Went to a club last night and watched a lot of sex (I'm a perv) but a lot of it looked like mindless rutting. Snog, boob grab, steer womans head towards crotch, fuck her, pump away like a bunny while looking around the room to see who else is watching.
Very rarely see any teasing, pussy play, oral or female pleasure (though there was one couple who put on such a show, I shouted bravo when she came). It largely seems rather mechanical and pornographic, geared towards men showing the other men their prowess.
Am I the only one who sees this? |
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"Went to a club last night and watched a lot of sex (I'm a perv) but a lot of it looked like mindless rutting. Snog, boob grab, steer womans head towards crotch, fuck her, pump away like a bunny while looking around the room to see who else is watching.
Very rarely see any teasing, pussy play, oral or female pleasure (though there was one couple who put on such a show, I shouted bravo when she came). It largely seems rather mechanical and pornographic, geared towards men showing the other men their prowess.
Am I the only one who sees this?"
That is pretty much the club scene sadly. |
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"Went to a club last night and watched a lot of sex (I'm a perv) but a lot of it looked like mindless rutting. Snog, boob grab, steer womans head towards crotch, fuck her, pump away like a bunny while looking around the room to see who else is watching.
Very rarely see any teasing, pussy play, oral or female pleasure (though there was one couple who put on such a show, I shouted bravo when she came). It largely seems rather mechanical and pornographic, geared towards men showing the other men their prowess.
Am I the only one who sees this?"
i find that in open rooms, i find if i go into a private room with a guy they are much more relaxed and give and take about sex
in a open room it just feels like a show |
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You've hit the nail on the head with this post. 
On another note, some of the noises that come out of some women in the open areas is just plain ridiculous. It's like ok we get it! You're being fucked |
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"I think the open play areas are like that, private rooms are a bit different, guess it all depends on what people want at certain times. "
This I agree with.
Some people want a mindless orgy.
Some people want quality sex.
And indeed, some people want to watch.
Each to their own. Not for us to judge |
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"Went to a club last night and watched a lot of sex (I'm a perv) but a lot of it looked like mindless rutting. Snog, boob grab, steer womans head towards crotch, fuck her, pump away like a bunny while looking around the room to see who else is watching.
Very rarely see any teasing, pussy play, oral or female pleasure (though there was one couple who put on such a show, I shouted bravo when she came). It largely seems rather mechanical and pornographic, geared towards men showing the other men their prowess.
Am I the only one who sees this?"
We've often had that sort of feeling, all about performance for performance sake and not about having fun! |
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Totally spot on. Many guys think at a club if a woman is joining the play it's a green light to grab her, thrust their hands between her legs, shove their dicks into her mouth bite their nipples hard and often give her a slap! Like she is some two bit actress in a hard core porn movie. It's not on and I would never let this.happen to me but I have seen this so many times! Girls just be assertive and tell these arseholes to do one!! |
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I have seen this a few times at clubs and I had a guy try it with a friend of mine needless to say I wasn't impressed and had him kicked out
I never understand why some guys feel the need to be like that, for me its all about pleasing the woman im with knowing I can make her cum for me is a turn on  |
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"Totally spot on. Many guys think at a club if a woman is joining the play it's a green light to grab her, thrust their hands between her legs, shove their dicks into her mouth bite their nipples hard and often give her a slap! Like she is some two bit actress in a hard core porn movie. It's not on and I would never let this.happen to me but I have seen this so many times! Girls just be assertive and tell these arseholes to do one!!"
That sounds pretty horny to me haha  |
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"Went to a club last night and watched a lot of sex (I'm a perv) but a lot of it looked like mindless rutting. Snog, boob grab, steer womans head towards crotch, fuck her, pump away like a bunny while looking around the room to see who else is watching.
Very rarely see any teasing, pussy play, oral or female pleasure (though there was one couple who put on such a show, I shouted bravo when she came). It largely seems rather mechanical and pornographic, geared towards men showing the other men their prowess.
Am I the only one who sees this?"
Depends on the people and to some extent,the club.
I usually have a great time, if there's no fun what's the point?? |
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"Went to a club last night and watched a lot of sex (I'm a perv) but a lot of it looked like mindless rutting. Snog, boob grab, steer womans head towards crotch, fuck her, pump away like a bunny while looking around the room to see who else is watching.
Very rarely see any teasing, pussy play, oral or female pleasure (though there was one couple who put on such a show, I shouted bravo when she came). It largely seems rather mechanical and pornographic, geared towards men showing the other men their prowess.
Am I the only one who sees this?"
Totally agree, and one of the reasons we much prefer 3somes or 4somes, and avoid the communal play areas prefer to play in the private areas at clubs |
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Yesterday afternoon l was in the open room in Kestrels dungeon. There were 3 women and 8 men. One of the women was with one man. One of the others was on her back being stroked and caressed by 4 men. I saw no penetration of her whilst l was in the room. The three other men were doing the same to the other women until she said enough of the carressing she wanted fucking. Whilst the men took the turns the other two caressed her
In my experience certainly at Kestrels l have found more men caressing than shagging to show their prowess.
But then certain clubs only accept their clientele on looks, so maybe that type of cliente wants to show off.
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Sometimes I see couples/groups of people and it's almost a competitive thing, who can be the loudest, most obvious about the fact they are being fucked! It does nothing for me.
I love watching couples who play together quietly, the more intimate moments, when they are able to read each other perfectly. That's really hot! |
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