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"What's with people who have a fascination with the size of cocks on here? Yes really big can be pleasurable to some, but overall surely it's how you use it and not necessarily how much you can cram in? "Because it's not a binary choice? Its not; Big cock = doesn't know how to use it Small cock = great shagger. So if they like em big they can go for a great shagger with a big cock. But statistically bigger is going to be rarer and so just like threads asking/talking about single females they will be talked about more. As people seek to find them. Also for many there is a certain visual appeal | |||
"What's with people who have a fascination with the size of cocks on here? Yes really big can be pleasurable to some, but overall surely it's how you use it and not necessarily how much you can cram in?
Because it's not a binary choice?
Its not;
Big cock = doesn't know how to use it
Small cock = great shagger.
So if they like em big they can go for a great shagger with a big cock.
But statistically bigger is going to be rarer and so just like threads asking/talking about single females they will be talked about more. As people seek to find them.
Also for many there is a certain visual appeal "Absolutely, everyone has their own preference I know, I think it's the ones that like to claim they have a foot long that get on your nerves. In reality it's barely hitting average lol oh well, I'm no ruler police | |||
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"What's with people who have a fascination with the size of cocks on here? Yes really big can be pleasurable to some, but overall surely it's how you use it and not necessarily how much you can cram in?
Because it's not a binary choice?
Its not;
Big cock = doesn't know how to use it
Small cock = great shagger.
So if they like em big they can go for a great shagger with a big cock.
But statistically bigger is going to be rarer and so just like threads asking/talking about single females they will be talked about more. As people seek to find them.
Also for many there is a certain visual appeal "Great answer  | |||
"What's with people who have a fascination with the size of cocks on here? "You tell us? I've never stated a thread about cock sizes.... | |||
"Why would a straight guy be concerned by other blokes cocks? Ultimately we've got what we were born with and you can't change it. Cal" Well said | |||
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"I rather fond of the larger than average penis. " Hahaha | |||
"Sex isn't all about penetration or how far one can swallow...BUT.....never met a lass yet who isn't fascinated and wants a big one " You clearly haven't met many women. Some of us are far more interested in other aspects of a man. | |||
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"Sex isn't all about penetration or how far one can swallow...BUT.....never met a lass yet who isn't fascinated and wants a big one You clearly haven't met many women. Some of us are far more interested in other aspects of a man." Some are, absolutely, but thats a slightly false dichotomy. I'd have to concur with his experience, ive been around the block a LOT, and while few will ADMIT to being size focused, almost all are once you get to know them a little better. Its not the ONLY factor they consider, yes, a guy with a big dick who is useless with it, or has poor personal skills, or who has poor hygeine or even poor sexual stamina is going to be rated lower than a guy with an average one who scores well in all other areas. But all things being equal, women pretty much all like a larger cock upto their own personal cut off point. It just depends what they consider "Large" And in essence for a male, at times part of the reason that they obsess about it as a factor isnt necessarily about whether they will get women/sex, or whether they are effective at pleasuring her, its about the fact they dont want to be "compromised on". Frankly its insulting to their ego to think that their woman is with them "Despite" their penis size; and no amount of reassurance or skill will make up for that. We'd rather have a huge dick which never produces an orgasm than a tiny one that produces them every time. Some might think thats fucked up but its a male mentality. We think your obsession with shoes is fucked up too :P The average being around 6", in my experience most girls preferred size is around 8-9", which in reality means yes, girls are size focused and prefer larger than average, in my experience. Ultimately its not just about penetration either, yes, my cock might in fact be in some ways more adept at penetration than some larger ones, its a G-Spot seeker, has a significant (approx 45 degree) upward kink from about halfway down, which increases percieved girth and targets the right spots, in a full play session its simply not as visually appealing as a larger unit. Girls almost universally have a massive fixation on how a larger one will feel during a blowjob. Its an expression of masculinity, perception being that a larger cock is more manly and that submitting to one is more satisfying. Whether it is actually more efficient at producing an orgasm or not. Its also a bragging right among women, having a hung partner. In the same way that having a tight pussy/large chest/dirty mind in the partner is to men. | |||
