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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago
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Most of our Asian friends have private parties and won't join the site. We've only met one couple on here and find it pretty difficult to find not only Asian but Black couples also, here in the North. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And me "
So your wife doesn't know about this profile or your sole intentions? You think that's not a huge breach of her rights as a human being?
This is one of the reasons I am actually 'racist' on this site. I won't meet anyone who belongs to a race that thinks it's fun to spring such situation on someone, worse it being someone she trusts since you are her husband. Shocking in these modern days but unfortunately very common. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And me
So your wife doesn't know about this profile or your sole intentions? You think that's not a huge breach of her rights as a human being?
This is one of the reasons I am actually 'racist' on this site. I won't meet anyone who belongs to a race that thinks it's fun to spring such situation on someone, worse it being someone she trusts since you are her husband. Shocking in these modern days but unfortunately very common. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey there how are you all doing, how many of us Asians are on fab it seems like there is not a lot we need to get more Asian people to join lol.  "
Hola!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And me
So your wife doesn't know about this profile or your sole intentions? You think that's not a huge breach of her rights as a human being?
This is one of the reasons I am actually 'racist' on this site. I won't meet anyone who belongs to a race that thinks it's fun to spring such situation on someone, worse it being someone she trusts since you are her husband. Shocking in these modern days but unfortunately very common.
How to make friends and influence people "
I'm not here to influence people or make certain type of friends. But you are a woman like me and you think it's right to spring it on his wife without her knowledge and approval?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And me
So your wife doesn't know about this profile or your sole intentions? You think that's not a huge breach of her rights as a human being?
This is one of the reasons I am actually 'racist' on this site. I won't meet anyone who belongs to a race that thinks it's fun to spring such situation on someone, worse it being someone she trusts since you are her husband. Shocking in these modern days but unfortunately very common.
How to make friends and influence people
I'm not here to influence people or make certain type of friends. But you are a woman like me and you think it's right to spring it on his wife without her knowledge and approval? "
That's not what the profile says thought! It doesn't say come round and pounce on my wife. Swinging is not the default setting for a marriage so we all get introduced to it in different ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And me
So your wife doesn't know about this profile or your sole intentions? You think that's not a huge breach of her rights as a human being?
This is one of the reasons I am actually 'racist' on this site. I won't meet anyone who belongs to a race that thinks it's fun to spring such situation on someone, worse it being someone she trusts since you are her husband. Shocking in these modern days but unfortunately very common.
How to make friends and influence people
I'm not here to influence people or make certain type of friends. But you are a woman like me and you think it's right to spring it on his wife without her knowledge and approval?
That's not what the profile says thought! It doesn't say come round and pounce on my wife. Swinging is not the default setting for a marriage so we all get introduced to it in different ways. "
The wife does NOT know! That's what it is about. You cannot introduce such situation to an unsuspecting human being without their approval or knowledge. The wife doesn't know about the profile either if you read it like I did. So why is HE here looking for the 2nd male instead of BOTH of them looking together?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And me
So your wife doesn't know about this profile or your sole intentions? You think that's not a huge breach of her rights as a human being?
This is one of the reasons I am actually 'racist' on this site. I won't meet anyone who belongs to a race that thinks it's fun to spring such situation on someone, worse it being someone she trusts since you are her husband. Shocking in these modern days but unfortunately very common.
How to make friends and influence people
I'm not here to influence people or make certain type of friends. But you are a woman like me and you think it's right to spring it on his wife without her knowledge and approval?
That's not what the profile says thought! It doesn't say come round and pounce on my wife. Swinging is not the default setting for a marriage so we all get introduced to it in different ways.
The wife does NOT know! That's what it is about. You cannot introduce such situation to an unsuspecting human being without their approval or knowledge. The wife doesn't know about the profile either if you read it like I did. So why is HE here looking for the 2nd male instead of BOTH of them looking together? "
Because swinging is a very strange idea for a lot of people and whilst some wives will be open to it upon initial suggestion, others require a more subtle approach.
