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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a couple we like to both fancy our playmates. To satisfy my bi side I like to be attracted to the female and male (greedy bitch I know). Are there any couples out there who have took one for the team and played with another couple just because they know their partner wants to even though they are no too fussed?
Just curious on your thoughts ...... |
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"I know I'm not a couple but a lady in a couple has told me she has taken 1 for the team twice, an said to her partner you owe me, that seems to show who is the boss there I think."
I think it shows a very poor attitude. Using another person to get one over on your partner or manipulate them in some way. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I know I'm not a couple but a lady in a couple has told me she has taken 1 for the team twice, an said to her partner you owe me, that seems to show who is the boss there I think.
I think it shows a very poor attitude. Using another person to get one over on your partner or manipulate them in some way."
yes so do I, was surprising to me as they were experienced swingers aswell. I couldn't help but feel sorry for the lady a bit. |
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"I know I'm not a couple but a lady in a couple has told me she has taken 1 for the team twice, an said to her partner you owe me, that seems to show who is the boss there I think.
I think it shows a very poor attitude. Using another person to get one over on your partner or manipulate them in some way. yes so do I, was surprising to me as they were experienced swingers aswell. I couldn't help but feel sorry for the lady a bit."
I'm not sure how I feel about that, I think women should take responsibility for themselves but I know that not all relationships are based on equality. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I know I'm not a couple but a lady in a couple has told me she has taken 1 for the team twice, an said to her partner you owe me, that seems to show who is the boss there I think.
I think it shows a very poor attitude. Using another person to get one over on your partner or manipulate them in some way. yes so do I, was surprising to me as they were experienced swingers aswell. I couldn't help but feel sorry for the lady a bit.
I'm not sure how I feel about that, I think women should take responsibility for themselves but I know that not all relationships are based on equality."
yes unfortunately true |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No never it was something that we agreed as soon as we started and we always check in with each other before going any further."
Same for us........ great partnership and how it should be  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Also I wold hate to think that somebody was having sex with me to please their partner...how rude and insulting.  "
Yeah we are human at the end of the day and have feelings. I would feel really insulted if after play the bloke turned to his partner and say "you owe me one" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a couple we like to both fancy our playmates. To satisfy my bi side I like to be attracted to the female and male (greedy bitch I know). Are there any couples out there who have took one for the team and played with another couple just because they know their partner wants to even though they are no too fussed?
Just curious on your thoughts ...... "
Hell yeah 
What's wrong with that ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As a couple we like to both fancy our playmates. To satisfy my bi side I like to be attracted to the female and male (greedy bitch I know). Are there any couples out there who have took one for the team and played with another couple just because they know their partner wants to even though they are no too fussed?
Just curious on your thoughts ......
Hell yeah
What's wrong with that ?
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Not here to judge you lol |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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Seems a lot of politics involved and the whole dynamics are so different as a couple in this lifestyle. When I took a lady on a date to a club there was another lady in a couple giving me the eye and I asked the lady I was with whether she liked this lady's partner but she replied 'no' so that was it no pursuing or talking to that couple which was slightly disappointing I must say but I wouldn't compromise somebody else's standards and make them uncomfortable for my benefit it's not fair. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems a lot of politics involved and the whole dynamics are so different as a couple in this lifestyle. When I took a lady on a date to a club there was another lady in a couple giving me the eye and I asked the lady I was with whether she liked this lady's partner but she replied 'no' so that was it no pursuing or talking to that couple which was slightly disappointing I must say but I wouldn't compromise somebody else's standards and make them uncomfortable for my benefit it's not fair."
We both happily do it for each other .
It's about fun for us both , and more often than not it turns out great .
Of course there has to be some attraction , but that comes in many forms . There are so many variables .....
I mean , let's be honest , I ain't no oil painting so I would guess plenty have taken one for the team in my case |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Seems a lot of politics involved and the whole dynamics are so different as a couple in this lifestyle. When I took a lady on a date to a club there was another lady in a couple giving me the eye and I asked the lady I was with whether she liked this lady's partner but she replied 'no' so that was it no pursuing or talking to that couple which was slightly disappointing I must say but I wouldn't compromise somebody else's standards and make them uncomfortable for my benefit it's not fair."
