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A new.person every time it seems!

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Do many ladies on here get repeat meets a lot? I find I don't get as much as I would like - I have had a few but it tends to be one offs in the bedroom mainly!

Of course I do know that many folk prefer not to meet the same person twice as I have felt on a number of occasions, mainly because there was no spark.

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

Or maybe they don't want to get attached? We only play with others at the club and not with anyone we've met before...the anonymity is part of the turn-on for us

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By *GHertsCouple over a year ago

North Herts

Think it depends on whether you "click" or not to be honest - in our (albeit limited) experience there have been a few "one offs" where we've had fun but come away knowing that was that, but there have been a couple of others where planets have aligned and we've had such a great time we can't wait to hook up again.

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find a good mixture of repeat meets and one offs. I never meet with the expectation that it will ever be more than a one off so if we both want to repeat the experience then great, if one or both of us don't that's great also. No drama. No pressure.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I have done only the ones who want to see me again are the ones I don't want to see again usually.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have done only the ones who want to see me again are the ones I don't want to see again usually."

That's the same for me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Same here, seems most want one offs. I guess it takes time to find a regular

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always go into a meet with the expectation it will be more than a one off. But as has been said, sometimes it just lacks that spark.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer to make friends I can see again rather than one offs, although I have. Its just a preference.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer repeat meets personally. There are two guys on here that I've met a few times and will be meeting again

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By *ungBlackTopMan over a year ago

salford

Repeats all the time, don't want my legacy to be "I can rest now I have fucked 1000's of people" lol repeats are much more relaxed and filthy as you're comfortable and trust them. This doesn't mean attachment, just means FUN.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's a few we like to see again , and do .

But the majority are one offs as the initial rush and excitement can't be beaten .

It's all about the fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone I meet wants to meet again...

Can't say I've ever had a 'one off' tbh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find a good mixture of repeat meets and one offs. I never meet with the expectation that it will ever be more than a one off so if we both want to repeat the experience then great, if one or both of us don't that's great also. No drama. No pressure."

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most of the ones I met wanted to meet again, most likely because there are not many females playing in my area. XXX

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Same here, seems most want one offs. I guess it takes time to find a regular

i suppose you are right. i'm looking for that elusive FB/FWB. one day. one day.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agrèe i like to get to know people before i play

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Sometimes I see people again,some I just meet the once

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Same here, seems most want one offs. I guess it takes time to find a regular

i suppose you are right. i'm looking for that elusive FB/FWB. one day. one day."
Yes and me too there, that would be the dream.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a single fem i did a variety of one offs and repeats however all the guys i met wanted to meet again but i didn't always feel the same.

Although there is one guy I've been meeting for 9 years !!!

As a couple we have done both.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I did have a lovely regular guy I met with for five years who is on a few of my verifications and we had lots of great times together but he became very attached to me and needy so I felt it was time to move on. He has now met someone from ZOOSK app which I am glad about! Hoping to meet someone to take his place and have all the adventures with!

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