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Why do people swing?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bored or just not happy "
Just the two choices? I think that there's a whole rainbow of reasons, usually because people want to enjoy and share a wider sexual experience with their partner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bored or just not happy "
I'm neither bored or Un happy I swing because I love sex love men and women and don't like drama.
All that I live without any hassle  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aside from the sex one in one it's the amazingly liberated feeling I get from being in a room full of others at a club all doing the same. I think that will always stay with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bored or just not happy "
Think you will find that couples who swing are in a very trusting and loving relationship and are probably the happiest people around . They are very rarely bored to , swinging is not all about sex real swingers have a fantastic social life to . Sex when and with whoever you choose is just an added bonus |
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We are very happily married, and we started swinging a few weeks after we first met. Both of us are highly sexed, so sex with just one partner has never been enough. Swinging allows us to fulfil our needs without deceitful affairs, as we both had during our last marriages. Our previous extramarital sex was one-on-one, but now it is almost always group sex, which we love. We're certainly not bored of our own sexual relationship! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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...because hubby and I have different sex drives....and we don't like the idea of cheating....prefer to be open about it.....also I like variety and excitement (Mrs) x x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are both voyeuristic exhibitionists, so we get to perv and show off at the same time. And the people you meet are usually much more fun than vanilla friends.
Oh and sex. Oh yes we like sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because we both love watching each other fuck other people and then have our own fuckathon in the afterglow! And, because rules are made to be broken!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bored or just not happy "
No because Jools love's cock and I love watching her enjoy said cock.
We have both lead very sheltered lives until recently and enjoying the experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because I have everything I want in life at the moment, except regular sex. I do not want to become a 'couple' again, to achieve sex. "
I'm exactly with Sophie here. I love the freedom and potential for sexual adventures. I don't want or need a significant other. Quite plainly it's suits me well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bored or just not happy "
Boredom yes overall until I meet with a man I'm very Compatible with and love's me unconditionally as I do him Fab has to do me for now  . |
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"Bored or just not happy "
Neither.
We have a great sex life and are very happy.
Swinging allows us to indulge in our fantasies and do things that just two can't.
It's also loads of fun and we get to meet lots of interesting people 
Nita |
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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago
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"Bored or just not happy
Think you will find that couples who swing are in a very trusting and loving relationship and are probably the happiest people around . They are very rarely bored to , swinging is not all about sex real swingers have a fantastic social life to . Sex when and with whoever you choose is just an added bonus "
Couldn't agree more, we have a good strong trusting relationship, love the social, flirting and sex is an extra.
Swinging is a lifestyle |
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"Bored or just not happy "
We do not out of boredom.i've been with 8years and i still cant get enough of her.We swing because we love watching each other;i love watching Cath take on loads of guys in mmmf etc,and Cath gets off watxhing me with girls.Its worked out well for the both of us. |
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Because we want to
Because we can
Because we can separate making love from sex
Because we love watching each other giving and receiving pleasure
Because it's bloody good fun
Definitely nothing to do with boredom or being unhappy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us it started as hubby cheated on me then we finished and I told him about the one night stand I had.
Then he kept asking me about it and said it turned him on so we started having sex in car etc...
Then it went further as in flirting when out to sneaky playing with others
Now full swing/steam ahead and it boosts our sex life through the roof ?? |
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It is certainly not boredom. I've been with my wife almost 19 years, and she still excites me.
But neither of us is monogamous, nor could we be. A monogamous relationship would not suit us and would leave us both very unhappy simply because that is the way we are wired.
So we swing, we "play away" with consent, we sometimes form connections with others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bored or just not happy "
because the football season has finished lol or the Mrs is on and the hubby is horny so they head to a club and she watches lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't swing
I just use the site for sex
Why?
Because I'm a single women with a sex drive and it's the easiest way to find somebody for sex where we both know what's what and the guy isn't going to want to call me the next day
Shagging people in your personal life just causes complications |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bored or just not happy "
I have been a Swinger even before I had even heard of the word. I have always enjoyed sex and with multiple partners. Everyone does it differently and I enjoy that, it is great to find someone who is extra good at oral, then someone who has a similar kink or whatever. I remember having a bf when I was a teen and wanting to have sex with both him and his mate, and then I did! After a party all three of us ended up in bed. The mate was really sweet, but the bf, once sober, wasn't overly impressed. But I Swing because I.Just.Love.Sex. Not coz I am bored nor unhappy. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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i dont expect one person to be able to fulfil all my sexual needs and desires. i dont expect the swinging scene to do that either so i have a foot in the BDSM scene too.
im not unhappy or bored and wasnt when i joined either.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The 2 reasons given at the top is probably how you feel about yourself n your partner unfortunately.. As we do it coz I'm bi n love the way a girl makes me feel as well as a man.my hubby is my best friend and my partner in one so the comment about being unhappy is bull crap xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bored or just not happy
Just the two choices? I think that there's a whole rainbow of reasons, usually because people want to enjoy and share a wider sexual experience with their partner"
this is the exact reason why I'm into the swinging scene |
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"The 2 reasons given at the top is probably how you feel about yourself n your partner unfortunately.. As we do it coz I'm bi n love the way a girl makes me feel as well as a man.my hubby is my best friend and my partner in one so the comment about being unhappy is bull crap xx"
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"i dont expect one person to be able to fulfil all my sexual needs and desires. i dont expect the swinging scene to do that either so i have a foot in the BDSM scene too.
im not unhappy or bored and wasnt when i joined either.."
Very well put and this describes myself too.
If anyone turns to swinging becauae they are unhappy or bored within a relationship then there are issues that should be dealt with outside of Fab or the swinging scene. |
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to add an extra dimension to their already fantastic sex life?
that's just a guess btw 
(Not a typo.)
