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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Surely someone on here is into virgins? I understand that most people on here arnt interested. But maybe one of you would like to try something different? So to be honest I'm looking for a confidence boost and im looking to have fun in doing so, it helps that im up for mostly anything and everything. Will do what ever it takes for someone to give me a chance 
p.s ive got a decent size and I'm not bad looking.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest you would have more success on one of the dating sites and speak to like minded females.
You have youth on you're side so should be snapped up I'm sure, swingers will probably not want to teach you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know what you mean, but I'm mainly looking for confidence so I can actually meet girls that's why I have come on here, not bothered if I get snapped in half |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure your fishing in the right pool here buddy, most women are here for really really good sex, that tends to be with a capable and competent partner.
There may be the odd Mrs Robinson character knocking about but I should imagine they will be in the minority |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure your fishing in the right pool here buddy, most women are here for really really good sex, that tends to be with a capable and competent partner.
There may be the odd Mrs Robinson character knocking about but I should imagine they will be in the minority "
I'm aware of that, I'm just trying to get lucky |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm genuinely a virgin haha, I understand why people question others though because of the amount of people that lie on this site. "
The worrying thing is I'm not lying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure your fishing in the right pool here buddy, most women are here for really really good sex, that tends to be with a capable and competent partner.
There may be the odd Mrs Robinson character knocking about but I should imagine they will be in the minority
I'm aware of that, I'm just trying to get lucky "
You'd need to be very lucky, women need to be attracted to a man to want to shag him, part of that is physical but a big part is about personality and attitude.
Pleading for a pitty fuck cos your a virgin might not be the best approach.
Be friendly, be funny, be relaxed
Enjoy interacting with the women you contact, then you will find you will start to get lucky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm genuinely a virgin haha, I understand why people question others though because of the amount of people that lie on this site.
The worrying thing is I'm not lying "
Do you have your certificate of virgification? Yeah we'd be interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure your fishing in the right pool here buddy, most women are here for really really good sex, that tends to be with a capable and competent partner.
There may be the odd Mrs Robinson character knocking about but I should imagine they will be in the minority
I'm aware of that, I'm just trying to get lucky "
Arnt we all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure your fishing in the right pool here buddy, most women are here for really really good sex, that tends to be with a capable and competent partner.
There may be the odd Mrs Robinson character knocking about but I should imagine they will be in the minority "
Maybe you yourself are not fishing in the right pool, presumably you think you give really, really good sex.
Don't knock a young man who is just starting out, Mr Arrogant.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure your fishing in the right pool here buddy, most women are here for really really good sex, that tends to be with a capable and competent partner.
There may be the odd Mrs Robinson character knocking about but I should imagine they will be in the minority
Maybe you yourself are not fishing in the right pool, presumably you think you give really, really good sex.
Don't knock a young man who is just starting out, Mr Arrogant.
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I'm not knocking the lad, im offering advice that's all. Maybe you should take him under your wing instead of presuming things about me. |
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over a year ago
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"I'm not sure your fishing in the right pool here buddy, most women are here for really really good sex, that tends to be with a capable and competent partner.
There may be the odd Mrs Robinson character knocking about but I should imagine they will be in the minority
Maybe you yourself are not fishing in the right pool, presumably you think you give really, really good sex.
Don't knock a young man who is just starting out, Mr Arrogant.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure your fishing in the right pool here buddy, most women are here for really really good sex, that tends to be with a capable and competent partner.
There may be the odd Mrs Robinson character knocking about but I should imagine they will be in the minority
Maybe you yourself are not fishing in the right pool, presumably you think you give really, really good sex.
Don't knock a young man who is just starting out, Mr Arrogant.
