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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am new to this forum Marlarky and have on the whole really enjoyed reading and offering the odd comment, but what I have noticed is how quick they turn into slanging matches or insults at one another. I do think texts can be perceived in the wrong way they are taken and received.
It's good to get different perspectives and other _iews but see no need for the aggression.
Just a new observers opinion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I get what you mean, without the tone of voice it can be perceived as a personal attack on someone.
I don't take it too seriously an love the banter |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes I get what you mean, without the tone of voice it can be perceived as a personal attack on someone.
I don't take it too seriously an love the banter "
Exactly my point  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have noticed the same thing. A totally innocent remark can get your head ripped off. A small percentage constantly take offence. Thankfully the majority don't. Just avoid politics and bareback as topics and you should be fine lol
And welcome by the way  |
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"I am new to this forum Marlarky and have on the whole really enjoyed reading and offering the odd comment, but what I have noticed is how quick they turn into slanging matches or insults at one another. I do think texts can be perceived in the wrong way they are taken and received.
It's good to get different perspectives and other _iews but see no need for the aggression.
Just a new observers opinion "
Its not just this forum.
If you go on any forum, whether its a car forum or whatever else your into, they're all the same.
Things can get taken out of context somes and some one will take it the wrong way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forums attract people from all walks of life and as such you're bound to get different personalities that clash. It's best to rise above it all if you have someone you clash with as you're never likely to meet them anyway.
There are also a lot of people who spend all their time on sites like this and Facebook and then _iew them as real life, again, it's just a different outlook on things.
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"I have noticed the same thing. A totally innocent remark can get your head ripped off. A small percentage constantly take offence. Thankfully the majority don't. Just avoid politics and bareback as topics and you should be fine lol
And welcome by the way "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have noticed the same thing. A totally innocent remark can get your head ripped off. A small percentage constantly take offence. Thankfully the majority don't. Just avoid politics and bareback as topics and you should be fine lol
And welcome by the way "
Aww thanks |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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I seem to be in thick of it a lot lately, I don't try to cause arguments it seems having a brutally honest opinion on things at times isn't the way to go people offended so easily. It's surprising when we are all meant to like minded liberal people but I guess it's just the way it is. |
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"I seem to be in thick of it a lot lately, I don't try to cause arguments it seems having a brutally honest opinion on things at times isn't the way to go people offended so easily. It's surprising when we are all meant to like minded liberal people but I guess it's just the way it is."
yes and people are allowed to object about your brutal honesty, it is a forum
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I seem to be in thick of it a lot lately, I don't try to cause arguments it seems having a brutally honest opinion on things at times isn't the way to go people offended so easily. It's surprising when we are all meant to like minded liberal people but I guess it's just the way it is. yes and people are allowed to object about your brutal honesty, it is a forum "
yes I know that but I am entitled to my opinion so there is no need to attack me for it that's all just offering a different perspective most of the time.
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"I seem to be in thick of it a lot lately, I don't try to cause arguments it seems having a brutally honest opinion on things at times isn't the way to go people offended so easily. It's surprising when we are all meant to like minded liberal people but I guess it's just the way it is. yes and people are allowed to object about your brutal honesty, it is a forum yes I know that but I am entitled to my opinion so there is no need to attack me for it that's all just offering a different perspective most of the time."
I wasn't attacking you , just stating my point of _iew
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I seem to be in thick of it a lot lately, I don't try to cause arguments it seems having a brutally honest opinion on things at times isn't the way to go people offended so easily. It's surprising when we are all meant to like minded liberal people but I guess it's just the way it is. yes and people are allowed to object about your brutal honesty, it is a forum yes I know that but I am entitled to my opinion so there is no need to attack me for it that's all just offering a different perspective most of the time. I wasn't attacking you , just stating my point of _iew"
sorry I didn't mean you I was referring to other threads where so called 'clique' members seem out to get me. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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You will get a mix of threads from all walks of life on Fab, genuine requests for advice to constant moaning about other members.......
Most will influence ZERO change as either the people posting the threads will not be self aware enough to know the issues they have is because of them, or the advice given is taken on board. |
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"I seem to be in thick of it a lot lately, I don't try to cause arguments it seems having a brutally honest opinion on things at times isn't the way to go people offended so easily. It's surprising when we are all meant to like minded liberal people but I guess it's just the way it is. yes and people are allowed to object about your brutal honesty, it is a forum yes I know that but I am entitled to my opinion so there is no need to attack me for it that's all just offering a different perspective most of the time. I wasn't attacking you , just stating my point of _iew sorry I didn't mean you I was referring to other threads where so called 'clique' members seem out to get me. "
I tend to take a look at the thread and if I don't like its tone I make no coment x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To avoid drama stay away from these topics
Politics, bareback, married but cheating, no black or Asians
Stick to cake and kiss,avoid, fuck
You should be safe |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"To avoid drama stay away from these topics
Politics, bareback, married but cheating, no black or Asians
Stick to cake and kiss,avoid, fuck
You should be safe "
And don't forget to fab a few pictures now and then.....sorted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People use the forums, and people perceive things differently.
