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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are very new to hotwife lifestyle and need some advice from experience couples.
We would like to chat more private so if there is any couples who willing to share some tips please let us know.
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"We are very new to hotwife lifestyle and need some advice from experience couples.
We would like to chat more private so if there is any couples who willing to share some tips please let us know.
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Judging by the super hot pics I don't think you need any tips, looks like your doing just fine lol.
Lexi"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interested in chatting too. As a guy who has both met couples for hotwife and cuckold meets and also enjoyed a hotwife relationship with a previous GF, so I guess that's a hotGF! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met a guy who I knew from previous meets. Few glasses of wine before he turned up. I ensured she understood that doing this made me desire her even more, it wasn't going to change how I viewed her negatively. |
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Hi,
I have thoroughly embraced the Hotwife lifestyle since meeting my partner 8 months ago. I always harboured dreams of being 'glam' but was the 'quiet' plain Jane amongst my friends.
My partner, and Master (we are a fetish couple), opened my eyes to this wonderful new world, and has teased out and nurtured my dreams to the extent that I have a new found confidence that has made me so happy 
My thing is PVC - I love the exhibitionism side of things - to the extent that we are thinking of setting up a website etc.
Hope this gives you confidence and that you too can blossom into the amazing Hotwife I am sure you were meant to be!
Cherie xx |
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"Great story and advise I think confidence is what we need...
Thank you for good tips."
Happy to help leading you astray tee hee 
Seriously though, you will find that you feel like a new person!
Maybe it is a sort of alter ego that allows you to look and behave in a way you never had the confidence to do in your 'normal' life. It is very liberating and I think the key is that it is FUN and doesn't become too 'heavy' for both of you.
Ideally you should both share the same fantasies and your partner needs to be comfortable with you attracting attention because, in some instances, this can be a bit of a shock and the partner can feel a little (or a lot) jealous. But as long as you share the same dreams he will thrive on it - who wouldn't want to be out with their fantasy woman.
We have a very simple formula that has worked so well, and has made me feel like a million dollars to be honest! We vowed that we would do all we could to be our partner's PORN! There is nothing more wonderful than knowing if either feels in the mood for a crafty wank, it will be their partner that they fantasise about, and not some impersonal unreal porn character on the web. This has been perfect for us and so empowering.
My partner had long experience of nurturing women to be whatever they want to be - he is very caring and supportive, as well as emotionally empathetic - and that is why I felt comfortable and gained the confidence to spread my wings. The net result is we have found our respective soulmates and are getting married soon
I hope my experiences provide some useful food for thought and I'm happy to chat further if you need a cheerleader to help you on your way.
C xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is a hotwife anyway..."
For me it's a married woman who has lovers with their husband's approval. Play can be with the husband watching or participating, or play can be alone. This depends on the arrangement the couple have. I'm a hotwife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is a hotwife anyway...
For me it's a married woman who has lovers with their husband's approval. Play can be with the husband watching or participating, or play can be alone. This depends on the arrangement the couple have. I'm a hotwife."
Ok thanks for the clarity |
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"What is a hotwife anyway...
For me it's a married woman who has lovers with their husband's approval. Play can be with the husband watching or participating, or play can be alone. This depends on the arrangement the couple have. I'm a hotwife."
Perfectly put, spot on 
You certainly are one very Hotwife!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is a hotwife anyway...
For me it's a married woman who has lovers with their husband's approval. Play can be with the husband watching or participating, or play can be alone. This depends on the arrangement the couple have. I'm a hotwife.
Perfectly put, spot on
You certainly are one very Hotwife! "
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Just read your profile. We play this way also and are more than happy to conversate and share our experineces with you guys. Wecome to the lifestyle and please feel free to message with any questions.
N&N |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just read your profile. We play this way also and are more than happy to conversate and share our experineces with you guys. Wecome to the lifestyle and please feel free to message with any questions.
N&N"
We will happily get in touch guys |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just another question come true to our minds if there is any meeting spot for hotwife as we where thinking going to hotel and try to have go ...
But apart from that where will you go to find potential meet... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They go out of town met at pub to begin with but now he just picks her up lol And usually they share a hotel for fun afterwards so it's late when getting there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They go out of town met at pub to begin with but now he just picks her up lol And usually they share a hotel for fun afterwards so it's late when getting there. "
We mean where would you go for the first meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They go out of town met at pub to begin with but now he just picks her up lol And usually they share a hotel for fun afterwards so it's late when getting there.
