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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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wife has mentioned(while having sex) that she would like to try sex with another woman , just to see what its like. i mentioned a site(this one) where you put details in and hey presto!! will i have to hide my profile or delete what would be best, ? as ive made some good friends on here, thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know your wife better than anyone and how she will react. Probe a little more before you decide what best suits your situation. Look at her face and study it for any qualms or flashes of disapproval and the signs she's really up to it. She might not be as cool about you being on this site and kept that from her, in the cold light of day.... Tread carefully xxx |
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You may find that it causes a problem for you but you really need to talk to her about your life on here if there's a chance she'll stumble on your profile or this post!
I know from my own experience that it's better to hear it first than read it on a forum.
Her and you wanting to try new things together is not the same thing as you exploring on your own. Don't assume she'll be ok with it all - she may be or she may need time to adjust.
Lorna |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we both want to try new things, so she was saying bout me and another manwhile she watches"
Yeah but saying and finding out you've been doing for a while already might not go down well... women are fickle as hell! Then again it might go down a treat in which case if she's taking charge expect several meets in the next few days!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and she comes on here is trawling thru the forums and finds this thread .........dead man walking....... "
also the fact you are verified,so have been playing away from home without her knowledge? not clever |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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you mention on another thread that you live with someone who suffers from bad depression.. I would really consider carefully your whole approach to this.
Last thing she may need is making discoveries on a sex site. That doesnt mean discoveries about her sexuality.. more yours and what you may have been upto
If I have assumed wrong that it is your loved one.. I apologise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think its a bit cheeky really that u come asking for advice on how to lie to you wife "
Agree wholeheartedly!! If R was playing away or on another site without me, the meat cleaver would be out!! The truth is always best, but be prepared for extreme fireworks!! |
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