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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Let me just say from the beginning that I know there is no hard or fast rule to making women gush, squirt, have intense orgasms or anything else. However, there must be certain techniques that guys use which can get women on their way to the above. I of course spend time asking a woman what she likes and get a feel for her body as everybody is different. Similarly, I know how important stimulation of the mind is when it comes to pleasurable sex.
It would be great if some of the guys (or indeed women) on here could share some of their tips. This is a swingers site after all and we've all read verifications which testify that squirting, gushing etc can and does happen regularly. I like nothing more than to pleasure a lady to her fullest extent and would really appreciate some advice from others on ways to improve.
Spare the sarcastic and haughty replies. This is a sincere question i'm putting out there and would really appreciate some sincere responses! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't gush, I don't want to gush, but I still get "pleasure to my fullest extent". I expect my playmates to respect my sexual likes/dislikes, as indeed I respect theirs. |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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Im a gusher, but guess im a easy gusher as i do it most times i play. A lot of it does depend on how turned on i am, so yehh it can be a mind thing. The dirtyer i feel the more i seem to gush. So if a guy whispers dirty things in my ear can bring it on. But its also what i think in my head at the time too. I do know a couple who can make most women squirt with the use of a vibe, so guess there is a spersific spot to hit.
Used to get embaressed on how much i can gush as my ex never liked it. But thank god my partner now likes it and most ppl we have played with likes it. But saying that every now and then i can still get a little embaressed when it really starts to its fullest.
Not sure this helps as im such a easy gusher but thought i would reply. xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't be fooled into thinking that to pleasure a woman to her fullest extent you have to make her gush or spend time trying to make her gush
People seem to be obsessed by gushing/squirting at the moment |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Of course not. But it's an experience I would love to share with somebody (if they could). And I won't know if I could/she could if I didn't know what I was doing in the first place.....if that makes sense?!
Just curious that's all and hoping for a bit of guidance re techniques!
Appreciate the reply all the same  |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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"Don't be fooled into thinking that to pleasure a woman to her fullest extent you have to make her gush or spend time trying to make her gush
People seem to be obsessed by gushing/squirting at the moment"
Exactly it is not the be all of sexual pleasure.
BTW been wayyyyyyy too long since we see ya, grrr missed you not long ago at tease, dam. xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont gush, and I dont want to either. There is an obsession with it with various people making assumptions that its something we all aspire to and that its a really good thing. I have seen ladies gush, it was quite different. Chris has had the experience of a woman gushing on his face, but he said it wasnt something that was more exciting than a woman sitting on his face who didnt gush. I certainly dont want men touching me in an attempt to make me gush. thanks but its my body and Im not having someone trying to bruise me to ensure I was pleasured to the fullest. I am never going to be pleasured to the fullest with a stranger so not a lot of point trying to be honest.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm a gushing sceptic 
I've heard ladies say here that they can't help but gush whenever they reach orgasm.
Does this mean they have to have plastic undersheets on their beds all the time? Do their hubbies or partners have to sleep in a puddle if they have a lazy quicky in the middle of the night?
Or can they control when to gush or not to gush so that the above doesn't happen? |
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There does seem to be a bit of an obsession with this! I've gushed a few times but it's not something that I strive to attain! Some guys just seem to make it happen - it's not something that I need to have happen in order to feel fulfilled - far from it! Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One man on a meet made me gush, for the first and only time ever, he seemed to think it was the be all and end all to make a woman do this, sad because he obviously thought it was the ultimate sexual experience but it so wasn't, he made me gush but it wasn't an orgasmic experience, SO misguided  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm a gushing sceptic
I've heard ladies say here that they can't help but gush whenever they reach orgasm.
Does this mean they have to have plastic undersheets on their beds all the time? Do their hubbies or partners have to sleep in a puddle if they have a lazy quicky in the middle of the night?
Or can they control when to gush or not to gush so that the above doesn't happen? "
Not control it, but it only happens in certain situations. I have a play partner who makes it happen so much we have to lay on towels  but with other men I may not even drip! It depends on the man (or woman), the position, my mood, what is being used, phases of the moon, etc etc. But I, and my play partner and several hotel maids, can assure you it is real. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a gushing sceptic
I've heard ladies say here that they can't help but gush whenever they reach orgasm.
Does this mean they have to have plastic undersheets on their beds all the time? Do their hubbies or partners have to sleep in a puddle if they have a lazy quicky in the middle of the night?
Or can they control when to gush or not to gush so that the above doesn't happen?
Not control it, but it only happens in certain situations. I have a play partner who makes it happen so much we have to lay on towels but with other men I may not even drip! It depends on the man (or woman), the position, my mood, what is being used, phases of the moon, etc etc. But I, and my play partner and several hotel maids, can assure you it is real."
I know it's real because I've seen it a parties, etc, have even been drenched whilst sharing a bed with another couple at a club. But I'm going to take some convincing that it isn't piss.
Some people say it's odourless and tasteless, but I know piss when I see it. Perhaps some ladies wee is a little stronger or weaker than others  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"But I'm going to take some convincing that it isn't piss.
Some people say it's odourless and tasteless, but I know piss when I see it. Perhaps some ladies wee is a little stronger or weaker than others "
An ex of mine looked it up and yes, it does have wee in, but it isn't just wee. I have done it straight after having a wee, and it comes out of a different hole too! If you google female ejaculate there's some info. |
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I often get men pm'ing me, saying they can guarantee to make me gush.
I usually ask what I get if they can't make me gush, seeing as that's what a guarantee is!!!
For the record I've only gushed with one man, and myself!!! |
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
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wyrd is quite right, it comes out of a completely different hole, and pandora if it hurts, maybe you should try to do it more often and see if that was just a one off thing that gets better with practice... I'm presuming all girls do their pelvic floors regularly?
the gush itself seems almost like a reflex, triggered by several things, one of them is an abrupt change in the method of stimulation. There are certain spots that will provoke it more easily, and the phsychological (horniness) link is important too... it's because of this fuzzyness I've decided to research it thoroughly thanks to my very patient (and very happy) wife :o)
It does have flavour, it does have blood plasma, and when a woman is fully drained the flavour has disappeared, and the fluid resembles clear bodily fluid). I wish all Males success in making their sexual partners happy in every way :o) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to admit... the strangest, yet ever so erotic porn i have seen, involved squirting.
reverse bukkake, so it was 10 or 12 women squirting over one man! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont know if this is going to be helpful, but its definately worth a look...google jason julius.
An american guy who explains about the female orgasm using medical terms and a latex manaquin.
Although the guy looks a bit of a 'cool dude' i found him informative, and ive been able to use some of his advice to great effect.
x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Im not convinced either that it isnt urine. Im not disputing that there is a gush in fluid from the vagina, ive seen it myself. The women Ive seen gush have been touched a little forcefully to make it happen, never seems to happen when fingers are inserted gently, which makes me suspect that the fingers are perhaps stimulating the bladder in some way.
I dont know though, if the whole of the NHS cannot come up with a definite answer on this, Im not likely to am I. And until we have a definite answer from the medical profession that it is definitely not urine, then I will be sceptical about it.
All I can say is that the woman I saw gush, I actually had a little lick of her afterwards, for the purpose of experiemention of course, and the fluid tasted quite acidic and did not taste like normal female juices. |
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Manual manipulation of a specific section of the vagina around the g sport can lead to female ejaculation of vaginal juices. I had a very erotic experience last night at Chams in the couples room but it took me a few months to master the technique. |
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