I've made what I thought were humorous comments on a thread and some people have thought it was funny and had banter back, others thought I was the next antichrist.
Have fun with those who like fun, don't worry about the terminally offended and it goes fine on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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most forums are like this, so i've found. all the big personalities like to talk and they do clash from time to time.
i just ignore anyone giving me shit, which is hardly anyone anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have noticed the same thing. A totally innocent remark can get your head ripped off. A small percentage constantly take offence. Thankfully the majority don't. Just avoid politics and bareback as topics and you should be fine lol
And welcome by the way "
Ha ha that tickles me I used too add threads about cum filled pussy and bareback out came all the haters lol naughty me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You will get a mix of threads from all walks of life on Fab, genuine requests for advice to constant moaning about other members.......
Most will influence ZERO change as either the people posting the threads will not be self aware enough to know the issues they have is because of them, or the advice given is taken on board."
Well it's a forum for general chat so I wouldn't be looking to take anything as gospel  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i just ignore anyone giving me shit, which is hardly anyone anyway."
Who do you think you are, throwing around such horrible, mild-mannered good sense like that. You disgust me!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People use the forums, and people perceive things differently.
I've made what I thought were humorous comments on a thread and some people have thought it was funny and had banter back, others thought I was the next antichrist.
Have fun with those who like fun, don't worry about the terminally offended and it goes fine on here "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i just ignore anyone giving me shit, which is hardly anyone anyway.
Who do you think you are, throwing around such horrible, mild-mannered good sense like that. You disgust me! "
stfu. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i just ignore anyone giving me shit, which is hardly anyone anyway.
Who do you think you are, throwing around such horrible, mild-mannered good sense like that. You disgust me! "
I will take myself off for a good talking to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I responded to a similar thread last year and this is a general comment.
Using language already used in this thread my _iew is that honesty is not a problem, it is the brutal part. Courtesy is the oil which prevents the machinery of disagreement sticking. There are ways and means of saying things. English is a rich and nuanced language its full range should be used.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i just ignore anyone giving me shit, which is hardly anyone anyway.
Who do you think you are, throwing around such horrible, mild-mannered good sense like that. You disgust me!
stfu."
It's evil, funny, abuse like that that makes me think about logging out in disgust...one more cross word and I'll just... be so mad! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I responded to a similar thread last year and this is a general comment.
Using language already used in this thread my _iew is that honesty is not a problem, it is the brutal part. Courtesy is the oil which prevents the machinery of disagreement sticking. There are ways and means of saying things. English is a rich and nuanced language its full range should be used.
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sayz u! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i just ignore anyone giving me shit, which is hardly anyone anyway.
Who do you think you are, throwing around such horrible, mild-mannered good sense like that. You disgust me!
stfu.
It's evil, funny, abuse like that that makes me think about logging out in disgust...one more cross word and I'll just... be so mad!"
i've used up all my swear words for today. am on a limit.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i just ignore anyone giving me shit, which is hardly anyone anyway.
Who do you think you are, throwing around such horrible, mild-mannered good sense like that. You disgust me!
stfu.
It's evil, funny, abuse like that that makes me think about logging out in disgust...one more cross word and I'll just... be so mad!
i've used up all my swear words for today. am on a limit. "
Lightweight...but well played! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am new to this forum Marlarky and have on the whole really enjoyed reading and offering the odd comment, but what I have noticed is how quick they turn into slanging matches or insults at one another. I do think texts can be perceived in the wrong way they are taken and received.
It's good to get different perspectives and other _iews but see no need for the aggression.
Just a new observers opinion "
keyboard warriors everywhere  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I seem to be in thick of it a lot lately, I don't try to cause arguments it seems having a brutally honest opinion on things at times isn't the way to go people offended so easily. It's surprising when we are all meant to like minded liberal people but I guess it's just the way it is."
Agree with this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's disagreeing with someone & then there's being downright rude, the latter is unacceptable but goes on a lot.
I think I'm pretty level headed & fair so makes my chuckle when I get blocked as a result of a forum post, if they block me they must have a long ole block list |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People use the forums, and people perceive things differently.
I've made what I thought were humorous comments on a thread and some people have thought it was funny and had banter back, others thought I was the next antichrist.
Have fun with those who like fun, don't worry about the terminally offended and it goes fine on here "
Yep ... i know where you're coming from on this one |
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