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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
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OK just got a message from a single guy in my area. Nice profile, amusing message. He ended with saying that he'd bet his house and car that I wouldn't respond but, as I liked the look of him, I did! (He owes me a house and car!!).
Anyway he asks if I have MSN. I don't and told him so, and he hasn't replied! Apart from the fact I am now down a house and car I am not that bothered, but is it really that important to have a chat programme? Or am I missing something by not having it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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His loss in my opinion.
Some people like to chat before hand (but can do so on here) hence why he probably asked.
Given the rato of guys to girls I think a guy has to be more flexible than that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK just got a message from a single guy in my area. Nice profile, amusing message. He ended with saying that he'd bet his house and car that I wouldn't respond but, as I liked the look of him, I did! (He owes me a house and car!!).
Anyway he asks if I have MSN. I don't and told him so, and he hasn't replied! Apart from the fact I am now down a house and car I am not that bothered, but is it really that important to have a chat programme? Or am I missing something by not having it?"
seems he wanted nothing more than to see you on cam  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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haven't missed a think in my experience, have found that almost without exception MSN peple want to talk dity and get off there and then and they never intend to meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, I dont use MSN anymore either its too demanding to sit and chat to people on it...i like to log on here and be able to wander about at my leisure should i wish and do other stuff and then come back to read messages, you cant do that on msn..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We used to use msn but got fed up with pic collectors and idiots saying they will meet then not hearing anyting again,plus we found it really time consuming.
Ever since we stopped using it a couple of years ago we have had more meets,so now we show upto date face pics and chat on the phone to prove we are who we say we are.
OP im thinking the guy was after either cam fun or is a pic collector and if he's not happy with the way you arrange meets then sod him,plenty of yummy guys on here |
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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago
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Same messagereceived here too and replied saying I don't do cyber. Why can't the guys actually take time to construct individual messages for the person instead of mass mailing. They might actually get lucky then  |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
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"No, I dont use MSN anymore either its too demanding to sit and chat to people on it...i like to log on here and be able to wander about at my leisure should i wish and do other stuff and then come back to read messages, you cant do that on msn.. "
Thats exactly why I love this site. I used to MSN and it was so intrusive. Glad others feel like me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i had an msn account from the day i got on line 12 years ago
an i took it due to the amount of fake spam; virus going threw it an hackers trying 2 get in,
all but failed an decided to ditch it
very rare i use msn now only for mail that stays private
i dont think you were wrong for not having an account
why could he not chat with you on hear instead |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Same messagereceived here too and replied saying I don't do cyber. Why can't the guys actually take time to construct individual messages for the person instead of mass mailing. They might actually get lucky then "
Oh really? So he managed to pick two women who don't cyber. Means he didn't even bother to read our profiles before he sent that mass message either! What a maroon! |
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We use MSN as we like to chat (normal chat and not dirty) we turn on cam to prove we are real and then the girls chat on the phone.
We have had a couple of experiances where at best the pics we were sent were 10 years old, and in another case, they must have been taken by a magic camera.....
But we can also understand why otheres dont like it... |
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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago
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"Same messagereceived here too and replied saying I don't do cyber. Why can't the guys actually take time to construct individual messages for the person instead of mass mailing. They might actually get lucky then
Oh really? So he managed to pick two women who don't cyber. Means he didn't even bother to read our profiles before he sent that mass message either! What a maroon!"
How many houses has he got?
You all get one brick each. |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
Livingston |
"OK just got a message from a single guy in my area. Nice profile, amusing message. He ended with saying that he'd bet his house and car that I wouldn't respond but, as I liked the look of him, I did! (He owes me a house and car!!).
Anyway he asks if I have MSN. I don't and told him so, and he hasn't replied! Apart from the fact I am now down a house and car I am not that bothered, but is it really that important to have a chat programme? Or am I missing something by not having it?"
I he a dj in his 30s by any chance???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read about half of the posts.
I use msn.
I don't cam wank
I don't want you to cam wank
I keep my pic there and will face cam
I like to see others faces on cam as pics are SHIT.
There are a lot of jaded people around.
msn is what you make it. |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
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"alas another to join my ever growing block list 
aw Rhona, and there i thought i was the "chosen one"  "
Maybe he was going to have a 'Fab's Got talent' and make us compete against each other. |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"haven't missed a think in my experience, have found that almost without exception MSN peple want to talk dity and get off there and then and they never intend to meet "
So so wrong! 
I have MSN, I have people from here on my contact list on MSN, I chat to them on there like I talk to them when I meet them face to face and not just "talk dirty" and I have every intention of meeting them again or for the first time in some cases.
MSN is what you want it to be and if you don't want to give it out to people on here, then don't. |
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"I read about half of the posts.
I use msn.
I don't cam wank
I don't want you to cam wank
I keep my pic there and will face cam
I like to see others faces on cam as pics are SHIT.
There are a lot of jaded people around.
msn is what you make it. "
That saved me some typing.
The one thing for the moment I would like to add is.... I have binned plenty of people off for not having msn, if chatting on msn is what I feel is required before meeting them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just goes to show we all have preferences on this, some for some against but as I have my recent face pics on here I have no need for msn,another of my reasons for avoiding msn is I dislike Microsoft and try to avoid using any of their products |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I read about half of the posts.
I use msn.
I don't cam wank
I don't want you to cam wank
I keep my pic there and will face cam
I like to see others faces on cam as pics are SHIT.
