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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Please tell me I'm not alone here ha.. I've just been approached by a couple, we swapped face pictures. All seems well.
Immediately after I accept their fr... Blocked.
Now I'm not overly sensitive or anything so a quick "your piece isn't quite large enough" message would have been preferable.
Rejection is a bitter pill to swallow haha   |
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I have just had exactly the same thing happen... Except I was asked by her for my kik... Sent a picture and she out right said no thanks... Not interested... Now it's not the rejection I care about but on her profile she sounds so arrogant as she is looking for channing Tatum by the sounds of it but she is hardly attractive herself...
I'm all for everyone trying to have fun but when you are far from Cinderella and expect to find channing Tatum, and then outright shun people when they send a face pic at their request, things aren't going to go well for them...
So I gave her both barrels and blocked her!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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or simply changed their mind - some people choose to block just to quickly end it - rather than say sorry not for us -for you to reply ok not a problem and so it goes on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have just had exactly the same thing happen... Except I was asked by her for my kik... Sent a picture and she out right said no thanks... Not interested... Now it's not the rejection I care about but on her profile she sounds so arrogant as she is looking for channing Tatum by the sounds of it but she is hardly attractive herself...
I'm all for everyone trying to have fun but when you are far from Cinderella and expect to find channing Tatum, and then outright shun people when they send a face pic at their request, things aren't going to go well for them...
So I gave her both barrels and blocked her!!!!"
I think you misunderstood me. Anyone is more than entitled to their own opinion and changing that opinion at any time. I don't expect people to fancy me..
But a polite response would have been sharply answered with a "no problem at all" from me. I'm just a bit old fashioned with manners and I was left a little confused.
Haha I doubt jealousy came into it. He looked cute anyway
I love it when I'm looking at a couple and he grabs her to say "mine buddy" and I'm thinking "what girl?"  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh, I've been strung along plenty too. I've even had the pleasure of an hours drive only to be told "I fell asleep sorry"
I'm not doing very well at all am I  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get used to being rejected, there's a lot of it in the adult dating world. The trick is shrugging it off and moving on without making a big deal"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh, I've been strung along plenty too. I've even had the pleasure of an hours drive only to be told "I fell asleep sorry"
I'm not doing very well at all am I "
. Bless you xx |
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"But a polite response would have been sharply answered with a "no problem at all" from me. I'm just a bit old fashioned with manners and I was left a little confused."
It's good that you would have reacted that way, sadly experience has probably been that most don't and come back with abuse so easier to do what they did. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But a polite response would have been sharply answered with a "no problem at all" from me. I'm just a bit old fashioned with manners and I was left a little confused.
It's good that you would have reacted that way, sadly experience has probably been that most don't and come back with abuse so easier to do what they did. "
I agree however, if you are going to block you won't get any abuse so might as well just say no thanks, not for me before you do it. |
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"But a polite response would have been sharply answered with a "no problem at all" from me. I'm just a bit old fashioned with manners and I was left a little confused.
It's good that you would have reacted that way, sadly experience has probably been that most don't and come back with abuse so easier to do what they did.
I agree however, if you are going to block you won't get any abuse so might as well just say no thanks, not for me before you do it. "
I didn't say how I do things just why they might have done that. Would getting a no thanks before being blocked make it any easier  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Get used to being rejected, there's a lot of it in the adult dating world. The trick is shrugging it off and moving on without making a big deal"
 agree completely .. Just move on... Don't worry.. Be happy |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"I have just had exactly the same thing happen... Except I was asked by her for my kik... Sent a picture and she out right said no thanks... Not interested... Now it's not the rejection I care about but on her profile she sounds so arrogant as she is looking for channing Tatum by the sounds of it but she is hardly attractive herself...
I'm all for everyone trying to have fun but when you are far from Cinderella and expect to find channing Tatum, and then outright shun people when they send a face pic at their request, things aren't going to go well for them...
So I gave her both barrels and blocked her!!!!"
If she was 'hardly attractive' then why were you messaging her in the first place?! Sour grapes me thinks.
Giving her 'both barrels' after her saying 'no thanks'? I just hope she reported you.
You are the idiots that give single men on here a bad name  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But a polite response would have been sharply answered with a "no problem at all" from me. I'm just a bit old fashioned with manners and I was left a little confused.
It's good that you would have reacted that way, sadly experience has probably been that most don't and come back with abuse so easier to do what they did.
