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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Cut a long story short Sex with the Mrs is quite vanilla. It's a newish relationship, the first where I feel self conscious about myself an think I have to be perfect for her. I get the feeling she feels the same. It feel like she's holding back In case I think she is weird/slutty. Iv always wanted to try a lil finger in my bum lol but don't kbow how to bring it up. I know she's fine with everything because of our d*unk phone calls before we got together. I would love to fuck her in the arse, she is so fucking got and I'm just getting more an more frustrated. It's my fault for being so worried about muscle at the start. Any advice? Thinking about just getting us both really d*unk lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well if your relationship is open and honest then just tell her what you want to try? Or show her your post on here unless she doesn't know about your single man fab account? |
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over a year ago
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We've only been together a month and I'm trying to get her to be more open with me. I don't think telling her I'm on a swinger website an that she should join is the best way forward lol for your peace of mind though I can tell you iv never cheated on anyone. Not because I'm a great guy who lives honesty. But because I like to think I can control myself an not throw myself at any women who bats their eyes at me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rather than bombard her with what u like encourage her to explore her deepest and dirty desires. U are lucky u know what you like it sounds like she has never explored her dark side. Get her to do this and feel comfortable with it and then she will be comfortable exploring urs. |
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"We've only been together a month and I'm trying to get her to be more open with me. I don't think telling her I'm on a swinger website an that she should join is the best way forward lol for your peace of mind though I can tell you iv never cheated on anyone. Not because I'm a great guy who lives honesty. But because I like to think I can control myself an not throw myself at any women who bats their eyes at me. "
I know you said it was newish but didn't realise you had only been together a month. Maybe she still feels really shy with you and is still at the "getting to know you stage" maybe just give her some more time, and if she is feeling to shy to watch porn with you then how about next time your playing start with a bit of dirty talk tell her exactly what you want and what you want to do with her, just build up the idea in her head gradually. Getting her d*unk and just doing it probably isn't the best idea. And if none of that appeals just a good old fashioned open chat together? |
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"Rather than bombard her with what u like encourage her to explore her deepest and dirty desires. U are lucky u know what you like it sounds like she has never explored her dark side. Get her to do this and feel comfortable with it and then she will be comfortable exploring urs."
I know what your saying but she defo knows her dark side it's just that I get the impression that she will think that I think she's a slut ect. she thinks I'm vanilla lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Have a few conversations about fantasies and things you have done in the past. Start off a bit tame and then build up to it??
Or alternatively by her a strap on, bend over the kitchen table and beg?? |
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