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By *ydrew OP Man over a year ago

forest

Ok I know I not a lot of people's cup of tea but why people so rude. I'm always civil treat people with respect and always answer even if a polite no. I just got blocked for wishing someone best of luck with house move wtf

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who was it?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

some people are rude

some are over sensitive

never worry, just be true to your values and behaviour.

it serves me well.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Maybe they'd had a shitty day.

Anyway, now you know how rude they are, not likely you'll meet them is it?

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By *ydrew OP Man over a year ago

forest

"Maybe they'd had a shitty day.

Anyway, now you know how rude they are, not likely you'll meet them is it?"

Yep got that right. Just blows me away how people can be on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe they'd had a shitty day.

Anyway, now you know how rude they are, not likely you'll meet them is it?

Yep got that right. Just blows me away how people can be on here"

Blocking is not rude. They are just using a site tool as they do not want their or your time to be wasted. Think of it as a polite way of your time and effort not being wasted further.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Maybe they'd had a shitty day.

Anyway, now you know how rude they are, not likely you'll meet them is it?

Yep got that right. Just blows me away how people can be on here

Blocking is not rude. They are just using a site tool as they do not want their or your time to be wasted. Think of it as a polite way of your time and effort not being wasted further."

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By *ydrew OP Man over a year ago

forest

Polite no thanks isn't easier? Site tool can understand but when you just being polite and civil to someone then get blocked makes you feel like you been an abusive twat.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Ok I know I not a lot of people's cup of tea but why people so rude. I'm always civil treat people with respect and always answer even if a polite no. I just got blocked for wishing someone best of luck with house move wtf"

They don't want to talk to you so made it so they don't have to. It's jot rude it's the way they use the site. Some people are here to be social others are here to fuck and only interact with those they want to fuck.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Polite no thanks isn't easier? Site tool can understand but when you just being polite and civil to someone then get blocked makes you feel like you been an abusive twat. "

Really?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I sometimes block when people won't stop messaging. I politely decline and wish them luck etc, but then they keep messaging. How many people have you met? what type you looking for then? what do you do for a job?

Not suggesting this was you OP, just an example

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By *ydrew OP Man over a year ago

forest

Ah well my rant over. Was brought up to treat people the way you want to be treated. Guess it blocking time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Polite no thanks isn't easier? Site tool can understand but when you just being polite and civil to someone then get blocked makes you feel like you been an abusive twat. "

I can understand that to be honest but they've just used the tools the site has provided. It's not a slight against you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Polite no thanks isn't easier? Site tool can understand but when you just being polite and civil to someone then get blocked makes you feel like you been an abusive twat. "

Then the problem is you and not them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You might have scared them by not mentioning sex in your message. Being normal on here is rare

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By *ydrew OP Man over a year ago

forest

"Polite no thanks isn't easier? Site tool can understand but when you just being polite and civil to someone then get blocked makes you feel like you been an abusive twat.

Then the problem is you and not them."

Thanks hands. First block.

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By *ydrew OP Man over a year ago

forest

"You might have scared them by not mentioning sex in your message. Being normal on here is rare

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Polite no thanks isn't easier? Site tool can understand but when you just being polite and civil to someone then get blocked makes you feel like you been an abusive twat. "

Why would they respond "no thanks" to being wished good luck on a house move though?

If they said that you'd reply to tell them you hadn't asked for anything.

If you expected a no thanks in response you obviously weren't just being nice and wishing them good luck, were you?

Perhaps they saw through that.

Either way, they didn't want to chat. If they're moving house they are probably quite busy and stressed.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Ah well my rant over. Was brought up to treat people the way you want to be treated. Guess it blocking time

use the se in whatever way you see fit but respect that others dont want to use it the same way as you....respect their choice. they werent rude to you, they just didnt want to speak to you. your reaction is quite childish to be honest.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Ah well my rant over. Was brought up to treat people the way you want to be treated. Guess it blocking time

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Polite no thanks isn't easier? Site tool can understand but when you just being polite and civil to someone then get blocked makes you feel like you been an abusive twat.

Then the problem is you and not them.

Thanks hands. First block."