It's great your took her feelings into account. We had a similar experience. I had the green light from this smoking hot lady and just the thought of playing with her made me feel so hot. My partner also thought she was hot but he couldn't bear the thought of me being touched by her 100 year old hubby. I couldn't believe if. It did cross my mind to have just a bit of girl on girl action tho ha ha |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Seems a lot of politics involved and the whole dynamics are so different as a couple in this lifestyle. When I took a lady on a date to a club there was another lady in a couple giving me the eye and I asked the lady I was with whether she liked this lady's partner but she replied 'no' so that was it no pursuing or talking to that couple which was slightly disappointing I must say but I wouldn't compromise somebody else's standards and make them uncomfortable for my benefit it's not fair.
We both happily do it for each other .
It's about fun for us both , and more often than not it turns out great .
Of course there has to be some attraction , but that comes in many forms . There are so many variables .....
I mean , let's be honest , I ain't no oil painting so I would guess plenty have taken one for the team in my case "
fair enough I just thought that this lifestyle was about mutual enjoyment at the time but I guess sacrificing to an extent to give there partner fun is also showing love. Depends on morals, principles etc I think yours are a lot more liberal than most  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not for us, we both have to want/crave/desire our playmates, niether would just take one for the team which is why we always like to arrange a social, i (mr) would hate to feel like my wife is putting up/tolerating someone just for my benefit, for me that would de-sex a playdate completely..
And too add there is nothing hotter for me than seeing the desire in my wifes eyes for a sexy siren we are playing with! Pure eroticism can be achieved from cravings alone  |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Seems a lot of politics involved and the whole dynamics are so different as a couple in this lifestyle. When I took a lady on a date to a club there was another lady in a couple giving me the eye and I asked the lady I was with whether she liked this lady's partner but she replied 'no' so that was it no pursuing or talking to that couple which was slightly disappointing I must say but I wouldn't compromise somebody else's standards and make them uncomfortable for my benefit it's not fair.
It's great your took her feelings into account. We had a similar experience. I had the green light from this smoking hot lady and just the thought of playing with her made me feel so hot. My partner also thought she was hot but he couldn't bear the thought of me being touched by her 100 year old hubby. I couldn't believe if. It did cross my mind to have just a bit of girl on girl action tho ha ha"
it was just the gentleman thing to do, yeah you could of soft swapped  |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"I used to on occasion but likewise he did for me lol
Did you end up enjoying the experience?"
Depended on the people involved. I would never compromise THAT much though and likewise ask him to. We played a lot with each other though during meets so sometimes you didn't necessarily 'notice'.....
Man behind me and my face elsewhere lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know I'm not a couple but a lady in a couple has told me she has taken 1 for the team twice, an said to her partner you owe me, that seems to show who is the boss there I think.
I think it shows a very poor attitude. Using another person to get one over on your partner or manipulate them in some way. yes so do I, was surprising to me as they were experienced swingers aswell. I couldn't help but feel sorry for the lady a bit."
Especially if you were the one she took for the team??? (Joke) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems a lot of politics involved and the whole dynamics are so different as a couple in this lifestyle. When I took a lady on a date to a club there was another lady in a couple giving me the eye and I asked the lady I was with whether she liked this lady's partner but she replied 'no' so that was it no pursuing or talking to that couple which was slightly disappointing I must say but I wouldn't compromise somebody else's standards and make them uncomfortable for my benefit it's not fair.
We both happily do it for each other .
It's about fun for us both , and more often than not it turns out great .
Of course there has to be some attraction , but that comes in many forms . There are so many variables .....
I mean , let's be honest , I ain't no oil painting so I would guess plenty have taken one for the team in my case fair enough I just thought that this lifestyle was about mutual enjoyment at the time but I guess sacrificing to an extent to give there partner fun is also showing love. Depends on morals, principles etc I think yours are a lot more liberal than most "
Yes , I think you're right |
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