"Sex isn't all about penetration or how far one can swallow...BUT.....never met a lass yet who isn't fascinated and wants a big one You clearly haven't met many women. Some of us are far more interested in other aspects of a man. Some are, absolutely, but thats a slightly false dichotomy. I'd have to concur with his experience, ive been around the block a LOT, and while few will ADMIT to being size focused, almost all are once you get to know them a little better. Its not the ONLY factor they consider, yes, a guy with a big dick who is useless with it, or has poor personal skills, or who has poor hygeine or even poor sexual stamina is going to be rated lower than a guy with an average one who scores well in all other areas. But all things being equal, women pretty much all like a larger cock upto their own personal cut off point. It just depends what they consider "Large" And in essence for a male, at times part of the reason that they obsess about it as a factor isnt necessarily about whether they will get women/sex, or whether they are effective at pleasuring her, its about the fact they dont want to be "compromised on". Frankly its insulting to their ego to think that their woman is with them "Despite" their penis size; and no amount of reassurance or skill will make up for that. We'd rather have a huge dick which never produces an orgasm than a tiny one that produces them every time. Some might think thats fucked up but its a male mentality. We think your obsession with shoes is fucked up too :P The average being around 6", in my experience most girls preferred size is around 8-9", which in reality means yes, girls are size focused and prefer larger than average, in my experience. Ultimately its not just about penetration either, yes, my cock might in fact be in some ways more adept at penetration than some larger ones, its a G-Spot seeker, has a significant (approx 45 degree) upward kink from about halfway down, which increases percieved girth and targets the right spots, in a full play session its simply not as visually appealing as a larger unit. Girls almost universally have a massive fixation on how a larger one will feel during a blowjob. Its an expression of masculinity, perception being that a larger cock is more manly and that submitting to one is more satisfying. Whether it is actually more efficient at producing an orgasm or not. Its also a bragging right among women, having a hung partner. In the same way that having a tight pussy/large chest/dirty mind in the partner is to men. " Couldn't agree more with you, I feel so patronised and offended when I hear I love big cocks but as you are cute so I'd do you
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"What's with people who have a fascination with the size of cocks on here? Yes really big can be pleasurable to some, but overall surely it's how you use it and not necessarily how much you can cram in? "It's being asked what's the biggest I've had, I don't bloody know! Funnily enough I don't carry a ruler around to measure it!! | |||
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"Only if they have a huge bucket then they are obsessed with having a big man to fill it :P " Don't be so ridiculous and rude. | |||
"Sex isn't all about penetration or how far one can swallow...BUT.....never met a lass yet who isn't fascinated and wants a big one You clearly haven't met many women. Some of us are far more interested in other aspects of a man. Some are, absolutely, but thats a slightly false dichotomy. I'd have to concur with his experience, ive been around the block a LOT, and while few will ADMIT to being size focused, almost all are once you get to know them a little better. Its not the ONLY factor they consider, yes, a guy with a big dick who is useless with it, or has poor personal skills, or who has poor hygeine or even poor sexual stamina is going to be rated lower than a guy with an average one who scores well in all other areas. But all things being equal, women pretty much all like a larger cock upto their own personal cut off point. It just depends what they consider "Large" And in essence for a male, at times part of the reason that they obsess about it as a factor isnt necessarily about whether they will get women/sex, or whether they are effective at pleasuring her, its about the fact they dont want to be "compromised on". Frankly its insulting to their ego to think that their woman is with them "Despite" their penis size; and no amount of reassurance or skill will make up for that. We'd rather have a huge dick which never produces an orgasm than a tiny one that produces them every time. Some might think thats fucked up but its a male mentality. We think your obsession with shoes is fucked up too :P The average being around 6", in my experience most girls preferred size is around 8-9", which in reality means yes, girls are size focused and prefer larger than average, in my experience. Ultimately its not just about penetration either, yes, my cock might in fact be in some ways more adept at penetration than some larger ones, its a G-Spot seeker, has a significant (approx 45 degree) upward kink from about halfway down, which increases percieved girth and targets the right spots, in a full play session its simply not as visually appealing as a larger unit. Girls almost universally have a massive fixation on how a larger one will feel during a blowjob. Its an expression of masculinity, perception being that a larger cock is more manly and that submitting to one is more satisfying. Whether it is actually more efficient at producing an orgasm or not. Its also a bragging right among women, having a hung partner. In the same way that having a tight pussy/large chest/dirty mind in the partner is to men. Couldn't agree more with you, I feel so patronised and offended when I hear I love big cocks but as you are cute so I'd do you
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"Only if they have a huge bucket then they are obsessed with having a big man to fill it :P Don't be so ridiculous and rude." Well that's an interesting reaction isn't it. It's ridiculous and rude to suggest a woman's equipment might be too cavernous, but it's fine to suggest a males might be too small? Could you explain that to me without relying on "because women" as a rationale? Because it does rather seem like a double standard without justification | |||
"Only if they have a huge bucket then they are obsessed with having a big man to fill it :P " Charming !!! | |||
"I rather fond of the larger than average penis. " Haha very politely put!! | |||
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"I rather fond of the larger than average penis. " What about my 10 inch xxx | |||