I'm not knocking the lad, im offering advice that's all. Maybe you should take him under your wing instead of presuming things about me. "
That's how you come across. You are not a female, so you can't say what women are on here for can you? This is a swinging site, not a place for finding a partner. Your post implies the young man should not be on here and that he should join another site. Don't tell me who I should meet, thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not sure your fishing in the right pool here buddy, most women are here for really really good sex, that tends to be with a capable and competent partner.
There may be the odd Mrs Robinson character knocking about but I should imagine they will be in the minority
Maybe you yourself are not fishing in the right pool, presumably you think you give really, really good sex.
Don't knock a young man who is just starting out, Mr Arrogant.
I'm not knocking the lad, im offering advice that's all. Maybe you should take him under your wing instead of presuming things about me. "
You do not have the right to advise him he is on the wrong type of site, he is on the right site. He is trying to get laid not find a girlfriend.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not sure your fishing in the right pool here buddy, most women are here for really really good sex, that tends to be with a capable and competent partner.
There may be the odd Mrs Robinson character knocking about but I should imagine they will be in the minority "
He only needs one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not sure your fishing in the right pool here buddy, most women are here for really really good sex, that tends to be with a capable and competent partner.
There may be the odd Mrs Robinson character knocking about but I should imagine they will be in the minority
Maybe you yourself are not fishing in the right pool, presumably you think you give really, really good sex.
Don't knock a young man who is just starting out, Mr Arrogant.
I'm not knocking the lad, im offering advice that's all. Maybe you should take him under your wing instead of presuming things about me.
That's how you come across. You are not a female, so you can't say what women are on here for can you? This is a swinging site, not a place for finding a partner. Your post implies the young man should not be on here and that he should join another site. Don't tell me who I should meet, thank you."
Actually I posted again making some suggestions that may help him. So since you are female does that mean you talk for all the other women on here? Or could it be that every one is looking for their own thing.
So tell me do you find inexperienced unconfident men attractive, just asking;-) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not sure your fishing in the right pool here buddy, most women are here for really really good sex, that tends to be with a capable and competent partner.
There may be the odd Mrs Robinson character knocking about but I should imagine they will be in the minority
He only needs one "
Well that's true enough, I'd actually be almost as chuffed as he would be if he found one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely someone on here is into virgins? I understand that most people on here arnt interested. But maybe one of you would like to try something different? So to be honest I'm looking for a confidence boost and im looking to have fun in doing so, it helps that im up for mostly anything and everything. Will do what ever it takes for someone to give me a chance
p.s ive got a decent size and I'm not bad looking.
Please message me if you want to see some face pics."
Wow you're 19 on a swinging site. I must be getting old because at 19 I was beating women away with a stick.. Try high school and university girls in the real world, you will find it much easier. If you stay here try getting bareback sex. Since you're a virgin it might appeal to some women and couples... Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely someone on here is into virgins? I understand that most people on here arnt interested. But maybe one of you would like to try something different? So to be honest I'm looking for a confidence boost and im looking to have fun in doing so, it helps that im up for mostly anything and everything. Will do what ever it takes for someone to give me a chance
p.s ive got a decent size and I'm not bad looking.
Please message me if you want to see some face pics.
Wow you're 19 on a swinging site. I must be getting old because at 19 I was beating women away with a stick.. Try high school and university girls in the real world, you will find it much easier. If you stay here try getting bareback sex. Since you're a virgin it might appeal to some women and couples... Good luck"
You were knee deep in bitches |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure your fishing in the right pool here buddy, most women are here for really really good sex, that tends to be with a capable and competent partner.
There may be the odd Mrs Robinson character knocking about but I should imagine they will be in the minority
He only needs one
Well that's true enough, I'd actually be almost as chuffed as he would be if he found one "
Well if people read the thread properly instead of arguing... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure your fishing in the right pool here buddy, most women are here for really really good sex, that tends to be with a capable and competent partner.
