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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello everyone
I have never tried 'swinging' before or anything of this nature, could anyone advise me on what to look for and what not to look for?
I have a few concerns including people being 'fake' and not actually who they say they are, or people kidnapping me or even killing me when I go to see them... I know this sounds farfetched but you can never trust anyone in this day and age.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello everyone
I have never tried 'swinging' before or anything of this nature, could anyone advise me on what to look for and what not to look for?
I have a few concerns including people being 'fake' and not actually who they say they are, or people kidnapping me or even killing me when I go to see them... I know this sounds farfetched but you can never trust anyone in this day and age.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a mind field mate
Oh btw
Welcome
Best advise is to trust your gut feeling
The saying
If it sounds to good to be true it is
Applies on here
You will develop a bullshit detector and dick head filter quite soon
And if a message makes you think huh???
It's time to move on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's a mind field mate
Oh btw
Welcome
Best advise is to trust your gut feeling
The saying
If it sounds to good to be true it is
Applies on here
You will develop a bullshit detector and dick head filter quite soon
And if a message makes you think huh???
It's time to move on "
Thank you mate! I'll take your advice and try and develop a bullshit detector quickly!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hiya OP!
First off, I doubt you'll be kidnapped or killed 
As for the rest, you will soon get a sense for who may be someone other than who they purport to be. It's a bit of trial and error and a bit of common sense.
There are men who pretend to be women and couples. Be aware of this. Verifications (photo and meet) are useful here, but not always. Chat to people a bit before setting up a meet and see what vibe you get from them. Reverse image searching pictures is always a good idea, too. Even face pictures (yes, someone sent us a celebrity face picture once  ).
When you go on a meet it is often useful to meet in a public place first, for a drink and a chat. It's safer and it helps give you time to determine whether you want to continue with the fun stuff. Meeting at a hotel? Ask to get a drink at the hotel bar first to determine chemistry.
That's all I can think of for the moment. Just use your common sense, the rest you will pick up along the way to determine what's best for you. Have fun! |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"Hello everyone
I have never tried 'swinging' before or anything of this nature, could anyone advise me on what to look for and what not to look for?
I have a few concerns including people being 'fake' and not actually who they say they are, or people kidnapping me or even killing me when I go to see them... I know this sounds farfetched but you can never trust anyone in this day and age.
Avoid people with profile pictures that feature axes or spades."
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