There are a lot of jaded people around.
msn is what you make it. "
Saves me typing too, ta Granny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have msn.. but its not for talking to people off here... well unless they have become good friends.. I do not do dirty chat..
If I fancy some naughty chat then I if allowed, go on chat..
I get people moaning because i wont go on msn but its tough.
Katie.x |
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"haven't missed a think in my experience, have found that almost without exception MSN peple want to talk dity and get off there and then and they never intend to meet "
i use MSN all the time and i meet people!!!
i did, in the past, cam on it a lot but nowadays i dont and i make it clear when giving my addy out. there are some who dont get the message but i just delete and block them lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Copying and pasting emails is c**p, and definitely shouldn't be done by any genuine guy,- but, gotta say, that comment about betting house is quite a good line.- he probably got more replies than most guys get
Watch out ladies for all the copycat mails now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If having a chat over MSN/Yahoo Messenger is part of one's vetting process, then yes.
How one goes about selecting one's potential playmates is each to their own.
I would not meet someone without having a good chat with them first, and that means Instant Messenging, as I do not like giving out my mobile phone number unless I am likely to meet that person.
I can form a very good impression about whether I would click with someone over IM - if chatting via IM is like drawing blood out of a stone, then it is likely to be the same in real life.
This could mean I could be missing out on very nice gents who are not very good at typing very fast. However, if they can't type very fast, it means they may not be very computer savvy etc., so no huge loss to me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"York, Salisbury, Co Tyrone AND Kirkaldy!!! Boy he does get about! Either he's a trucker or just wants to cyber & wank on cam.....guess which one is more likely!  "
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And what's wrong with that re: how one goes about having fun and where one would like to meet??? Each to their own at the end of the day! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK just got a message from a single guy in my area. Nice profile, amusing message. He ended with saying that he'd bet his house and car that I wouldn't respond but, as I liked the look of him, I did! (He owes me a house and car!!).
Anyway he asks if I have MSN. I don't and told him so, and he hasn't replied! Apart from the fact I am now down a house and car I am not that bothered, but is it really that important to have a chat programme? Or am I missing something by not having it?"
lol i got that message as well.. he's so stupid lol |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"OK just got a message from a single guy in my area. Nice profile, amusing message. He ended with saying that he'd bet his house and car that I wouldn't respond but, as I liked the look of him, I did! (He owes me a house and car!!).
Anyway he asks if I have MSN. I don't and told him so, and he hasn't replied! Apart from the fact I am now down a house and car I am not that bothered, but is it really that important to have a chat programme? Or am I missing something by not having it?
lol i got that message as well.. he's so stupid lol"
Is he?
Or is he just trying his luck to find someone into the same kind of fun he likes? .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If having a chat over MSN/Yahoo Messenger is part of one's vetting process, then yes.
How one goes about selecting one's potential playmates is each to their own.
I would not meet someone without having a good chat with them first, and that means Instant Messenging, as I do not like giving out my mobile phone number unless I am likely to meet that person.
I can form a very good impression about whether I would click with someone over IM - if chatting via IM is like drawing blood out of a stone, then it is likely to be the same in real life.
This could mean I could be missing out on very nice gents who are not very good at typing very fast. However, if they can't type very fast, it means they may not be very computer savvy etc., so no huge loss to me.
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To be honest when selecting a potential playmate I wouldn't give a shit whether they were a computer genius who knew their e-donkeys from their requested URL's or they were a complete novice who thought the disk drive was for holding a steaming cup of rosy lea...but if I was incredibly slow at typing I'd use a headphone and mic set. If they speak as slowly as they chat then this may be an issue... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest when selecting a potential playmate I wouldn't give a shit whether they were a computer genius who knew their e-donkeys from their requested URL's or they were a complete novice who thought the disk drive was for holding a steaming cup of rosy lea...but if I was incredibly slow at typing I'd use a headphone and mic set. If they speak as slowly as they chat then this may be an issue... "
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As I have said before, each to their own, I know what works for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"haven't missed a think in my experience, have found that almost without exception MSN peple want to talk dity and get off there and then and they never intend to meet "
Totally agree which is why we don't MSN anymore.You can message and swap pics on here and if you want to cam there is the chatroom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my experience most men who ask if u have MSN just want to get their cock out on cam , which is obviously why the op didnt get a reply back , very sad really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never give out my details till after a meet; an both get on great,
if that person disagree with it then that's there choice: I like to keep myself safe 1st
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only use Skype and MSN because being in a "sensitive" job I cannot broadcast publicly. I also trust those 2 sites a bit more. Some sites such as person.com store and show pictures of you without your consent. My addy is pechelbron in skype and the same at hotmail.com. You must think I'm sad but THE most exciting thing for me is having the undivided attention of a lady of similar age or older. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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dnt use msn either as get sick all the pervs wanting to talk dirty on there or dirty cam sad really but they want to chat can do freely on here .
Lot that ask to go msn r just pervs anyway cnt stand rejection when you say no . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"haven't missed a think in my experience, have found that almost without exception MSN peple want to talk dity and get off there and then and they never intend to meet
Totally agree which is why we don't MSN anymore.You can message and swap pics on here and if you want to cam there is the chatroom."
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Sorry, however, I disagree.
PM'ing to exchange messages and pics are a lot slower than MSN.
I don't chat to just anyone, only those I intend to meet as part of my vetting process.
And yes, I love to watch a gent performing for me on cam, so I see nothing wrong when they do. |
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