There may be the odd Mrs Robinson character knocking about but I should imagine they will be in the minority
He only needs one
Well that's true enough, I'd actually be almost as chuffed as he would be if he found one
Well if people read the thread properly instead of arguing... "
I did I messaged him as it's actually a fantasy of mine..... unfortunately he looks too much like my nephew haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not sure your fishing in the right pool here buddy, most women are here for really really good sex, that tends to be with a capable and competent partner.
There may be the odd Mrs Robinson character knocking about but I should imagine they will be in the minority
He only needs one
Well that's true enough, I'd actually be almost as chuffed as he would be if he found one
Well if people read the thread properly instead of arguing...
I did I messaged him as it's actually a fantasy of mine..... unfortunately he looks too much like my nephew haha"
We did too but he wants single woman! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure your fishing in the right pool here buddy, most women are here for really really good sex, that tends to be with a capable and competent partner.
There may be the odd Mrs Robinson character knocking about but I should imagine they will be in the minority
He only needs one
Well that's true enough, I'd actually be almost as chuffed as he would be if he found one
Well if people read the thread properly instead of arguing...
I did I messaged him as it's actually a fantasy of mine..... unfortunately he looks too much like my nephew haha
We did too but he wants single woman! "
He's getting close, that's the main thing haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not sure your fishing in the right pool here buddy, most women are here for really really good sex, that tends to be with a capable and competent partner.
There may be the odd Mrs Robinson character knocking about but I should imagine they will be in the minority
He only needs one
Well that's true enough, I'd actually be almost as chuffed as he would be if he found one
Well if people read the thread properly instead of arguing...
I did I messaged him as it's actually a fantasy of mine..... unfortunately he looks too much like my nephew haha
We did too but he wants single woman!
He's getting close, that's the main thing haha"
What would both of you do with a virgin?
I'm not knocking you guys.. I just remember my first time being over very quickly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not sure your fishing in the right pool here buddy, most women are here for really really good sex, that tends to be with a capable and competent partner.
There may be the odd Mrs Robinson character knocking about but I should imagine they will be in the minority
He only needs one
Well that's true enough, I'd actually be almost as chuffed as he would be if he found one
Well if people read the thread properly instead of arguing...
I did I messaged him as it's actually a fantasy of mine..... unfortunately he looks too much like my nephew haha
We did too but he wants single woman!
He's getting close, that's the main thing haha
What would both of you do with a virgin?
I'm not knocking you guys.. I just remember my first time being over very quickly "
Yeah but at that age it gets up again quickly!
The recovery period is where he can learn to eat poontang |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not sure your fishing in the right pool here buddy, most women are here for really really good sex, that tends to be with a capable and competent partner.
There may be the odd Mrs Robinson character knocking about but I should imagine they will be in the minority
He only needs one
Well that's true enough, I'd actually be almost as chuffed as he would be if he found one
Well if people read the thread properly instead of arguing...
I did I messaged him as it's actually a fantasy of mine..... unfortunately he looks too much like my nephew haha
We did too but he wants single woman!
He's getting close, that's the main thing haha
What would both of you do with a virgin?
I'm not knocking you guys.. I just remember my first time being over very quickly
Yeah but at that age it gets up again quickly!
The recovery period is where he can learn to eat poontang "
Haha exactly!! We have wisdom to share  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not sure your fishing in the right pool here buddy, most women are here for really really good sex, that tends to be with a capable and competent partner.
There may be the odd Mrs Robinson character knocking about but I should imagine they will be in the minority
He only needs one
Well that's true enough, I'd actually be almost as chuffed as he would be if he found one
Well if people read the thread properly instead of arguing...
I did I messaged him as it's actually a fantasy of mine..... unfortunately he looks too much like my nephew haha
We did too but he wants single woman!
He's getting close, that's the main thing haha
What would both of you do with a virgin?
I'm not knocking you guys.. I just remember my first time being over very quickly
Yeah but at that age it gets up again quickly!
