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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This has happened to me twice, somehow!
The first time was about 10 years ago when I was new on a different adult dating site. I started meeting a girl who was pretty amazing in bed. She opened my eyes to how good it could be, and I pretty much learned how to be good at sex through all our sessions.
After maybe 8 months of seeing her, I was wondering if she was seeing other guys... one time I found a discarded condom wrapper in her room and it got my mind running wild. Being young and stupid, I checked her phone and found loads of messages from random numbers asking about incalls. And they all called her Lucy (not her real name). My mind was blown and I didn't know how to deal with it. I had started to fall for her and this broke my heart. I broke off our arrangement and never saw her again. I did explain to her why I couldn't do it, and she was just as upset and sad as me. It was a bad time for us both. Oh, and yes I got tested, and yes I’m clean 
Anyway, fast forward 10 years or so and I meet another woman off of the same site. This one is about 10 years older than me, and very broadminded sexually. Great stuff - we meet, have amazing sex, and meet again a month or so later.
Then she tells me she's been using another site. I ask which one, and when she tells me, I realise it's a site for escorts to advertise their services. She found dating sites to be full of flaky guys and it wasn’t keeping her satisfied. She explained that she meets the clients first for a drink and will only go further if there is attraction. Basically she’s doing adult dating but getting paid too. I couldn’t argue with the logic.
I just wondered if this kind of thing had happened to anyone else? Or if any ladies had done anything similar? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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About 15 years ago when I was out of work and short of cash I did the escort service for about 6 months. Can't say it was the most enjoyable time of my life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Seems to to a lot of ladies on here that I have seen on escorting sites as you say £130 an hour for pretty much doing what they do on fab"
Wow I didn't realise it was a widespread thing. I guess I should feel good that they wanted to see me without charging |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"About 15 years ago when I was out of work and short of cash I did the escort service for about 6 months. Can't say it was the most enjoyable time of my life. "
I'm sorry to hear that, I hope times are better for you these days |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A previous friend of mine (met her on fab, had lots of fun but now she moved away and left the site....just occasional texts now) started to do some escort work while on fab. Fully discussed it with me, even asked my opinion before doing it. Once or twice used my place for it when her daughter was around. She did it for a few months, made enough to buy a caravan then stopped.
Don't see the harm. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A previous friend of mine (met her on fab, had lots of fun but now she moved away and left the site....just occasional texts now) started to do some escort work while on fab. Fully discussed it with me, even asked my opinion before doing it. Once or twice used my place for it when her daughter was around. She did it for a few months, made enough to buy a caravan then stopped.
Don't see the harm."
Me neither, she had a goal and used escorting to achieve it, then walked away. No harm at all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You are going to get escorts on this type of website "
Tbh I never used to expect it. I always assumed escorts have plenty of sex all day, so they wouldn't want to spend their spare time looking for more.
But I underestimated the sex drive of an average escort! Or at least I was lucky to meet two who got into it purely to satisfy their drive. It makes sense that they'd be on adult dating sites when you consider it that way. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had a partner that was an escort. She loved it and I found it very very horny .  "
There is something about the naughtiness of it, and the fact that she isn't charging you that makes it hot I think |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Escorting wouldn't bother me, but lying about it would "
That's what got me about the first one - she didn't tell me, and there were other things she kept secret too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems to to a lot of ladies on here that I have seen on escorting sites as you say £130 an hour for pretty much doing what they do on fab
Wow I didn't realise it was a widespread thing. I guess I should feel good that they wanted to see me without charging"
Maybe you should start charging? |
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From a sex workers point of view, when you're 'on the clock', you are fulfilling someone else's fantasy, catering to their needs and desires, not your own. I enjoy it immensely but I'm providing a service.
I'm here for my own kicks. Many sex workers are. We're entitled to a private life too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From a sex workers point of view, when you're 'on the clock', you are fulfilling someone else's fantasy, catering to their needs and desires, not your own. I enjoy it immensely but I'm providing a service.
I'm here for my own kicks. Many sex workers are. We're entitled to a private life too."
 can't argue with this point |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From a sex workers point of view, when you're 'on the clock', you are fulfilling someone else's fantasy, catering to their needs and desires, not your own. I enjoy it immensely but I'm providing a service.
I'm here for my own kicks. Many sex workers are. We're entitled to a private life too.
can't argue with this point "
I'll wait for the arguing knowing this site lol .. Not cool sometimes... Each to their own |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have done escort work and i have no shame in it
When me and my ex split i hit a hard times, i was left with three kids and gone from a two income family to a one income family with the same bills to pay, i had no help from their dad so i had to do what i had to do to keep a roof over our heads
People say get another job but i was alread working 40 hours a week, and i was on my own with children so i needed something that gave good money for little hours, if i had taken on another job or asked for more hours id have never have seen my kids
People may judge me for that but providing for my children is more importnant for me than the approval of other people
And i have to say if a guy i met for sex looking through my phone then judged me because of what he found in there he'd have been out the door before his feet touched the ground with zero explination given  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From a sex workers point of view, when you're 'on the clock', you are fulfilling someone else's fantasy, catering to their needs and desires, not your own. I enjoy it immensely but I'm providing a service.
I'm here for my own kicks. Many sex workers are. We're entitled to a private life too."
Thats true
It always annoys me when people think because somebody on a escort site is on here they are selling sex here too
A good sex worker does not need to come on here touting for buisness
I no longer do one on one meets but when i did i have a circle of clients and was never short of work i wouldnt have needed fab to find work |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I should be a millionaire by now. Imagine charging for every sex act I did,I could have retired years ago "
ah but would everybody you did it with have paid |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yep if I'd been born a sexy woman I'd probably be either screwing around all the time for fun or screwing around all the time for money. Whichever way, my legs would probably be fixed in an open position! lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems to to a lot of ladies on here that I have seen on escorting sites as you say £130 an hour for pretty much doing what they do on fab"
its not the same
if i met a guy off here i get a say in what happens
i dont tollorate selfish lovers and i wont allow men to just lay back and do nothing, if they dont pull their weight and pleasure me too i get drressed and leave
you cant do that if a guys paying, hes paying for a service that you provide, if he wants to pay his money and just lay therer with his hands behind his head for an hour while you do all the work, hes paid for that so thats what you give him, believe me your not getting paid for doing what you do on fab
Thats why so many escort use fab too, not because they are looking for buisness but because they need sex for themselves too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have done escort work and i have no shame in it
When me and my ex split i hit a hard times, i was left with three kids and gone from a two income family to a one income family with the same bills to pay, i had no help from their dad so i had to do what i had to do to keep a roof over our heads
People say get another job but i was alread working 40 hours a week, and i was on my own with children so i needed something that gave good money for little hours, if i had taken on another job or asked for more hours id have never have seen my kids
People may judge me for that but providing for my children is more importnant for me than the approval of other people
And i have to say if a guy i met for sex looking through my phone then judged me because of what he found in there he'd have been out the door before his feet touched the ground with zero explination given "
I agree about checking the phone. I was out of order to do it and I'd never do it again. Not because of what I found, but because it's a huge breach of trust and I wouldn't want it done to me. I've changed a lot in the 10 years since then! |
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"From a sex workers point of view, when you're 'on the clock', you are fulfilling someone else's fantasy, catering to their needs and desires, not your own. I enjoy it immensely but I'm providing a service.
I'm here for my own kicks. Many sex workers are. We're entitled to a private life too."
This makes perfect sense and I couldn't agree more |
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