I am not in the least offended. That is exactly what the block tool is for. It is not to offend someone. It is just to cease contact with someone you know you won't get on with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It can seem rude at first but you will get used to it, I have blocked all the people I find unattractive and those who talk Rubbish on here,

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By *ydrew OP Man over a year ago

forest

Wow this childish guy quite enjoying block self righteous people.

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By *ydrew OP Man over a year ago

forest

It can seem rude at first but you will get used to it, I have blocked all the people I find unattractive and those who talk Rubbish on here,

Ye just blocked a few from this thread. Hahaha

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It can seem rude at first but you will get used to it, I have blocked all the people I find unattractive and those who talk Rubbish on here,

And I can't imagine for one second they are bothered.

It's a tool to filter out people who you aren't interested in. The chances are they wouldn't be interested in you either. Everybody wins.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow this childish guy quite enjoying block self righteous people."

Get blocking mate,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It can seem rude at first but you will get used to it, I have blocked all the people I find unattractive and those who talk Rubbish on here,

And I can't imagine for one second they are bothered.

It's a tool to filter out people who you aren't interested in. The chances are they wouldn't be interested in you either. Everybody wins."

If your not bothered why have you gone to the trouble of saying 'your not bothered' ?

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS over a year ago

Bolton

Shut up and suck me!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Wow this childish guy quite enjoying block self righteous people."

Or people who disagree with you. Or people who realise you weren't just being nice and wishing them well.

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By *ydrew OP Man over a year ago

forest

It can seem rude at first but you will get used to it, I have blocked all the people I find unattractive and those who talk Rubbish on here,

And I can't imagine for one second they are bothered.

It's a tool to filter out people who you aren't interested in. The chances are they wouldn't be interested in you either. Everybody wins.

If your not bothered why have you gone to the trouble of saying 'your not bothered' ?

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By *ydrew OP Man over a year ago

forest

"Wow this childish guy quite enjoying block self righteous people.

Or people who disagree with you. Or people who realise you weren't just being nice and wishing them well."

See now your a mind reader. You don't know me. I was being nice but you have made a snap judgement call which is so far off the truth

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It can seem rude at first but you will get used to it, I have blocked all the people I find unattractive and those who talk Rubbish on here,

And I can't imagine for one second they are bothered.

It's a tool to filter out people who you aren't interested in. The chances are they wouldn't be interested in you either. Everybody wins.

If your not bothered why have you gone to the trouble of saying 'your not bothered' ?

I wasn't talking about me

I was talking generally about people being blocked by people with whom they wouldn't be compatible.

As View has been known to say, however, sometimes being blocked is a blessing.

Blocking people removes them from search results and (if they are local) means their updates don't show in the local updates feed. It's a useful tool, not some sort of weapon or punishment.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It can seem rude at first but you will get used to it, I have blocked all the people I find unattractive and those who talk Rubbish on here,

And I can't imagine for one second they are bothered.

It's a tool to filter out people who you aren't interested in. The chances are they wouldn't be interested in you either. Everybody wins.

If your not bothered why have you gone to the trouble of saying 'your not bothered' ?

I wasn't talking about me

I was talking generally about people being blocked by people with whom they wouldn't be compatible.

As View has been known to say, however, sometimes being blocked is a blessing.

Blocking people removes them from search results and (if they are local) means their updates don't show in the local updates feed. It's a useful tool, not some sort of weapon or punishment."

Am I bothered

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't take it to heart , the site is full

Off the good the bad and the nasty , smile and move on

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Wow this childish guy quite enjoying block self righteous people.

Or people who disagree with you. Or people who realise you weren't just being nice and wishing them well.

See now your a mind reader. You don't know me. I was being nice but you have made a snap judgement call which is so far off the truth "

So why did you think a no thanks would be warranted if you didn't want more than to simply wish them well?

I get a fair few messages like this and I know from experience what happens if I reply thanking them for the message.

And, as I said, if they had said no thanks you'd just claim you were only being nice and didn't ask anything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't take it to heart , the site is full

Off the good the bad and the nasty , smile and move on"

Spot on,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have every right to feel like they were rude and you have every right to argue your case. You don't have to agree with people who disagree with you.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It can seem rude at first but you will get used to it, I have blocked all the people I find unattractive and those who talk Rubbish on here,

And I can't imagine for one second they are bothered.