The recovery period is where he can learn to eat poontang
Haha exactly!! We have wisdom to share "
Nowerdays I need a power nap, smoothie and protein shake between ejaculations... my first time I lasted a whopping 15 - 45 seconds depending on official or unofficial statistics. But I was rock hard again soon. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm not sure your fishing in the right pool here buddy, most women are here for really really good sex, that tends to be with a capable and competent partner.
There may be the odd Mrs Robinson character knocking about but I should imagine they will be in the minority
He only needs one
Well that's true enough, I'd actually be almost as chuffed as he would be if he found one
Well if people read the thread properly instead of arguing...
I did I messaged him as it's actually a fantasy of mine..... unfortunately he looks too much like my nephew haha
We did too but he wants single woman!
He's getting close, that's the main thing haha"
Appreciated guys, im getting there I guess |
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Why is it so hard to believe that there are Virgins on here lol I mean there has to be one or two right they have to be somewhere lol where's the trust lol
Although if all you want is a fuck and are sick of waiting why not a prostitute? And really I'm just asking not having ago or anything just trying to suss you out. Lol and I'm very nosey lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why is it so hard to believe that there are Virgins on here lol I mean there has to be one or two right they have to be somewhere lol where's the trust lol
Although if all you want is a fuck and are sick of waiting why not a prostitute? And really I'm just asking not having ago or anything just trying to suss you out. Lol and I'm very nosey lol"
Simply trying to get lucky and being honest at the same time. Not really getting anywhere though, which is understandable as I know that most girls are not interested at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Right fella - it seems like you're a decent enough lad and we're all here for no strings fun so I hope you can find what you're looking for.
Have you tried messaging appropriate local girls or couples, remember to make the contact personal to them, be respectful and READ their profile in full, and send a face pic of you have one. Don't expect instashag, take time to build a few relationships.
If you are able to see if there's any local socials and try and head along. It'll be daunting beforehand but once you cross the threshold it'll be fine and you'll make friends.
Take time to show you're a decent guy and that you'll respect the people you meet and I'm sure the offers will come eventually.
But as you've seen on here it takes time and effort to get results - good luck fella and I hope you find someone soon |
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"Why is it so hard to believe that there are Virgins on here lol I mean there has to be one or two right they have to be somewhere lol where's the trust lol
Although if all you want is a fuck and are sick of waiting why not a prostitute? And really I'm just asking not having ago or anything just trying to suss you out. Lol and I'm very nosey lol
Simply trying to get lucky and being honest at the same time. Not really getting anywhere though, which is understandable as I know that most girls are not interested at all. "
You haven't answered about the prositute though? Lol
Why not use one to lose your cherry? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Right fella - it seems like you're a decent enough lad and we're all here for no strings fun so I hope you can find what you're looking for.
Have you tried messaging appropriate local girls or couples, remember to make the contact personal to them, be respectful and READ their profile in full, and send a face pic of you have one. Don't expect instashag, take time to build a few relationships.
If you are able to see if there's any local socials and try and head along. It'll be daunting beforehand but once you cross the threshold it'll be fine and you'll make friends.
Take time to show you're a decent guy and that you'll respect the people you meet and I'm sure the offers will come eventually.
But as you've seen on here it takes time and effort to get results - good luck fella and I hope you find someone soon "
Thank you for your great reply and I'll bare all of this in mind not totally sure about going to a social yet feel like it might be a bit to early for that.
Not going to lie though I have messaged loads of girls on here, but finding someone that would want to meet me is being proven quite hard.
Don't worry I'm not giving up though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why is it so hard to believe that there are Virgins on here lol I mean there has to be one or two right they have to be somewhere lol where's the trust lol
Although if all you want is a fuck and are sick of waiting why not a prostitute? And really I'm just asking not having ago or anything just trying to suss you out. Lol and I'm very nosey lol
Simply trying to get lucky and being honest at the same time. Not really getting anywhere though, which is understandable as I know that most girls are not interested at all.
