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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have any guys / ladies / couples ever gave you a present on your meet...i.e. flowers etc...
does a face full of spunk count?"
Whatabout Herpes?..it's the present that keeps giving  |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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Ohh my god, never got any presents, but guess then again we get most of our meets now from our local swingers club.
But for any single guys out there we may meet i just love flowers LOL xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I now only accept diamonds from my intended meets.
No I havent had any presents, neither do I expect any. I think if you were going to a party then taking a bottle is a nice gesture. But swinging is very different from going on a date where some guys may feel it nice to take the lady a bunch of flowers. You have to be careful on misinterpretation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Usually on most meets presents are exchanged from what we've experienced. Think it's kind of the same as having a dinner party the guests usually bring a bottle of wine or flowers etc.. That's our experience on it anyway.
We've also exchanged birthday gifts too for our regular friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the nice little touches are acceptable, the kind of thing that we would do with our friends, flowers / wine etc, nothing expensive.
Asking for lingerie to be bought by men so that it can be modelled during the meet by the female is, in my opinion, wrong. Or wanting a hotel meet at The Savoy in London.  |
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We always take a small token...usually a box of chocholates...just seems respectful really? We always take a bottle of red and a bottle of white....one of us has to drive so no booze for them....usually one bottle remains un opened but again its the thought and respect aspect.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not even flowers?
nope.. :D
Katie.x"
I havent either, but I dont think couples do get presents, unless they are having a house party and its a bottle of wine etc.
Im a cynical old bugger and if I was a single woman swinging and a guy turned up with presents (a) i might feel obliged to play, even the first time of meeting him and (b) is it a ploy to increase the chances of a re-meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not even flowers?
nope.. :D
Katie.x
I havent either, but I dont think couples do get presents, unless they are having a house party and its a bottle of wine etc.
Im a cynical old bugger and if I was a single woman swinging and a guy turned up with presents (a) i might feel obliged to play, even the first time of meeting him and (b) is it a ploy to increase the chances of a re-meet "
We rarely play as a couple.. :D its normally me and the single guy/guys.. :D
I always meet socially first.. and yes I do expect them to buy my drink... but thats just good manners.. ( a man should always buy for a lady.. ) If they were crap in bed they wouldnt get invited back even if they brought me a gift.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive accumulated a few pressies along the way,nothing major, although the champagne is always welcome 
I have never had floweres though and to be honest I would'nt want them
So lets go over this again to make things clear....
Champagne........always welcome
Flowers........no thanks they don't bubble or fizz or make a great pop when you open them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeap, I've had champers and also wine, I think it is only manners, as my meets always tend to be at mine, I shouldn't be expected to lay on all the refreshments now should I? "
you lay on refreshments ???  lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can understand you been cynical but some guys just think its a nice gesture."
Oh I agree it is a lovely gesture, but a token item, nothing expensive or over the top and certainly a token that comes without any hidden agenda |
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Flowers, beer, wine usually. I think its a nice gesture. Wouldnt feel comfortable accepting anything expensive from a meet.
Best "haul" i got for want of a better word from one guy was 2 bottles of champagne, bottle of baileys, bottle of vodka, think it was four boxes of chocolate loads of fruit and half ounce of cocaine lol. Not that i wanted the drugs. But thats what he brought over all on one meet lol |
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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago
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"Flowers, beer, wine usually. I think its a nice gesture. Wouldnt feel comfortable accepting anything expensive from a meet.
Best "haul" i got for want of a better word from one guy was 2 bottles of champagne, bottle of baileys, bottle of vodka, think it was four boxes of chocolate loads of fruit and half ounce of cocaine lol. Not that i wanted the drugs. But thats what he brought over all on one meet lol"
When's he leaving? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Flowers, beer, wine usually. I think its a nice gesture. Wouldnt feel comfortable accepting anything expensive from a meet.
Best "haul" i got for want of a better word from one guy was 2 bottles of champagne, bottle of baileys, bottle of vodka, think it was four boxes of chocolate loads of fruit and half ounce of cocaine lol. Not that i wanted the drugs. But thats what he brought over all on one meet lol"
And you actually had time to "play". If someone had brought 4 boxes of chocolates and two bottles of champagne, Im not sure Id want the sex. Well I guess it would be ok if I was in the doggy position, could still carry on eating and drinking then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Flowers, beer, wine usually. I think its a nice gesture. Wouldnt feel comfortable accepting anything expensive from a meet.
Best "haul" i got for want of a better word from one guy was 2 bottles of champagne, bottle of baileys, bottle of vodka, think it was four boxes of chocolate loads of fruit and half ounce of cocaine lol. Not that i wanted the drugs. But thats what he brought over all on one meet lol
When's he leaving?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every week for the last three years: flowers, home and office. I've received a gold rose, plane tickets to Italy, tickets to West End shows, wine, champagne, chocolates, ear rings, lube (I'm stingy with it apparently)!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Every week for the last three years: flowers, home and office. I've received a gold rose, plane tickets to Italy, tickets to West End shows, wine, champagne, chocolates, ear rings, lube (I'm stingy with it apparently)!
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bloody hell, lol, right im out to buy my whips and floggers tomorrow and take up your line of business tomorrow - Madame Feebs, be great. So if any guy wants me to flog his bottom in a hotel room overlooking Central Park in New York City then mail me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I very rarely turn up empty handed, flowers wine champagne.....but that's just the way I was brought up, even a packet of biscuits or cakes or soup and rolls during the day. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have any guys / ladies / couples ever gave you a present on your meet...i.e. flowers etc..."
Always take something - just as you would when visiting anyone. The fact it's a swing meet is no excuse for forgetting your manners. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Every week for the last three years: flowers, home and office. I've received a gold rose, plane tickets to Italy, tickets to West End shows, wine, champagne, chocolates, ear rings, lube (I'm stingy with it apparently)!
bloody hell, lol, right im out to buy my whips and floggers tomorrow and take up your line of business tomorrow - Madame Feebs, be great. So if any guy wants me to flog his bottom in a hotel room overlooking Central Park in New York City then mail me "
They only get coffee, fresh towels, hot shower and toothbrush. Imagine my haul if I fed them too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if we go to other peoples houses, swinging or not.we always take flowers.
it's just manners,to give something.is'nt it.  "
O once turned up to a lady with some flowers and she said... "wow I suppose now you want me to open my legs !!"
I said " why don't you have a vase !?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive had chocltes wine flowers perfume a gorgeous pair of shoes ooh and one guy insisted on bringing wadges of cash and showering me with it "a la george best and miss world " i didnt ask him to(and so never would) but it was all part of his fantasy ...would have been rude not to accept !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its only manners to take something if your going to someones home, normally I will take flowers or a bottle of wine.
I have had flowers, wine, vodka, chocolates, ice lollies, a couple of books.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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never have been given a pressie on a meet until last time and i got lovely boots from the lady!
Always bring wine or vodka or something to meets.
Would love a meet to buy me something..... |
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