It's a tool to filter out people who you aren't interested in. The chances are they wouldn't be interested in you either. Everybody wins.

If your not bothered why have you gone to the trouble of saying 'your not bothered' ?

I wasn't talking about me

I was talking generally about people being blocked by people with whom they wouldn't be compatible.

As View has been known to say, however, sometimes being blocked is a blessing.

Blocking people removes them from search results and (if they are local) means their updates don't show in the local updates feed. It's a useful tool, not some sort of weapon or punishment.

Am I bothered

Why on earth would you be bothered?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It can seem rude at first but you will get used to it, I have blocked all the people I find unattractive and those who talk Rubbish on here,

And I can't imagine for one second they are bothered.

It's a tool to filter out people who you aren't interested in. The chances are they wouldn't be interested in you either. Everybody wins.

If your not bothered why have you gone to the trouble of saying 'your not bothered' ?

I wasn't talking about me

I was talking generally about people being blocked by people with whom they wouldn't be compatible.

As View has been known to say, however, sometimes being blocked is a blessing.

Blocking people removes them from search results and (if they are local) means their updates don't show in the local updates feed. It's a useful tool, not some sort of weapon or punishment.

Am I bothered

Why on earth would you be bothered?

That was a statement , not a question, btw do you know next weekends lottery numbers??

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Wow this childish guy quite enjoying block self righteous people."

yay!!!!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It can seem rude at first but you will get used to it, I have blocked all the people I find unattractive and those who talk Rubbish on here,

And I can't imagine for one second they are bothered.

It's a tool to filter out people who you aren't interested in. The chances are they wouldn't be interested in you either. Everybody wins.

If your not bothered why have you gone to the trouble of saying 'your not bothered' ?

You're going to have to get past the idea the block button is a weapon or a punishment or you will find your time on here stressful and less fun than it could be.

But it's up to you to use the site as you wish, the same as everyone else.

Best of luck finding the people you are a good match with.

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By *ydrew OP Man over a year ago

forest

"Wow this childish guy quite enjoying block self righteous people.

Or people who disagree with you. Or people who realise you weren't just being nice and wishing them well.

See now your a mind reader. You don't know me. I was being nice but you have made a snap judgement call which is so far off the truth

So why did you think a no thanks would be warranted if you didn't want more than to simply wish them well?

I get a fair few messages like this and I know from experience what happens if I reply thanking them for the message.

And, as I said, if they had said no thanks you'd just claim you were only being nice and didn't ask anything."

The couple I spoke to today didn't have to say no thanks as I asked polite question they said busy moving I said shame but good luck with the move. When clicked back I was blocked. No thanks was directed at other times when just saying hello has judgemental people blocking you

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By *sAllowedCouple over a year ago

Southend Essex

Did you read their profile as it may have said that they didn't want contact from single men and then albeit your message was polite the blocker may have just seen it was another man mailing. To be fair there are an awful lot of guys who contact out there "Chancing" when profile state that "we will contact you " etc. Do you really hope there move goes well or are you physically attracted to the female or couple and it was worth a try? ?? Lol ??????

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It can seem rude at first but you will get used to it, I have blocked all the people I find unattractive and those who talk Rubbish on here,

And I can't imagine for one second they are bothered.

It's a tool to filter out people who you aren't interested in. The chances are they wouldn't be interested in you either. Everybody wins.

If your not bothered why have you gone to the trouble of saying 'your not bothered' ?

I wasn't talking about me

I was talking generally about people being blocked by people with whom they wouldn't be compatible.

As View has been known to say, however, sometimes being blocked is a blessing.

Blocking people removes them from search results and (if they are local) means their updates don't show in the local updates feed. It's a useful tool, not some sort of weapon or punishment.

Am I bothered

Why on earth would you be bothered?

That was a statement , not a question, btw do you know next weekends lottery numbers??"

Well it's worded like a question.

If you mean you're not bothered then, to invoke your own logic, if you aren't bothered, why bother to tell us.