You haven't answered about the prositute though? Lol
Why not use one to lose your cherry? "
I don't really want to if I'm honest, hopefully it doesn't come to that |
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The thing that would concern me in this is (and no offence intended) are you emotionally ready to loose your virginity? The reason I'd ask is due to an unfortunate experience where I popped the cherry of an 18 year old guy on here a few years ago and he became very obsessive and attached. Also it wasn't a pleasant experience on the level that because he didn't have experience, so I was essentially teaching him all the time, I couldn't relax enough to enjoy the sex
So it personally wouldn't be for me anymore but good luck in your search OP |
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"Why is it so hard to believe that there are Virgins on here lol I mean there has to be one or two right they have to be somewhere lol where's the trust lol
Although if all you want is a fuck and are sick of waiting why not a prostitute? And really I'm just asking not having ago or anything just trying to suss you out. Lol and I'm very nosey lol
Simply trying to get lucky and being honest at the same time. Not really getting anywhere though, which is understandable as I know that most girls are not interested at all.
You haven't answered about the prositute though? Lol
Why not use one to lose your cherry?
I don't really want to if I'm honest, hopefully it doesn't come to that"
Fair enough and I'm sure it won't come to that don't worry. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The thing that would concern me in this is (and no offence intended) are you emotionally ready to loose your virginity? The reason I'd ask is due to an unfortunate experience where I popped the cherry of an 18 year old guy on here a few years ago and he became very obsessive and attached. Also it wasn't a pleasant experience on the level that because he didn't have experience, so I was essentially teaching him all the time, I couldn't relax enough to enjoy the sex
So it personally wouldn't be for me anymore but good luck in your search OP "
I feel like I'm ready yes and I don't feel like I get attached easily so I'm a perfect candidate for fab. just can't promise that I'll last long but I'm sure I'll quickly recover and go for round 2 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had sex with a virgin,he was quite a bit older than you and had a micro penis. We still managed to do quite a bit and he was lovely company. I'd better speaking to him for a long time before we met. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your a virgin. Well I'm a professional, surely I would be a better candidate for a sexual partner than you.  "
I'm aware that most girls will always go for the more experienced person |
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"I had sex with a virgin,he was quite a bit older than you and had a micro penis. We still managed to do quite a bit and he was lovely company. I'd better speaking to him for a long time before we met. "
That's one thing I can guarantee, i am very good company  and yeh that's understandable I'd probably chat for a while as well before hand |
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Be careful for what you wish,
During my first marriage the wife hated the fact I wasn't a virgin after we first did the nasty (as she was) She would have cut me balls off if I told her I lost it to some girl in the swinger personnel's of the Sunday Sport.instead of a d*unken two minute fumble upon a mates virgin capturing sofa, (which I had)
Save yourself for the right girl You know her when you meet her.
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By (user no longer on site)
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if shes the right girl shell understand tbh not every girls gonna laugh at you just cos your a virgin but i get where your coming from i didnt lose mine till i was 18 and she understood trust me on this your tongue and fingers last wayy longer haha gives you time to recover and go again |
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"I'm looking for some experience, say if I was too find a girl I really liked I'd probably just embarrass my self if I was a virgin surely? "
Don't worry about it you be ok Theres more virgin women at your age and they to have the same fear, Go with the flow the rest is natural.
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"if shes the right girl shell understand tbh not every girls gonna laugh at you just cos your a virgin but i get where your coming from i didnt lose mine till i was 18 and she understood trust me on this your tongue and fingers last wayy longer haha gives you time to recover and go again "
That's a good way to look at it, I'll bare this in mind. I do have a bit of a craving for licking though |
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"Your a virgin. Well I'm a professional, surely I would be a better candidate for a sexual partner than you.
Professional what?  "
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"I'm looking for some experience, say if I was too find a girl I really liked I'd probably just embarrass my self if I was a virgin surely? "
Not if she really like you the right girl will be understanding and help you through it if she takes the piss you need to get rid. |
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"I'm looking for some experience, say if I was too find a girl I really liked I'd probably just embarrass my self if I was a virgin surely?
