FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Friends hubby
Friends hubby
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Friends hubby just mailed us wanting a meet
He doesn't know it's us, and I guess his wife doesn't know either he's on here |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
He's met 5 people lol |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
"Friends hubby just mailed us wanting a meet
He doesn't know it's us, and I guess his wife doesn't know either he's on here"
At this point, your only guessing she doesn't. Maybe she does. |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Really she doesn't trust me |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
I'd block. Who needs any possible fallout from a fall out? |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Sounds like your considering meeting him? |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
So now you've published the fact he's on here and messaged you - he has 5 friends - you have a picture up so he'll recognise you are the profile he messaged if he reads this...... - its not rocket science he'll worked out who you are too.
I guess your friend doesnt know you're on here either! She may well do in the near future if it all go's tits up if she finds out he's here
Brilliant bit of self preservation and discretion |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"So now you've published the fact he's on here and messaged you - he has 5 friends - you have a picture up so he'll recognise you are the profile he messaged if he reads this...... - its not rocket science he'll worked out who you are too.
I guess your friend doesnt know you're on here either! She may well do in the near future if it all go's tits up if she finds out he's here
Brilliant bit of self preservation and discretion"
! No I said 5 meets , he had no idea it's us, and personally no chance of a meet,
And be honest he's a snake,
But not my place to get invokes or disclose, rather stupid to send a full photo knowing he's married |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
"So now you've published the fact he's on here and messaged you - he has 5 friends - you have a picture up so he'll recognise you are the profile he messaged if he reads this...... - its not rocket science he'll worked out who you are too.
I guess your friend doesnt know you're on here either! She may well do in the near future if it all go's tits up if she finds out he's here
Brilliant bit of self preservation and discretion
! No I said 5 meets , he had no idea it's us, and personally no chance of a meet,
And be honest he's a snake,
But not my place to get invokes or disclose, rather stupid to send a full photo knowing he's married"
I'm sure if he knows you both he will be able to recognise your wife from your public photo. |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
So you've posted up for all and sundry to see, called him a snake for being on a swinger site. You know it's him but he doesn't know it's you so you feel great about yourself and just had to post up on the forum about it.
Classy. Real classy.
If you don't want to meet him, just decline or block and be an adult about it. |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"So you've posted up for all and sundry to see, called him a snake for being on a swinger site. You know it's him but he doesn't know it's you so you feel great about yourself and just had to post up on the forum about it.
Classy. Real classy.
If you don't want to meet him, just
decline or block and be an adult about it."
What's up are u in the same class as him |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So you've posted up for all and sundry to see, called him a snake for being on a swinger site. You know it's him but he doesn't know it's you so you feel great about yourself and just had to post up on the forum about it.
Classy. Real classy.
If you don't want to meet him, just
decline or block and be an adult about it.
What's up are u in the same class as him"
No I'm not, I just don't make a judgement. You have no idea what goes on behind closed doors for them. On my profile it clearly states I'm married with permission to play, and we both link to each other's profiles. It's how we choose to do it. My wife said I could say I was truly single if I wanted, I choose to do it the honest way, I just feel more comfortable like that. How other people do it has no impact on me at all, and I wish everyone every success and lots of fun. I wouldn't go sticking my nose into someone else's marriage and I wouldn't make judgements on them, and I wouldn't air their laundry on a forum that thousands of people read. |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Everything's a soap opera  |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
If you fancy him go for it what she doesn't know won't hurt her I'm only saying this cos we have met her twice on her own lol |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
Just block him and move on - simples |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago
Worcestershire |
If he's seen your pubic picture he'll know it's you I guess.
Sounds like you don't like him so block him. Discretion should always be both expected and assured. |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Does she have a pubic pic |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"So you've posted up for all and sundry to see, called him a snake for being on a swinger site. You know it's him but he doesn't know it's you so you feel great about yourself and just had to post up on the forum about it.
Classy. Real classy.
If you don't want to meet him, just
decline or block and be an adult about it.
What's up are u in the same class as him
No I'm not, I just don't make a judgement. You have no idea what goes on behind closed doors for them. On my profile it clearly states I'm married with permission to play, and we both link to each other's profiles. It's how we choose to do it. My wife said I could say I was truly single if I wanted, I choose to do it the honest way, I just feel more comfortable like that. How other people do it has no impact on me at all, and I wish everyone every success and lots of fun. I wouldn't go sticking my nose into someone else's marriage and I wouldn't make judgements on them, and I wouldn't air their laundry on a forum that thousands of people read."