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By *sAllowedCouple over a year ago

Southend Essex

Ps .... I don't mind if you block me ... Lol x ????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow this childish guy quite enjoying block self righteous people.

Or people who disagree with you. Or people who realise you weren't just being nice and wishing them well.

See now your a mind reader. You don't know me. I was being nice but you have made a snap judgement call which is so far off the truth

So why did you think a no thanks would be warranted if you didn't want more than to simply wish them well?

I get a fair few messages like this and I know from experience what happens if I reply thanking them for the message.

And, as I said, if they had said no thanks you'd just claim you were only being nice and didn't ask anything.

It's easier for some people to block than say they don't wish to carry on talking. Some people don't respond nicely to being told that,so people make excuses and block.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Wow this childish guy quite enjoying block self righteous people.

Or people who disagree with you. Or people who realise you weren't just being nice and wishing them well.

See now your a mind reader. You don't know me. I was being nice but you have made a snap judgement call which is so far off the truth

So why did you think a no thanks would be warranted if you didn't want more than to simply wish them well?

I get a fair few messages like this and I know from experience what happens if I reply thanking them for the message.

And, as I said, if they had said no thanks you'd just claim you were only being nice and didn't ask anything.

Well that was hardly rude of them then was it?

They said they weren't interested. The conversation was over. They weren't interested in chatting with you again. They blocked you so they wouldn't and so you wouldn't come up in their search results.

That's not, as you claimed, being blocked for wishing them good luck with their house move.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow this childish guy quite enjoying block self righteous people.

Or people who disagree with you. Or people who realise you weren't just being nice and wishing them well.

See now your a mind reader. You don't know me. I was being nice but you have made a snap judgement call which is so far off the truth

So why did you think a no thanks would be warranted if you didn't want more than to simply wish them well?

I get a fair few messages like this and I know from experience what happens if I reply thanking them for the message.

And, as I said, if they had said no thanks you'd just claim you were only being nice and didn't ask anything.

The judgemental people who judged that you would not be for them and decided no further contact would be best for all?

What would be the benefit to you of a "Not for us" response? How does that hurt your sensibilities less than a block?

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By *ydrew OP Man over a year ago

forest

"Don't take it to heart , the site is full

Off the good the bad and the nasty , smile and move on"

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Wow this childish guy quite enjoying block self righteous people.

Or people who disagree with you. Or people who realise you weren't just being nice and wishing them well.

See now your a mind reader. You don't know me. I was being nice but you have made a snap judgement call which is so far off the truth

So why did you think a no thanks would be warranted if you didn't want more than to simply wish them well?

I get a fair few messages like this and I know from experience what happens if I reply thanking them for the message.

And, as I said, if they had said no thanks you'd just claim you were only being nice and didn't ask anything.

It's easier for some people to block than say they don't wish to carry on talking. Some people don't respond nicely to being told that,so people make excuses and block. "

The couple he is complaining about had answered him with, effectively, a no thanks. He messaged them again to say it was a shame.

They'd said no. I don't understand why blocking after that is rude.

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By *ydrew OP Man over a year ago

forest

"You have every right to feel like they were rude and you have every right to argue your case. You don't have to agree with people who disagree with you. "

Thanks lovely x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It can seem rude at first but you will get used to it, I have blocked all the people I find unattractive and those who talk Rubbish on here,

And I can't imagine for one second they are bothered.

It's a tool to filter out people who you aren't interested in. The chances are they wouldn't be interested in you either. Everybody wins.

If your not bothered why have you gone to the trouble of saying 'your not bothered' ?

I wasn't talking about me

I was talking generally about people being blocked by people with whom they wouldn't be compatible.

As View has been known to say, however, sometimes being blocked is a blessing.

Blocking people removes them from search results and (if they are local) means their updates don't show in the local updates feed. It's a useful tool, not some sort of weapon or punishment.

Am I bothered

Why on earth would you be bothered?

That was a statement , not a question, btw do you know next weekends lottery numbers??

Well it's worded like a question.

If you mean you're not bothered then, to invoke your own logic, if you aren't bothered, why bother to tell us.

