OK so before I RE joined fab I was seeing an Aussie guy for about a month. He went back home in Mid Feb for a visit, he had a horrific RTA and his nest friend was killed. We kept in contact, weeks where he went quiet as he was in hospital etc but we've remained friends. He stayed to recover and had decided to stay there.
So.....2 days ago, he texts me to say surprise I'm.flying back on 30th!
Wow, now I really like him, and I had settled with the idea he was staying in Oz but now my belly is all butterflies as he will be home today!
Should we try for something? would you write it off? He didn't return for me, he has a business here too.
Sorry for the vanilla post, just needed to say it out loud! |
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The butterflies clearly suggest that there is something there for you at least. Sure, he didn't return for you, but maybe he thought that there wasn't anything there and was protecting his own feelings by not saying anything?
I'd wait u til you see him again and see how you feel when he is there in the flesh. After that, it's a case of putting your cards on the table and letting him know how you feel. Good luck!! |
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Eek thanks, just had to get it out of my head!!!! He has said his leg is pretty smashed up and he's embarrassed but I wouldn't even think about it, he's a PT and has come back for his business so I'm.assuming he's a lot better.
God why do emotions fuck with you!. Lol |
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"OK so before I RE joined fab I was seeing an Aussie guy for about a month. He went back home in Mid Feb for a visit, he had a horrific RTA and his nest friend was killed. We kept in contact, weeks where he went quiet as he was in hospital etc but we've remained friends. He stayed to recover and had decided to stay there.
So.....2 days ago, he texts me to say surprise I'm.flying back on 30th!
Wow, now I really like him, and I had settled with the idea he was staying in Oz but now my belly is all butterflies as he will be home today!
Should we try for something? would you write it off? He didn't return for me, he has a business here too.
Sorry for the vanilla post, just needed to say it out loud! "
Did he say he wants to pick up where you left off? You know it's him you need to talk to not us. Good luck  |
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Sounds like good old fashioned 'courting' to me. Treat it like any other date. sounds like your tummy is telling you how you feel, so fingers crossed he feels the same. Good luck! |
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Butterflies = potential. Go for it what have you got to lose?
My missus still gets butterflies over one of her ex fb's when he messages. They had very good chemistry! |
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