Not if she really like you the right girl will be understanding and help you through it if she takes the piss you need to get rid. "
I guess so, but if anything I'd rather impress her |
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"I'm looking for some experience, say if I was too find a girl I really liked I'd probably just embarrass my self if I was a virgin surely?
Not if she really like you the right girl will be understanding and help you through it if she takes the piss you need to get rid.
I guess so, but if anything I'd rather impress her "
Guess it depends on the kind of girl you want really as a nice girl would be more impressed if you saved yourself for the right girl she would feel so special that you waited for the right one and that she was it but if you want an older women to ruin you fair enough lol enjoy what ever you do. X |
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"I'm looking for some experience, say if I was too find a girl I really liked I'd probably just embarrass my self if I was a virgin surely?
Not if she really like you the right girl will be understanding and help you through it if she takes the piss you need to get rid.
I guess so, but if anything I'd rather impress her
Guess it depends on the kind of girl you want really as a nice girl would be more impressed if you saved yourself for the right girl she would feel so special that you waited for the right one and that she was it but if you want an older women to ruin you fair enough lol enjoy what ever you do. X"
Appreciated but like you said it would depend on the girl, but if I'm honest I think I'll jump at the opportunity if I found someone really nice on here who are hopefully open minded as well, thanks though! x |
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"There are loads who are open minded you've just gonna have to ask a fuck load of women on here lol but I'm sure you find someone very willing. lol "
Add me on here i'll keep you update to date with my search |
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"There are loads who are open minded you've just gonna have to ask a fuck load of women on here lol but I'm sure you find someone very willing. lol
Add me on here i'll keep you update to date with my search "
I did |
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"No luck still, surely theres someone interested? Feel free to message me "
You've waited 19 years... 5 weeks isn't so bad no matter how frustrating it seems.
You never know, you might meet the live of your life before you find someone on here and thank your stars you didn't have the opportunity.
I still have a lot of affection for the girlfriend I lost mine to even though I haven't seen well over 10 years. I've been married since then and divorced.
One little extra piece of advice that hasn't been mentioned as far as I've seen... Your profile says you're up for practically anything, maybe try limiting that a bit (as odd as it sounds) you'll narrow your field down to people more likely to be j retested and draw those in.
For example, what would you like to do first? What do you think you'd be good at? If you've always wanted to give oral, or you like to tease or be teased, physical or slow. You'll get people who want what you want and it'll cut down the time spent finding out you're not right for someone or they aren't right for you.
You wouldn't put 'I'll take any job for any money' on your CV, think of this the same way.
I hope that's not patronising, it's meant with good intentions. Good luck mate. |
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I appreciate this so much! I have a had a few people mention about my profile and do need to make some major adjustments.
I'm aware that this might not be the best place to start, but I feel it might be needed as I do have low self esteem and feel this way I could learn a lot more and be more confident
Plus once ive been trained up a bit there will be no stopping me
Thanks for your massive paragraph |
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You're very welcome.
From the sound of things here you're prepared to put the effort in on here. That's a good sign, just make your profile reflect that and you'll be in a much better position.
Do you think you need training? I think deep down you know how to give pleasure to a lady, most men do. You just have to choose between being selfish or selfless. Being selfless has its own rewards and it's much more fulfilling than being selfish.
Remember, the training one woman gives you may not be what another woman likes. Always listen to what she and her body say to you verbally or involuntarily and adapt to suit her. That in itself is a huge turn on (for me anyway) |
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I'll bare that in mind, thanks.
I've got a good idea, but like someone said before ive always got my tongue or fingers.
Girls are hard to read anyway, im sure i'll get the hang of it. Im pretty sure im a quick learner which is always a bonus |
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"I appreciate this so much! I have a had a few people mention about my profile and do need to make some major adjustments.