Let's not pretend that men and women are always 100% honest about their intentions with each other. Society would break down if they were! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And me
So your wife doesn't know about this profile or your sole intentions? You think that's not a huge breach of her rights as a human being?
This is one of the reasons I am actually 'racist' on this site. I won't meet anyone who belongs to a race that thinks it's fun to spring such situation on someone, worse it being someone she trusts since you are her husband. Shocking in these modern days but unfortunately very common.
How to make friends and influence people
I'm not here to influence people or make certain type of friends. But you are a woman like me and you think it's right to spring it on his wife without her knowledge and approval?
That's not what the profile says thought! It doesn't say come round and pounce on my wife. Swinging is not the default setting for a marriage so we all get introduced to it in different ways.
The wife does NOT know! That's what it is about. You cannot introduce such situation to an unsuspecting human being without their approval or knowledge. The wife doesn't know about the profile either if you read it like I did. So why is HE here looking for the 2nd male instead of BOTH of them looking together?
Because swinging is a very strange idea for a lot of people and whilst some wives will be open to it upon initial suggestion, others require a more subtle approach.
Let's not pretend that men and women are always 100% honest about their intentions with each other. Society would break down if they were! "
You know very well what I'm talking about. And someone who cannot have a civilised chat without blocking the other person just says all to me. Wish you much luck, am done here   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And me
So your wife doesn't know about this profile or your sole intentions? You think that's not a huge breach of her rights as a human being?
This is one of the reasons I am actually 'racist' on this site. I won't meet anyone who belongs to a race that thinks it's fun to spring such situation on someone, worse it being someone she trusts since you are her husband. Shocking in these modern days but unfortunately very common.
How to make friends and influence people
I'm not here to influence people or make certain type of friends. But you are a woman like me and you think it's right to spring it on his wife without her knowledge and approval?
That's not what the profile says thought! It doesn't say come round and pounce on my wife. Swinging is not the default setting for a marriage so we all get introduced to it in different ways.
The wife does NOT know! That's what it is about. You cannot introduce such situation to an unsuspecting human being without their approval or knowledge. The wife doesn't know about the profile either if you read it like I did. So why is HE here looking for the 2nd male instead of BOTH of them looking together?
Because swinging is a very strange idea for a lot of people and whilst some wives will be open to it upon initial suggestion, others require a more subtle approach.
Let's not pretend that men and women are always 100% honest about their intentions with each other. Society would break down if they were!
You know very well what I'm talking about. And someone who cannot have a civilised chat without blocking the other person just says all to me. Wish you much luck, am done here "
Because I don't join a public forum to exchange private messages! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow ladies... I can see where both of u are coming from but after having had read the profile, he's being dishonest yes. However, he isn't forcing his wife to do anything she doesn't want to. He's just putting the opportunity there and if she takes it that's completely up to her.
sounds to me she isn't willing to discuss the idea probably because of all the stigma attached to the world of swinging (that's me assuming, being Asian it's a little different culture wise) so a different, more subtle yet direct, approach to get her to consider it may be needed and where is he to find someone that will present such an opportunity? Yes it's dishonest but he isn't forcing her to do anything just giving her a choice. |
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I'm sure there are more Asian women coming onto FAB - I met a lovely woman from the Philipines last year, and Some while back I took a gorgeous young woman from Kerala to a club. She was painfully shy, though - we arrived at the club and sat in the car outside for an hour while she worked up the nerve to go in. Eventually we did, and she spent the entire evening clinging on to my hand (even when going up and down stairs, which was difficult!). She watched everything that was going on wide-eyed, but she didn’t join in at all. At the end of the evening I took her home and drove home myself. When I got home there was a message from her on my phone, saying that she wanted to go back the next night and “do everything” – and that’s exactly what she did! She had a whale of a time and in fact became a regular clubbing partner of mine until she went to Australia and we lost contact. |
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