REALLY !!! |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"If you fancy him go for it what she doesn't know won't hurt her I'm only saying this cos we have met her twice on her own lol"
LOL NICE ONE |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So now you've published the fact he's on here and messaged you - he has 5 friends - you have a picture up so he'll recognise you are the profile he messaged if he reads this...... - its not rocket science he'll worked out who you are too.
I guess your friend doesnt know you're on here either! She may well do in the near future if it all go's tits up if she finds out he's here
Brilliant bit of self preservation and discretion
! No I said 5 meets , he had no idea it's us, and personally no chance of a meet,
And be honest he's a snake,
But not my place to get invokes or disclose, rather stupid to send a full photo knowing he's married"
Block, move on. |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
If he knows you I would have thought he could easily recognise you from your profile pic ? |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
Well... All I can say is.... FRIENDS like you, who needs enemies!! Lol |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I'd say treat it like any other 'single' male you don't want to meet and block. |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Maybe he's had his suspicions about you guys being swingers and is trying to call you out, or maybe he'd like to get into it himself with his wife but doesn't know how to approach the subject, maybe he thought you'd be mature about it and it would open up a dialogue about it all, who knows? If you're not interested then just block him and forget about it.  |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
"Friends hubby just mailed us wanting a meet
He doesn't know it's us, and I guess his wife doesn't know either he's on here"
Not your circus not your monkeys.
Your here for your reasons ..he's clearly here for his own so let him get on with his business and you yours. Far less drama |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
[Removed by poster at 01/07/16 10:50:17] |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Yes we blocked |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Clearly upset some people in there small world as getting stupid mails |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
"So you've posted up for all and sundry to see, called him a snake for being on a swinger site. You know it's him but he doesn't know it's you so you feel great about yourself and just had to post up on the forum about it.
Classy. Real classy.
If you don't want to meet him, just decline or block and be an adult about it."
 |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"Clearly upset some people in there small world as getting stupid mails"
Report any nastiness and if this thread is bothering you - you can also report it to the mods asking they remove it? |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
"Clearly upset some people in there small world as getting stupid mails"
Don't agree with ppl mailing you anything negative . But had you dealt with it privately that's how it would of remained. If you open it to the public circus you can't then complain you don't like the show of your own making . |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Just agree to meet. Wait until he's sat waiting for his meet to turn up and then go over to him and say, "Hi, what are you doing here?" See what his reply is |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Clearly upset some people in there small world as getting stupid mails"
Why do people do that, the point if a forum is to say your piece publicly, why do people feel the need to PM people about the same subject being discussed openly. Maybe people hide their true colours by being nice in the forum yet nasty in PM's. |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
"Clearly upset some people in there small world as getting stupid mails
Why do people do that, the point if a forum is to say your piece publicly, why do people feel the need to PM people about the same subject being discussed openly. Maybe people hide their true colours by being nice in the forum yet nasty in PM's. "
It is usually people who rarely ,if ever comment in the forums that result to the nasty PM. |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I have always been of the opinion that no one on this site wants to be outed and that goes both ways. I am sure if he has recognized you he is in equal fear of getting caught if his wife doesn't know as he has far more to loose. No Drama here block and move on. |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Who needs a soap? |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
What's his ID, we'll have him |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Clearly upset some people in there small world as getting stupid mails
Report any nastiness and if this thread is bothering you - you can also report it to the mods asking they remove it?"
Exactly. Report any nasty messages.
I've disagreed with you here but might be sticking up for you in the next thread. Nothing personal just opinions. |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Well said a healthy debate is a healthy forum
No need for the 4ft high forum police to get involved lol |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Fuck him if hes on a swingers site why not |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
"Friends hubby just mailed us wanting a meet
He doesn't know it's us, and I guess his wife doesn't know either he's on here"
I had this happen to me just the other day!! Messaged back saying I knew him and his wife lol shockingly he blocked me lmao x |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Unmm we are on swinging site he's cheating |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
|
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
"Unmm we are on swinging site he's cheating"
And there's plenty that would judge you for swinging . Is that their business....absolutely not . Is what he's doing any of yours ..absolutely not . Especially when all you have is supposition. You don't know for a fact he's cheating ...unless you are told from his partner you are just assuming. Even if he was that's their business and not yours unless you like the drama that is .
|
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
Ive removed posts, not sure that the guy in question would appreciate his profile being discussed in here so Im closing this now |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