I'm aware that this might not be the best place to start, but I feel it might be needed as I do have low self esteem and feel this way I could learn a lot more and be more confident
Plus once ive been trained up a bit there will be no stopping me
Thanks for your massive paragraph"
You do have an uphill struggle on here.
Your looking at a pretty niche market. Most ladies on a swingers site are looking for experienced guys. I would imagine that you are going to have to search far and wide to find someone looking to entertain a virgin, and you will almost certainly have to travel.
And, yes, your profile is not the greatest, so that will limit your chances even further.
Good luck, though. |
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"I appreciate this so much! I have a had a few people mention about my profile and do need to make some major adjustments.
I'm aware that this might not be the best place to start, but I feel it might be needed as I do have low self esteem and feel this way I could learn a lot more and be more confident
Plus once ive been trained up a bit there will be no stopping me
Thanks for your massive paragraph
You do have an uphill struggle on here.
Your looking at a pretty niche market. Most ladies on a swingers site are looking for experienced guys. I would imagine that you are going to have to search far and wide to find someone looking to entertain a virgin, and you will almost certainly have to travel.
And, yes, your profile is not the greatest, so that will limit your chances even further.
Good luck, though."
I think you're right, the amount of women who would want to fuck him purely because they'd be taking his virginity is limited. (Or training him).
But I think the number of women who would meet him regardless of the fact hes a virgin is the same as any of us single guys if he can present himself as a good opportunity rather than a favour to be done.
Remember op, it's not just you, it's hard for all of us.. the fact we're all here for sex doesn't mean we're all going to want to fuck everyone.
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Id rather be straight up with them and let them know im a virgin. Mainly because i wouldnt want to embarrass my self and possibly waste her time.
That would probably end up destroying my confidence. |
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"Id rather be straight up with them and let them know im a virgin. Mainly because i wouldnt want to embarrass my self and possibly waste her time.
That would probably end up destroying my confidence. "
I'm with you on that... Definitely don't lie. I just think your focussing on what you dont have (experience) rather than what you do. There's someone for everyone, so no only is there someone for you... Out there somewhere, you're the someone for one lucky lady.
You just have to sell youself so that she knows it's you she wants. Rather than. She sees your a virgin and can't get beyond that.
Perhaps if she reads all about you and what you like, when she reads you're a virgin, it may not phase her like it would if that's the focus of your profile. It needs to be there, sure. But the profile is about more than just how many women you've slept with.
I hope that makes sense, I'm standing in the sun and can barely see my screen. |
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go to a club dude have a good time and start talking to girls, this is how I started out. I was exactly the same, nervous and a bit paranoid that my dick wasn't big enough, I wouldn't be able to do it properly, could I keep hard etc etc. Turn out I met a girl I had fancied for a while at a club, we were kissing all night and the rest is History. once in the bedroom I was surprised out how chilled I was, we were both there to have a bit of fun, by no means perfect sex just fun after a night out. After that first experience my confidence grew and I'm pretty confident now. Just make sure that you don't let the girl put in all the effort, may sound crude but try going down on her, kissing her etc, makes it a bit more sensual then just going in and out haha. You look like you're in good shape and i have no doubt that a nice girl will give you a shot :D |
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Wow still looking eh?
Go and chat a girl up in a club. Nothing finer than actually getting to know a girl for 'your first time' that way you might remember her name, and not her 'username' |
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If your aim goal is to be able to meet girls in a club ill give you the best advise you can get.
Women are people too they have the same hangups and thoughts as you. If your in a club or a pub chances are (unless you take her home) you will never see her again so who cares if she says no forget corny lines and all that shit the best chat up line you will ever need is
"Hi im (insert name) can i buy you a drink"
And then talk to her as if you were talking to anyone else |
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damm I wanted them bonus points 
I say it often the more niche your requirements the longer you'll have to search. 