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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Bit of a rant so I apologise in advance; why oh why do so many couples only have photos of the lady in their profile? If you expect us single fems to be interested in playing with both of you it helps to know what you BOTH look like!!!!!! Getting fed up of having to ask to see photos of the man. Rant over x |
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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago
High Wycombe |
We have photos of both of us in public, but not face pics. We'll send those early on if we message but, as a couple of other threads have highlighted in the last day or two, there's no telling who else is on here who might know you! Also - where so many "fake" couples are on here, pics of me which are changed and uploaded quite regularly might at least help show we're real. Just my penny's worth....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have photos of both of us in public, but not face pics. We'll send those early on if we message but, as a couple of other threads have highlighted in the last day or two, there's no telling who else is on here who might know you! Also - where so many "fake" couples are on here, pics of me which are changed and uploaded quite regularly might at least help show we're real. Just my penny's worth....
I wouldn't expect face pics as I agree with you about the need to be careful.
Having photos that don't show the face but give an idea about body type etc would be good. Don't know why many only have photos of the lady if they want fabbers to play with them both?
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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago
High Wycombe |
"We have photos of both of us in public, but not face pics. We'll send those early on if we message but, as a couple of other threads have highlighted in the last day or two, there's no telling who else is on here who might know you! Also - where so many "fake" couples are on here, pics of me which are changed and uploaded quite regularly might at least help show we're real. Just my penny's worth....
I wouldn't expect face pics as I agree with you about the need to be careful.
Having photos that don't show the face but give an idea about body type etc would be good. Don't know why many only have photos of the lady if they want fabbers to play with them both?
Cat"
I agree about profiles with only pics of the lady. We try to portray ourselves as fairly as we can. I'm more suspicious about ones without no man oddly enough!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a fair point, we look for single men so ours are biased toward that fact, infact there's only one or two of myself in there, the rest are my wife 
Are said couples looking for predominantly bi ff meets though I wonder? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because they get more interests and as well, it is the woman who sells the profile lol.
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I agree that, for those who are looking for single guys, only showing the lady is acceptable but I'm referring to those who state they are seeking a bi female to play with both. In these cases there really ain't an excuse for not showing both people in the profile! |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Because they get more interests and as well, it is the woman who sells the profile lol.
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Damn, need to change the profile photo.
We tend to put up a photo of whoever is on line at the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because they get more interests and as well, it is the woman who sells the profile lol.
I agree that, for those who are looking for single guys, only showing the lady is acceptable but I'm referring to those who state they are seeking a bi female to play with both. In these cases there really ain't an excuse for not showing both people in the profile! "
That is right and yes as you want to play with both, so you have to see the man in the pics too, it is not blind date. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because they get more interests and as well, it is the woman who sells the profile lol.
Damn, need to change the profile photo.
We tend to put up a photo of whoever is on line at the time. "
That is a good idea as well, so you know who you will be sending the messages too. |
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I totally agree and im always saying it to jack,if they are wanting to meet couples they need shots of both people.
Puts me off immediately if its all the woman ,i get that many couples have a bi female and are looking for women ,but not all of us are bi.Its probably the reason i don't find many profiles i like,whilst jack doesn't have that problem.
Miss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well as a couple we would like to see more single bi females dressed in seal outfits , and we would prefer it if they could perform circus tricks for our delectation .
Unfortunately there are only a few willing to do this , so as the saying goes - you can't always get what you want .....
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"Bit of a rant so I apologise in advance; why oh why do so many couples only have photos of the lady in their profile? If you expect us single fems to be interested in playing with both of you it helps to know what you BOTH look like!!!!!! Getting fed up of having to ask to see photos of the man. Rant over x"
We agree.... or at least Anita does, I don't really care what HE looks like.
We do think it's important for me to have a presence on the profile too (I even got fabbed once).
Cal |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
Why do so many people try to control how others run their profile? If a profile doesn't suit your needs then move on to another - there are plenty to choose from.
Our profile has far more pictures of me than my partner for many reasons (not least because he likes taking pictures and I like posing). Our profile works very well indeed for us and we see no reason to change it because it doesn't fit someone else's expectations. They should simply use their dislike of our balance of photos as a filter, just as we do when we come across a profile with a set of photographs that we don't like (of which there are many).
No need to rant, just move on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do so many people try to control how others run their profile? If a profile doesn't suit your needs then move on to another - there are plenty to choose from.
Our profile has far more pictures of me than my partner for many reasons (not least because he likes taking pictures and I like posing). Our profile works very well indeed for us and we see no reason to change it because it doesn't fit someone else's expectations. They should simply use their dislike of our balance of photos as a filter, just as we do when we come across a profile with a set of photographs that we don't like (of which there are many).
No need to rant, just move on."
