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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been on and off fan and had a real mixed opinion. Fan is getting progressively worse and meets are harder to come by. Mid 20s , fit , successful and own place + car and I struggle with meets?
If this held universally I wouldn't mind but it does not. Many dating sites like POF etc. Are easy pickings. This is a swingers site. So what is going on? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think one of the main reasons is that the average age on here is probably 40 something and a lot of people have children your age and won't meet anyone around the age of their children. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been on and off fan and had a real mixed opinion. Fan is getting progressively worse and meets are harder to come by. Mid 20s , fit , successful and own place + car and I struggle with meets?
If this held universally I wouldn't mind but it does not. Many dating sites like POF etc. Are easy pickings. This is a swingers site. So what is going on? "
Gosh, you even have your own car? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been on and off fan and had a real mixed opinion. Fan is getting progressively worse and meets are harder to come by. Mid 20s , fit , successful and own place + car and I struggle with meets?
If this held universally I wouldn't mind but it does not. Many dating sites like POF etc. Are easy pickings. This is a swingers site. So what is going on? "
Too many socials and not enough sex dates  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been on and off fan and had a real mixed opinion. Fan is getting progressively worse and meets are harder to come by. Mid 20s , fit , successful and own place + car and I struggle with meets?
If this held universally I wouldn't mind but it does not. Many dating sites like POF etc. Are easy pickings. This is a swingers site. So what is going on? "
Perhaps phrases like easy pickings may give a clue to your motive for being on this site? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I have been on and off fan and had a real mixed opinion. Fan is getting progressively worse and meets are harder to come by. Mid 20s , fit , successful and own place + car and I struggle with meets?
If this held universally I wouldn't mind but it does not. Many dating sites like POF etc. Are easy pickings. This is a swingers site. So what is going on? Perhaps phrases like easy pickings may give a clue to your motive for being on this site?"
Exactly, he says it's a swinging site then makes it clear he's just after easy sex. That's not swinging and anyone with any experience can easily work out what he's looking for.
A lot of swingers aren't fans of people just here for sex because they think swingers are promiscous and easy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been on and off fan and had a real mixed opinion. Fan is getting progressively worse and meets are harder to come by. Mid 20s , fit , successful and own place + car and I struggle with meets?
If this held universally I wouldn't mind but it does not. Many dating sites like POF etc. Are easy pickings. This is a swingers site. So what is going on? "
what is going on is ..as you say..this is a swingers site, which is swamped with cocky young men looking for sex...
maybe you would have more luck on POF?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My advice is to stay with what works.
If there's easy pickings on PoF then why not use that for your sex meets if it isn't quite doing it for you here?
Genuine question - if it works for you, use it! 
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