I have been a straight man up to this point in my life. I do however find it a turn on when I see pictures of a man having his cock sucked by another. It does make me curious, but really don't know if it is something I would like to do or not. Has anyone else been in this situation and if so, what did you do about it? |
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over a year ago
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I would try and arrange a meet with a couple with a curious guy, then when he makes advances to you, decide if you are ok with that. Then If you are turned on by his erect cock, start by just feeling the warm hardness of it. |
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By *ipswingCouple
over a year ago
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i thought i was straight until our special friend turned his attention from the lady onto me .. and i felt his lips around me ... it felt nice ..
later when sweet lady was giving head to another friend , i joined her .. he didnt complain either  |
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I love to watch Jon sucking a hard cock and sharing with him, it's a great turn on and a mouth is a mouth as they say! Ha! Plus a guy probably knows what a guy wants just like when I lick pussy I know what she wants 
Jayne xx |
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OP, I know where your coming from there.
I had a meet with a lovely older couple last year. He was curious like me. He wanked me with her, then sucked me with her. I felt my first other hard cock that night. Very liberating feeling. |
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OP I'm with you on this one. This is how we ended up on here the wife's fantasy is to see me with a guy and then her joining in afterwards. Never been with or touch a guy before don't find them or cocks especially attractive other than mine ha ha, so not sure what to expect  only agreed to go along with it as its her fantasy and I'm all about keeping my lady happy at all costs even if it's losing my anal cherry. We have been watching a bit of mmf porn while playing with each other and she is telling me that's the sort of thing that she would like to see happen between me and the guy, must admit it gets me very turned on so what does that make me ? |
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Sucked on a couple....a bit degrading, very intense. Lots of guilt and self loathing followed me. I'm pretty cool with it now. You may enjoy it a lot! Lol |
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Most guys are curious and sexuality isn't fixed. It ebbs & flows and there was a recent report that said as guys approach their mid 40's, they often start to experience bisexual curiosity.
With sexuality, there are no rules. Chemistry, pheromones, porn, visual appeal can all play a part in the game of attraction.
I've met guys fascinated by a cock but with absolutely no attraction to men.
Go with your feelings, explore at your own pace. You may be pleasantly surprised! |
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Finding a couple with a bi male is certainly your best bet, as you can just ease into touching/sucking for the first time by following the lead of the fem when your comfortable and ready. If the couple know that this is your first time, they will be understanding and not force things.
The issue with meeting with a single man is that all the attention and expectation to play is on you, there is no one else around to take the pressure off.
Most of all enjoy yourself, we certainly do. |
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Give it a go,if you don't like it then don't do it again,well maybe one more time just to make sure! I've had a fair few messages from men wanting to try it and people pulling out at the last minute. You men who want to try it get some balls and try it! |
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"Give it a go,if you don't like it then don't do it again,well maybe one more time just to make sure! I've had a fair few messages from men wanting to try it and people pulling out at the last minute. You men who want to try it get some balls and try it!"
I'm not a man by the way  |
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Find a guy with experience. Tell him straight, the thought turns you on but don't know the reality. If he accepts that, great, you'll find out.
Good luck, hope it works out for you. |
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This is how I started OP. I found it strange and confusing at first, guilt played a part in that. After a while I found myself wanting to do it again, things slowly progressed until I eventually had a one on one meet with a guy.
I've now learned to listen to my body and what I find sexual, somethings surprise me still but I don't get caught up in the emotion of why or how anymore. Sexuality is fluid and so long as you're not hurting anyone then why get hung up on feeling bad for what you want |
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I felt the same, I'm married but always got turned on liking at guys cocks, I never fancied men thou, just their cocks lol
So about 2 year ago I decided to just go for it and met a guy in hotel room and sucked his cock, I loved it and never had any regrets, I've sucked 5 other guys since, so I would go for it If I were you |
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"I felt the same, I'm married but always got turned on liking at guys cocks, I never fancied men thou, just their cocks lol
So about 2 year ago I decided to just go for it and met a guy in hotel room and sucked his cock, I loved it and never had any regrets, I've sucked 5 other guys since, so I would go for it If I were you"
"I never fancied men thou, just their cocks lol" - I think that's likely to be true of many of us bi guys. I just love to play with cocks. Sometimes, if it's a guy with a really great, fit body I do find myself 'fancying' more than his cock. But to be honest, mostly, it's just that lovely cock I enjoy getting to grips with. |
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"OP I'm with you on this one. This is how we ended up on here the wife's fantasy is to see me with a guy and then her joining in afterwards. Never been with or touch a guy before don't find them or cocks especially attractive other than mine ha ha, so not sure what to expect only agreed to go along with it as its her fantasy and I'm all about keeping my lady happy at all costs even if it's losing my anal cherry. We have been watching a bit of mmf porn while playing with each other and she is telling me that's the sort of thing that she would like to see happen between me and the guy, must admit it gets me very turned on so what does that make me ? "
OP, it makes you adventurous. Willing to try something different. We have one go at this life, try everything. |
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"I have been a straight man up to this point in my life. I do however find it a turn on when I see pictures of a man having his cock sucked by another. It does make me curious, but really don't know if it is something I would like to do or not. Has anyone else been in this situation and if so, what did you do about it?"
Popped a frock on and knelt down |
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"I have been a straight man up to this point in my life. I do however find it a turn on when I see pictures of a man having his cock sucked by another. It does make me curious, but really don't know if it is something I would like to do or not. Has anyone else been in this situation and if so, what did you do about it?"
One thing I've learned about swinging is that human beings can be hugely complex in their sexuality. A desire to experiment with the opposite sex is perfectly normal, and doesn't necesarily change your sexuality. I have met a number of straight men who might sometimes enjoy sucking a cock, although they are not really attracted to men. I (female) am straight - I don't fancy women in the least, and I have no interest in women's bodies as such. But there is nothing that turns me on more than the thought of playing with huge breasts. I suppose the term bicurious is often for used for people who want to experiment. Just enjoy the swing scene for the rich diversity of experiences it provides. |
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Then...... when you have that cock in your mouth, felt how much he was enjoying it! You'll think what would it be like to feel him cum in your mouth, taste his sweet warm thick cream, you'll just have to find out! |
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"nothing wrong with curious - chat about it and act on it if you want - then see how you feel "
Totally agree. As long as all are happy and always good to push boundaries and try new things. |
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Go ahead and give it a go ... If you don't like it and never want to do it again then fine but on the other hand if you really enjoy it and want to try more then happy days . |
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