Tbh I think if you block someone they shouldn't be allowed to comment on my forum posts

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Wow this childish guy quite enjoying block self righteous people.

Or people who disagree with you. Or people who realise you weren't just being nice and wishing them well.

See now your a mind reader. You don't know me. I was being nice but you have made a snap judgement call which is so far off the truth

So why did you think a no thanks would be warranted if you didn't want more than to simply wish them well?

I get a fair few messages like this and I know from experience what happens if I reply thanking them for the message.

And, as I said, if they had said no thanks you'd just claim you were only being nice and didn't ask anything.

The judgemental people who judged that you would not be for them and decided no further contact would be best for all?

What would be the benefit to you of a "Not for us" response? How does that hurt your sensibilities less than a block?"

They'd already said no though. Saying they were too busy moving might even have been trying to be kind and let him down gently.

He followed it up with shame and best wishes.

He clearly wanted to continue it or he wouldn't have found he was blocked.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I sometimes block when people won't stop messaging. I politely decline and wish them luck etc, but then they keep messaging. How many people have you met? what type you looking for then? what do you do for a job?

Not suggesting this was you OP, just an example

I'm always polite to people just some just don't take the hint and carry on messaging. Blocking is just easier sometimes.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It can seem rude at first but you will get used to it, I have blocked all the people I find unattractive and those who talk Rubbish on here,

And I can't imagine for one second they are bothered.

It's a tool to filter out people who you aren't interested in. The chances are they wouldn't be interested in you either. Everybody wins.

If your not bothered why have you gone to the trouble of saying 'your not bothered' ?

I wasn't talking about me

I was talking generally about people being blocked by people with whom they wouldn't be compatible.

As View has been known to say, however, sometimes being blocked is a blessing.

Blocking people removes them from search results and (if they are local) means their updates don't show in the local updates feed. It's a useful tool, not some sort of weapon or punishment.

Am I bothered

Why on earth would you be bothered?

That was a statement , not a question, btw do you know next weekends lottery numbers??

Well it's worded like a question.

If you mean you're not bothered then, to invoke your own logic, if you aren't bothered, why bother to tell us.

Tbh I think if you block someone they shouldn't be allowed to comment on my forum posts

Awww shame

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By *ydrew OP Man over a year ago

forest

They were cuckold couple looking for one off discreet meets. I'm in the area for work so said hello. They said were busy moving. So I said shame but good luck with the move. Clicked back after it had been read and was blocked

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Just commenting to see if I get blocked...

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By *ydrew OP Man over a year ago

forest

Not suggesting this was you OP, just an example

See that I totally understand

I'm always polite to people just some just don't take the hint and carry on messaging. Blocking is just easier sometimes. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Find them and shove dog shit through their letterbox

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Just commenting to see if I get blocked...

You need to disagree with the OP and tell him blocking is just a site tool and not to take it personally.

He only wants people agreeing it was awful he was blocked and very unfair.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Wow this childish guy quite enjoying block self righteous people.

Or people who disagree with you. Or people who realise you weren't just being nice and wishing them well.

See now your a mind reader. You don't know me. I was being nice but you have made a snap judgement call which is so far off the truth

So why did you think a no thanks would be warranted if you didn't want more than to simply wish them well?

I get a fair few messages like this and I know from experience what happens if I reply thanking them for the message.

And, as I said, if they had said no thanks you'd just claim you were only being nice and didn't ask anything.

It's easier for some people to block than say they don't wish to carry on talking. Some people don't respond nicely to being told that,so people make excuses and block. "

some people also forget that you have told them that and it gets ever so tiresome to have to keep telling them that when they message you again and again.

some people dont want small talk on here and so if someone comes back at them after saying no, no matter how polite i can totally understand them blocking rather than having to endure small talk until they eventually ask for a meet again (happened to me several times)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had some rude messages today asking if I fancy a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just commenting to see if I get blocked...

You need to disagree with the OP and tell him blocking is just a site tool and not to take it personally.

He only wants people agreeing it was awful he was blocked and very unfair."

He might be blocking people he finds unattractive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've had some rude messages today asking if I fancy a fuck."

Terrible behaviour, that's the last thing you expect on a sex site