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By *ndyehelen OP Couple
over a year ago
stoke on trent |
What are people's feelings on starting a group for post op mastectomy women. As a woman who as had this operation it would be nice to talk about there experience since there operation. Hope this doesn't offend anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i see no harm in it personally 
certainly not offensive to me
i can imagine it may help a lot of women who have manybe had the op but not got back into swinging yet to talk to other woman who have experienced this, maybe build their confidance up a little |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i see no harm in it personally
certainly not offensive to me
i can imagine it may help a lot of women who have manybe had the op but not got back into swinging yet to talk to other woman who have experienced this, maybe build their confidance up a little "
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By *ndyehelen OP Couple
over a year ago
stoke on trent |
I have had a single mastectomy and not reconstruction. Since having this I have lost all my confidence and no one seems to want to meet us. We get in a conversation with people and once we tell them we never hear from them again. We feel we are no lesser people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have had a single mastectomy and not reconstruction. Since having this I have lost all my confidence and no one seems to want to meet us. We get in a conversation with people and once we tell them we never hear from them again. We feel we are no lesser people."
It wouldn't bother us one bit, although we can totally understand the loss of confidence after serious illness.
I (Mr) have scars all over from an illness and it makes me feel very self conscious. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
I think this type of a support group for ladies affected and their partners would be a great idea. I have not been affected personally, but can imagine some of the issues that you must face. Good luck with the plan. X |
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I had a double with recon 9 years ago. I then met Mr Kinky a year later and we started swinging a year after.
My scars have healed well but I clearly look like I've had surgery - I used to joke that I look like an A-Z but now I don't really notice and every one we've played with has just accepted it. It's not on our profile cos it's not what makes us interesting/fun/kinky but we mention it before we play. At clubs I used to wear a basque/corset until happy and confident to be seen but in 8 years only 1 person has commented and she was just interested as she was about to have the same op.
After we read this forum post I asked Mr if he missed me having 'real' boobs and he said he just didn't think of them as anything unusual.
So my opinion for what it's worth - don't worry about it. And if you do, try and play with bum and fanny fans instead of boob-fans. Good luck
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have had a single mastectomy and not reconstruction. Since having this I have lost all my confidence and no one seems to want to meet us. We get in a conversation with people and once we tell them we never hear from them again. We feel we are no lesser people."
It wouldn't affect my decision to meet you, I would have no problem with meeting you.
I understand how it would affect you but it doesn't make you any less a woman, your beautiful and sexy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single male, I find a woman with a mastectomy as alluring as any other. In fact, it's most sexy as it is a mark of bravery, which is a great quality to have. |
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