I take your point that it could simply be a way of filtering out site users for me and it's not my place to tell people how to run their profiles. And of course you're right; I doubt any will read his and run off to make changes. I suppose this post is really out of frustration and a genuine curiosity why couples don't display photos of the male half at all. When I'm looking for couples to potentially meet it feels like coming up against a road block all too often when you have no idea what the guy looks like. And let's be honest; if nobody had the occasional rant the forums would be a very quiet place |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"Why do so many people try to control how others run their profile? If a profile doesn't suit your needs then move on to another - there are plenty to choose from.
Our profile has far more pictures of me than my partner for many reasons (not least because he likes taking pictures and I like posing). Our profile works very well indeed for us and we see no reason to change it because it doesn't fit someone else's expectations. They should simply use their dislike of our balance of photos as a filter, just as we do when we come across a profile with a set of photographs that we don't like (of which there are many).
No need to rant, just move on.
I take your point that it could simply be a way of filtering out site users for me and it's not my place to tell people how to run their profiles. And of course you're right; I doubt any will read his and run off to make changes. I suppose this post is really out of frustration and a genuine curiosity why couples don't display photos of the male half at all. When I'm looking for couples to potentially meet it feels like coming up against a road block all too often when you have no idea what the guy looks like. And let's be honest; if nobody had the occasional rant the forums would be a very quiet place "
......that is certainly true! ? |
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"Bit of a rant so I apologise in advance; why oh why do so many couples only have photos of the lady in their profile? If you expect us single fems to be interested in playing with both of you it helps to know what you BOTH look like!!!!!! Getting fed up of having to ask to see photos of the man. Rant over x"
We have pics of us both and it still doesn't help  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bit of a rant so I apologise in advance; why oh why do so many couples only have photos of the lady in their profile? If you expect us single fems to be interested in playing with both of you it helps to know what you BOTH look like!!!!!! Getting fed up of having to ask to see photos of the man. Rant over x"
Not just single females. We've looked loads from our couple account and I'd estimate 1 in 20 have good pics of the male. Otherwise nothing or some distant blurred cock pic. So we've largely given up finding a couple to play with it seems none of the males want to attract any females. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bit of a rant so I apologise in advance; why oh why do so many couples only have photos of the lady in their profile? If you expect us single fems to be interested in playing with both of you it helps to know what you BOTH look like!!!!!! Getting fed up of having to ask to see photos of the man. Rant over x"
Because most couples are 9 to 5....
She is a 9 and he is a 5  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ours are predominantly pictures of Cookie, she is far sexier than I (she receives more fabs  so I know this to be true).
However we do have pictures of us both and face pictures in Friends only too which we can send to deliciously sexy people who pique our interest. |
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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago
Lancaster area |
My wife instantly loses ANY interest if there are no pics of the male. Because we have been at this a few years, and there have been so many disappointments, it doesn't take much for her to cross somebody off the list.
-JD |
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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago
North Herts |
Something we're currently guilty of (if indeed there is any guilt in it) as there are none of me publically showing at the moment. Although there are face pics hidden in private that will nearly always be sent on polite request.
There's a simple reason we don't have any public ones of me right now, which is there are no decent (in both senses of the word!!) recent ones of me - something we do intend on rectifying once we can find some time.
A general all systems alert will go out once they're up to protect the innocent and easily disturbed amongst you!!
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"Well as a couple we would like to see more single bi females dressed in seal outfits , and we would prefer it if they could perform circus tricks for our delectation .
Unfortunately there are only a few willing to do this , so as the saying goes - you can't always get what you want .....
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However you do get my princely seal of approval. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a fair point, we look for single men so ours are biased toward that fact, infact there's only one or two of myself in there, the rest are my wife
Are said couples looking for predominantly bi ff meets though I wonder?"
This,we meet single men, most of our meets are with single men, in fact I would say 99 percent are, there is no need to have pictures of me, if a couple or single lady message us then we will send pictures of me, but Mrs l is straight so no interest in girl girl play, so no point messaging single women, and finding straight couples is like rocking horse shit, |
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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago
Lancaster area |
"This, we meet single men, most of our meets are with single men, in fact I would say 99 percent are,"
Not having pictures of the male makes perfect sense for what you are doing. 
" and finding straight couples is like rocking horse shit, "
Agreed. It would be easier to lift an automobile into the air over your head than meet a compatible MF couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bit of a rant so I apologise in advance; why oh why do so many couples only have photos of the lady in their profile? If you expect us single fems to be interested in playing with both of you it helps to know what you BOTH look like!!!!!! Getting fed up of having to ask to see photos of the man. Rant over x"
Agree, it's like, as long as she looks good enough to shag, it doesn't matter wether he looks like a troll x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's been said but the female photos are what most want to see the most of, so that is why there are more of V than me!!! Plus her outfits and body beats mine too. And the fabs back that up.
