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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For a scean all about loose love and people who claim to be free thinking some of you are very judgemental towards people in the fourm, I'm saying anyone imperticular, just an observation..... Anyhow as you were |
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Why would you think that just because someone is a swinger they wouldn't be judgemental?
Swingers are human, they have their own moral code which is different from every other persons moral code. Just because we like fucking perfect strangers doesn't make us immune to the human condition.
We like what we like, we judge what we don't like. Something you are going to have to learn to accept. |
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It amazes me when people are so judgemental on here about someone's likes and dislikes without fully understanding what something is about. Just because you may not like the terminology doesn't make it evil. |
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"I don't judge anyone but I have personal preferences. So if I get a message from someone who falls out of this range I don't reply."
And if they fall in your ranges but your just dont fancy them enough to meet them, you'll find you've judged them to be unattractive to you. If you see a dress you like the look of then try it on and think "ooh that's not for me" or "ooh I do like this I'm buying it" you've made a judgement call, as I said early on some level we all judge, it's just human nature |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People on here have the safety of their keyboards too hide behind "
Only true if all you do is the forums. If you regularly go to the clubs, meets or parties then have no doubt any bad behaviour will be remembered.
Believe it or not, the forum users are a massive minority compared to the rest of the site.
I dont see it as judgemental, just folk being very choosy who they let into their personal lives. The forums are a sub culture of their own and should be taken with a pinch of salt to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see the op has hidden his profile. He isn't risking being judged by anyone! I have to say though...I judge starting a thread like this and then hiding to be a bit...well feeble and questionable even. Sorry, but that's my opinion.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see the op has hidden his profile. He isn't risking being judged by anyone! I have to say though...I judge starting a thread like this and then hiding to be a bit...well feeble and questionable even. Sorry, but that's may opinion. "
He started it two weeks ago and maybe he's having a little break? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see the op has hidden his profile. He isn't risking being judged by anyone! I have to say though...I judge starting a thread like this and then hiding to be a bit...well feeble and questionable even. Sorry, but that's may opinion.
He started it two weeks ago and maybe he's having a little break? "
I judge that to be a fair point, well made! x |
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I'm judgemental. If can be a useful trait. I'm self aware enough to know I can be wrong sometimes as well and make an erroneous judgement. People make judgements all the time. "Should I cross the road now? Or should I want for the bus to go past?" type of judgement.... |
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