I agree however, if you are going to block you won't get any abuse so might as well just say no thanks, not for me before you do it.
I didn't say how I do things just why they might have done that. Would getting a no thanks before being blocked make it any easier "
I wasn't referring to how you did things my lovely, I just mean in general. If people are going to block, I think they might as well politely say no thanks and give a reason, I used to. At least then in the example given in this thread, the person being blocked would not be left wondering why. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have just had exactly the same thing happen... Except I was asked by her for my kik... Sent a picture and she out right said no thanks... Not interested... Now it's not the rejection I care about but on her profile she sounds so arrogant as she is looking for channing Tatum by the sounds of it but she is hardly attractive herself...
I'm all for everyone trying to have fun but when you are far from Cinderella and expect to find channing Tatum, and then outright shun people when they send a face pic at their request, things aren't going to go well for them...
So I gave her both barrels and blocked her!!!!
If she was 'hardly attractive' then why were you messaging her in the first place?! Sour grapes me thinks.
Giving her 'both barrels' after her saying 'no thanks'? I just hope she reported you.
You are the idiots that give single men on here a bad name "
I agree, why message her if you feel like that? Its responses like this that put women off replying with a polite no thanks. I was offered a drink in a pub by a stranger the other day but I didn't have time so politely said no thanks. He never threw his toys out of the pram. If you cannot respectfully accept a no thanks then you really need to grow up a little. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh, I've been strung along plenty too. I've even had the pleasure of an hours drive only to be told "I fell asleep sorry"
I'm not doing very well at all am I "
Haha......my "fun" for last night did the same...but she was coming here and didn't arrive. As she is a regular bed buddy I didn't mind.....I know that one was genuine. We on,y tend to speak through whatsapp nowadays....most days to be fair! |
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"But a polite response would have been sharply answered with a "no problem at all" from me. I'm just a bit old fashioned with manners and I was left a little confused.
It's good that you would have reacted that way, sadly experience has probably been that most don't and come back with abuse so easier to do what they did.
I agree however, if you are going to block you won't get any abuse so might as well just say no thanks, not for me before you do it.
I didn't say how I do things just why they might have done that. Would getting a no thanks before being blocked make it any easier
I wasn't referring to how you did things my lovely, I just mean in general. If people are going to block, I think they might as well politely say no thanks and give a reason, I used to. At least then in the example given in this thread, the person being blocked would not be left wondering why. "
True just how honest would people be as to why they are not interested. Sometime your better off not knowing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Please tell me I'm not alone here ha.. I've just been approached by a couple, we swapped face pictures. All seems well.
Immediately after I accept their fr... Blocked.
Now I'm not overly sensitive or anything so a quick "your piece isn't quite large enough" message would have been preferable.
Rejection is a bitter pill to swallow haha "
It happens
We all get rejected on here at some point
People don't have to actually say your not for me to say your not for me
Looking at your profile and not mailing, ignoring your message it all says the same
If they don't want to meet they don't want to meet does it really matter if they say that, with a message or a block the end results the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Please tell me I'm not alone here ha.. I've just been approached by a couple, we swapped face pictures. All seems well.
Immediately after I accept their fr... Blocked.
Now I'm not overly sensitive or anything so a quick "your piece isn't quite large enough" message would have been preferable.
Rejection is a bitter pill to swallow haha
It happens
We all get rejected on here at some point
People don't have to actually say your not for me to say your not for me
Looking at your profile and not mailing, ignoring your message it all says the same
If they don't want to meet they don't want to meet does it really matter if they say that, with a message or a block the end results the same "
Yeah, happens all the time, mate. You have to develop a lack of concern and move on.
If someone looks at my profile and doesn't message or I send a message and it's just deleted then it's pretty easy to work out that they're not interested.
C'est la vie. Not a problem. Everyone has different tastes and you're obviously not gonna be everyone's cuppa...
...but I do think not responding after some initial contact has been made just indicates a real lack of style and substance.
I always think it's their loss lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've done it before in couples profile , he's been chatting , thinks they ok looking , I have a look and it's a hell no from me , so I just block them .
Poss the case here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've done it before in couples profile , he's been chatting , thinks they ok looking , I have a look and it's a hell no from me , so I just block them .
Poss the case here "
Lol when my partner does that I now send our worst face pics so they blow us out instead!! |
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