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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have a fab play friend, I am a single woman but when I play with a couple I have my trusted fab friend I play with....
Mostly because I have sexual chemistry with him and I know he is looking out for my well being in a play situation ...
So we aren't a couple, and it's on my profile, but have found when a couple message me and we chat for abit and couple play comes into the conversation that when they are told myself and my fab friend aren't ( in a relationship) it is then an issue for the couple who contacted me...
I got told this evening
" We don't play with anyone who isn't a real couple"
So my thoughts are how is it that if I'm playing with a fab friend and having a little sexy fun with couple's
Why is it a moral issue with some couples. ..
We are not on fab to find bestties for the rest of our lives
On fab for a little sexy fun now and then when time allows ...
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By *igal17Man
over a year ago
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A jealousy thing? Couples maybe worry that you're both in fact single and might try to steal one of them away?
Having looked at your pictures I could imagine lasses getting a little envious! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think my profile is quite clear that I'm not in a relationship with my fab friend ...
Why contact me if it's an issue. ..
I'm just like sexy fun now and then lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would imagine it's because a 'real' couple have a genuine love, respect, protectiveness for each other and share a strong bond. They may feel that two singles who hook up with each for the purpose of sex may not share that closeness and may not care about each others feelings and act selfishly.
Sometimes this can lead to jealousy and arguments and real couples may not wish to take the risk  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profile says women, not couple, so I mean that is the only thing we'd care about in terms of you telling your situation. The fact that you can bring someone you trust into it is only a bonus in our eyes.
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We just find it a bit frustrating that when searching for a single woman, they always have a fella that magically appears. I suppose you at least have the decency to state it in your profile, unlike most. |
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"I would imagine it's because a 'real' couple have a genuine love, respect, protectiveness for each other and share a strong bond. They may feel that two singles who hook up with each for the purpose of sex may not share that closeness and may not care about each others feelings and act selfishly.
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These are actually our feelings on it. We're heavily into the social side of swinging and so far pretty well only meet couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had this repeatedly
Expected to show up somewhere as a single fem with no safety net is not happening as far as I'm concerned.
Many couples automatically assume He is there to play yet I always have a social before play so it's incorrect.
Strangely enough there's never an issue from our couples profile  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would imagine it's because a 'real' couple have a genuine love, respect, protectiveness for each other and share a strong bond. They may feel that two singles who hook up with each for the purpose of sex may not share that closeness and may not care about each others feelings and act selfishly.
These are actually our feelings on it. We're heavily into the social side of swinging and so far pretty well only meet couples. "
Just because we are not in a relationship doesn't mean we don't care for each other and have no respect for each others feelings. ...
But I can see that "couples" would be a little weary ....
But with a couple it's about naughty play not a social connection |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would imagine it's because a 'real' couple have a genuine love, respect, protectiveness for each other and share a strong bond. They may feel that two singles who hook up with each for the purpose of sex may not share that closeness and may not care about each others feelings and act selfishly.
These are actually our feelings on it. We're heavily into the social side of swinging and so far pretty well only meet couples.
Just because we are not in a relationship doesn't mean we don't care for each other and have no respect for each others feelings. ...
But I can see that "couples" would be a little weary ....
But with a couple it's about naughty play not a social connection "
Every meet we have , no matter who it's with , is for a naughty play and the social connection is nice but by no means a necessity .
We totally don't understand the issue with couples who don't get your situation .
It would make not one iota of difference to us .
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