the same as an orgasm...though for some women it often accompanies it. Like another poster here I have been the one who caused a few women to do this for the first time....but that by no means means I can do this for all women. Any guy who says he can is a liar.....delusional. Plain and simple. Just enjoy what you enjoy. Enjoy your orgasms and if it happens it happens. But make sure you protect your mattress! | |||
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"I have made afew women gush in the past but found it to be women who have had children? I know this may be strange but girls I have been with who haven't I've not made gush but then again I don't set out to do this " I have had two children and have never gushed ha ha. I'm not complaining as I do have several orgasms during an intimate session. Happy with that! | |||
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