Pretty much every women I've been with has liked it to SOME degree. But it varies hugely. While they all might be into something that someone may consider degrading that same act might be considered vanilla and tame to others.

I used to have a FWB who was massively into it, and I used to give her the most degrading treatment I was prepared to give a woman in bed. We're still friends but don't fuck any more, and on reflection she feels of our time together "Amazing sex, but nowhere near rough enough" possibly why she ended up catching feelings actually, should have been less nice haha

It's about finding the right balance and having an open dialogue. Every time I do something new with L in terms of kink I ask her feelings about it after, sometimes before if it's a big thing. And we discuss it. So far she's loved almost everything I've done. Seems she won't take it up the backdoor from me, that's about the only thing we've found she doesn't like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"hold on, who we degrading here? i don't like to be the one who is degraded."

Read it again

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"hold on, who we degrading here? i don't like to be the one who is degraded.

Read it again "

You aren't clear. Reading it numerous times won't help with that.

It could be women doing the degrading or being degraded.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"hold on, who we degrading here? i don't like to be the one who is degraded.

Read it again

You aren't clear. Reading it numerous times won't help with that.

It could be women doing the degrading or being degraded."

I think by his second post in this thread he means how many women like being degraded

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes to an extent.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"hold on, who we degrading here? i don't like to be the one who is degraded.

Read it again

You aren't clear. Reading it numerous times won't help with that.

It could be women doing the degrading or being degraded.

I think by his second post in this thread he means how many women like being degraded"

I think so too but the thread title and OP aren't clear so the dismissive and patronising, "read it again", is unjustified.

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By *ilacWoman over a year ago

Cheshire

Depends on what is being done. I would say I enjoy things that others typically find degrading and don't find them humiliating at all. Yet usual swinging stuff, would mortify me and I'd stop.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

What do you mean by degraded only had one thing that made me feel degraded and wont be having that done. Everything else is mutual pleasure

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By *umpleteazerWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

I love to degrade others but would hit the roof if someone tried it on me. Just something that really makes me flip out, so play would end and I would leave. Even things like expecting me to go down on my knees to suck someone off pisses me off as not into kneeling in submission,trying to face fuck me, being called names etc is enough to put me off someone forever

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If done by someone where there is mutual respect then I love it.

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By *atietvsheffTV/TS over a year ago

Sheffield

Maybe we need to define degraded as one persons view and tolerance levels will be different from another. Is it just verbal? Physical ? Mental? All 3? And to what levels do the activities become humiliation or degradation?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nothing better than a filthy whore taking cock and loving it..."

I totally agree.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes to an extent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"hold on, who we degrading here? i don't like to be the one who is degraded.

Read it again

You aren't clear. Reading it numerous times won't help with that.

It could be women doing the degrading or being degraded.

I think by his second post in this thread he means how many women like being degraded

I think so too but the thread title and OP aren't clear so the dismissive and patronising, "read it again", is unjustified."

Bet your a right bag of fucking laughs you...

Do you read every thread on the forums thinking where you can but in an instigate a bitching session.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends on the type of degradation to be honest. Bit of filthy talk is fine. Anything else is likely to end with me being mardy and you having a wank.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not for me but a few of my meets have wanted humiliation!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"hold on, who we degrading here? i don't like to be the one who is degraded.

Read it again

You aren't clear. Reading it numerous times won't help with that.

It could be women doing the degrading or being degraded.

I think by his second post in this thread he means how many women like being degraded

I think so too but the thread title and OP aren't clear so the dismissive and patronising, "read it again", is unjustified.

Bet your a right bag of fucking laughs you...

Do you read every thread on the forums thinking where you can but in an instigate a bitching session.

She makes me laugh sometimes.

But it wasn't clear who was being degraded and that's why i asked.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah I need to be told I'm a dirty whore bitch..lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont think i know the definition. I thought it was eating scraps from a dog bowl and such like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes.

But I decide on the method and I decide on the limits.

And God protect the insensitive guy whole fails to understand and over steps the boundaries.

Obviously this is something only someone who knows me extremely well and I trust can pull it off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How many women get turn on by this !!?"

I do

Though there are limits. Some limits anyway lol

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By *aptivatingWoman over a year ago

Chester

If it's done well it can be a HUGE turn on for me, if it's not done well it's just boring.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do, but only with Mr as he knows my limits and what I like and don't and he's the only one I can push my boundaries properly with

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

With a very select few who know exactly how I tick it can be a turn on. It's a very, very fine line though.

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By *asokittyWoman over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"No.

Make me feel degraded and play stops immediately and for good."

This x1000000

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How many women get turn on by this !!?"

Your mum loved it.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

I don't at all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Eh, no!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not me, I generally dislike this type of play.

There's only ever been one person who can call me a slut & it turns me on, anyone else would get a 'fuck right off"...!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not me, I generally dislike this type of play.

There's only ever been one person who can call me a slut & it turns me on, anyone else would get a 'fuck right off"...!"

Phillip?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I feel sorry for anyone that tried it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not me, I generally dislike this type of play.

There's only ever been one person who can call me a slut & it turns me on, anyone else would get a 'fuck right off"...!

Phillip?"

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How many women get turn on by this !!?"

We once played with a couple for him to tell his partner it didn't matter I'd said no to something, she should do it anyway....that was pretty degrading and they won't be back!

I love it when my partner tells me I'm a filthy slut who needs a big cock pounding me then asks would I like that but that's as far as I'd go!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How many women get turn on by this !!?"

Yup i love it, Lucas calls me all kinds of thins and degrades me like, slut, whore, cum slut, cunt, disgusting bitch, uesless whore, tells me i am useless and only made to be fucked, slaps me hard and tell me i'm nothing. Hehe i love it all and love getting hit and thrown around. So yes there are a few of us that like it out in this world.

Emma x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep we love this too. A loves being told she is a slut, spanked, neck held. Used!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman over a year ago

stourbridge area

No thankyou ... I like to be made to feel like a princess ....

...... so be nice

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By *istressZoeTV/TS over a year ago

cheshire

I know one on this site who finds it a major turn on x she loves filthy words as she is gingered or flogged x

I asked her about it one time and she explained due to the power she holds in her job and her "status" in vanilla life - it's a major release for her xxxx

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By *isandreTV/TS over a year ago

Durham

I do, but not many seem to be all that good at it.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Nothing better than a filthy whore taking cock and loving it..."

If a woman enjoys sex why does she have to be 'filthy' and a 'whore' ..... are you missing the point that this attitude screams misogyny.

Why cant you just enjoy fucking women who enjoy being fucked and the more adventurous she is the better ?

What degrading names do you call yourself for liking sex so much ?

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By *hawslut_redemptionCouple over a year ago

Minehead

"How many women get turn on by this !!?

Emma x"

I am with Emma. ....love being told that I am a whore.....makes me cum every time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd love to be able to take a woman to the point she shows me what she really wants. I'm sure there's a real sex skit inside a few girls like there is a sex beast inside a man. You can only imagine how explosive that sex session would be.

But that's that connection thing, both wanting the same thing.

*starts shouting "where are you?"

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