We mean where would you go for the first meet "
We always meet in a pub or a bar. The three of us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A pub out of town where no one knows you Can talk about anything then lol
Great we will try it "
It's really kinky being in a pub as a trio. New guy flirting with the hotwife, and everybody wondering who she with. We used to do this in London, and you can get away with more there, but we got fed up with travelling into London. So now we tend to go to country pubs, but it's harder to be naughty in public. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry maybe we put a wrong question but we mean it where to find first guy for meet x"
You find them on Fab. Find someone who meets your requirements and understands hotwifing. Then you arrange to meet them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sorry maybe we put a wrong question but we mean it where to find first guy for meet x
You find them on Fab. Find someone who meets your requirements and understands hotwifing. Then you arrange to meet them"
You will be surprise how hard it is most of the single guys gere are dreamesrs or time wasters no offends to a good guys x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry maybe we put a wrong question but we mean it where to find first guy for meet x
You find them on Fab. Find someone who meets your requirements and understands hotwifing. Then you arrange to meet them
You will be surprise how hard it is most of the single guys gere are dreamesrs or time wasters no offends to a good guys x"
No I'm not surprised. We've been using Fab for a year and a half. Before that we advertised on Craig's List, but that was even worse. I have managed to get together a Roladex of 3 off-on lovers in just over a year though, and there have been a few more that came and went. You do have to sift through a lot of trash though. I would prefer someone a bit more regular though. |
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"Sorry maybe we put a wrong question but we mean it where to find first guy for meet x
You find them on Fab. Find someone who meets your requirements and understands hotwifing. Then you arrange to meet them
You will be surprise how hard it is most of the single guys gere are dreamesrs or time wasters no offends to a good guys x
No I'm not surprised. We've been using Fab for a year and a half. Before that we advertised on Craig's List, but that was even worse. I have managed to get together a Roladex of 3 off-on lovers in just over a year though, and there have been a few more that came and went. You do have to sift through a lot of trash though. I would prefer someone a bit more regular though."
Thank you
guys guess we need to be more patients on the way but we don't appreciate time wasters x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry maybe we put a wrong question but we mean it where to find first guy for meet x
You find them on Fab. Find someone who meets your requirements and understands hotwifing. Then you arrange to meet them
You will be surprise how hard it is most of the single guys gere are dreamesrs or time wasters no offends to a good guys x
No I'm not surprised. We've been using Fab for a year and a half. Before that we advertised on Craig's List, but that was even worse. I have managed to get together a Roladex of 3 off-on lovers in just over a year though, and there have been a few more that came and went. You do have to sift through a lot of trash though. I would prefer someone a bit more regular though.
Thank you
guys guess we need to be more patients on the way but we don't appreciate time wasters x"
Actually we haven't come across timewasters as such. It's just that not many guys really understand or want what we want. |
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We love this lifestyle so feel free to message is if we can be of any help
If not enjoy your road and always remember it's best to regret what you haven't done and can rearrange for another time rather than what you have done which can't be changed
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"A pub out of town where no one knows you Can talk about anything then lol
Great we will try it
It's really kinky being in a pub as a trio. New guy flirting with the hotwife, and everybody wondering who she with. We used to do this in London, and you can get away with more there, but we got fed up with travelling into London. So now we tend to go to country pubs, but it's harder to be naughty in public."
Yes it is hard to be naughty in most places and for me that is very frustrating because my normal dress is full on PVC Hotwife Slut - as per my profile pic - so we have to pick our venues carefully to avoid awkwardness.
By and large the guys are complementary though and some women applaud the fact I am prepared to be daring, but then you get a certain element who are the real tut tut brigade giving you filthy looks, possibly because they are annoyed their hubbies are stealing not very discreet glances LOL |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A pub out of town where no one knows you Can talk about anything then lol
Great we will try it
It's really kinky being in a pub as a trio. New guy flirting with the hotwife, and everybody wondering who she with. We used to do this in London, and you can get away with more there, but we got fed up with travelling into London. So now we tend to go to country pubs, but it's harder to be naughty in public.
Yes it is hard to be naughty in most places and for me that is very frustrating because my normal dress is full on PVC Hotwife Slut - as per my profile pic - so we have to pick our venues carefully to avoid awkwardness.
By and large the guys are complementary though and some women applaud the fact I am prepared to be daring, but then you get a certain element who are the real tut tut brigade giving you filthy looks, possibly because they are annoyed their hubbies are stealing not very discreet glances LOL "
We will try this weekend some of the local pub or hotel and share our experience x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hotwife in training here.
What is the context of the term "hotwife".. new to this phrase? 
Your a hotwife
Im actually the hot hubby.. but thank you "
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"What is a hotwife anyway...
For me it's a married woman who has lovers with their husband's approval. Play can be with the husband watching or participating, or play can be alone. This depends on the arrangement the couple have. I'm a hotwife."
This perfectly sums it up...o am also a hottie and love it |
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