Poor me!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bit of a rant so I apologise in advance; why oh why do so many couples only have photos of the lady in their profile? If you expect us single fems to be interested in playing with both of you it helps to know what you BOTH look like!!!!!! Getting fed up of having to ask to see photos of the man. Rant over x"
It's cause I'm an ugly fucked lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bit of a rant so I apologise in advance; why oh why do so many couples only have photos of the lady in their profile? If you expect us single fems to be interested in playing with both of you it helps to know what you BOTH look like!!!!!! Getting fed up of having to ask to see photos of the man. Rant over x
Agree, it's like, as long as she looks good enough to shag, it doesn't matter wether he looks like a troll x "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's been said but the female photos are what most want to see the most of, so that is why there are more of V than me!!! Plus her outfits and body beats mine too. And the fabs back that up.
Poor me!!! "
I feel your pain queen does get most of the attention, though i have been getting a few compliments on my ass recently for us though we are both on show it just makes things much easier |
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"Bit of a rant so I apologise in advance; why oh why do so many couples only have photos of the lady in their profile? If you expect us single fems to be interested in playing with both of you it helps to know what you BOTH look like!!!!!! Getting fed up of having to ask to see photos of the man. Rant over x"
Admittedly most of ours are of Mrs but that's mainly because she's the good looking one  I am on there though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pics of women will always bring more interest to the profile.
Also some women 'run' the profile, it's used by them as the OH doesn't play but consents."
Oh I most definitely play  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bit of a rant so I apologise in advance; why oh why do so many couples only have photos of the lady in their profile? If you expect us single fems to be interested in playing with both of you it helps to know what you BOTH look like!!!!!! Getting fed up of having to ask to see photos of the man. Rant over x
Because most couples are 9 to 5....
She is a 9 and he is a 5 "
That's very generous for me ( Mr ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pics of women will always bring more interest to the profile.
Also some women 'run' the profile, it's used by them as the OH doesn't play but consents.
Oh I most definitely play "
You might but lots don't.
Hot wife's for example. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because they get more interests and as well, it is the woman who sells the profile lol.
I agree that, for those who are looking for single guys, only showing the lady is acceptable but I'm referring to those who state they are seeking a bi female to play with both. In these cases there really ain't an excuse for not showing both people in the profile! "
I just ignore those profiles as I figure there must be something wrong with the man if they won't show pics of him. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because they get more interests and as well, it is the woman who sells the profile lol.
I agree that, for those who are looking for single guys, only showing the lady is acceptable but I'm referring to those who state they are seeking a bi female to play with both. In these cases there really ain't an excuse for not showing both people in the profile!
I just ignore those profiles as I figure there must be something wrong with the man if they won't show pics of him. "
That was my assumption too but often it's not the case and I'm left a bit exasperated that i couldn't have had that information at first perusal of the profile.
Obviously everyone is different and this is just my opinion but if I'm playing with a couple I am equally interested in what both parties look like. A hot lady alone will not suffice. I suppose what I'm trying to say is, men; you are just as important!! I want to see your photos too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because they get more interests and as well, it is the woman who sells the profile lol.
I agree that, for those who are looking for single guys, only showing the lady is acceptable but I'm referring to those who state they are seeking a bi female to play with both. In these cases there really ain't an excuse for not showing both people in the profile!
I just ignore those profiles as I figure there must be something wrong with the man if they won't show pics of him. "
You have no pics at all, what us wrong with you then?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not guilty, if anything there may actually be more of Mr Legend. But then, albeit I'm possibly more than a little biased, he's jolly nice to look at. Ms Myth xx |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
We mainly look for single guys, plus it's Mrs who plays and I watch so understandably the profile is really going to showcase her, makes perfect sense to us. Oh, and we always send face pics of us both in our first message. There's nothing 'wrong' with me looks wise, lol, as some forumites can confirm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We mainly look for single guys, plus it's Mrs who plays and I watch so understandably the profile is really going to showcase her, makes perfect sense to us. Oh, and we always send face pics of us both in our first message. There's nothing 'wrong' with me looks wise, lol, as some forumites can confirm. "
If you're mostly looking for men it makes sense to have pics of her. My comment was about those couples looking for someone wanting to meet them both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because they get more interests and as well, it is the woman who sells the profile lol.
I agree that, for those who are looking for single guys, only showing the lady is acceptable but I'm referring to those who state they are seeking a bi female to play with both. In these cases there really ain't an excuse for not showing both people in the profile!
I just ignore those profiles as I figure there must be something wrong with the man if they won't show pics of him. You have no pics at all, what us wrong with you then? "
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