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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I keep seeing this phrase, I believe I have used it myself on a few occasions too. But what does it really mean to people?
What is your definition of a hardened swinger?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People to avoid because they think they know everything and others should abide by their rules. see I think they should be held in higher respect to a degree"
I respect everyone equally and don't put anyone on a pedestal. Their swinging experiences do not impress me |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"People to avoid because they think they know everything and others should abide by their rules. see I think they should be held in higher respect to a degree
I respect everyone equally and don't put anyone on a pedestal. Their swinging experiences do not impress me "
not on a pedestal but I respect any veterans an would value their opinion more than unexperienced swingers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People to avoid because they think they know everything and others should abide by their rules. see I think they should be held in higher respect to a degree
I respect everyone equally and don't put anyone on a pedestal. Their swinging experiences do not impress me not on a pedestal but I respect any veterans an would value their opinion more than unexperienced swingers."
Their opinion of what? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People to avoid because they think they know everything and others should abide by their rules. see I think they should be held in higher respect to a degree
I respect everyone equally and don't put anyone on a pedestal. Their swinging experiences do not impress me not on a pedestal but I respect any veterans an would value their opinion more than unexperienced swingers."
I do wonder about all this opinion and experiences meaning something.
Ultimately, this swinging lark is all about people meeting other people and having a sexual experience. Everyone consents and no harm done.
Why make it all so complicated? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure there are more flattering ways of describing such people than 'hardened' though...
If I see in a profile that someone is protesting they are not hardened, then you see they have numerous verifications that's an instant turn off for me  |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"People to avoid because they think they know everything and others should abide by their rules. see I think they should be held in higher respect to a degree
I respect everyone equally and don't put anyone on a pedestal. Their swinging experiences do not impress me not on a pedestal but I respect any veterans an would value their opinion more than unexperienced swingers.
Their opinion of what? "
on threads on here or veris of other people I will think yeah they seem to know what they are talking about whereas other people will comment who have no evidence of experience and I will think maybe they are full of shit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People to avoid because they think they know everything and others should abide by their rules. see I think they should be held in higher respect to a degree
I respect everyone equally and don't put anyone on a pedestal. Their swinging experiences do not impress me not on a pedestal but I respect any veterans an would value their opinion more than unexperienced swingers."
I don't think veterans is quite the right word  |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"People to avoid because they think they know everything and others should abide by their rules. see I think they should be held in higher respect to a degree
I respect everyone equally and don't put anyone on a pedestal. Their swinging experiences do not impress me not on a pedestal but I respect any veterans an would value their opinion more than unexperienced swingers.
I don't think veterans is quite the right word "
veteran doesn't mean old it's mean experienced look it up ball breaker  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People to avoid because they think they know everything and others should abide by their rules. see I think they should be held in higher respect to a degree
I respect everyone equally and don't put anyone on a pedestal. Their swinging experiences do not impress me not on a pedestal but I respect any veterans an would value their opinion more than unexperienced swingers.
Their opinion of what? on threads on here or veris of other people I will think yeah they seem to know what they are talking about whereas other people will comment who have no evidence of experience and I will think maybe they are full of shit."
Couldn't agree more 
I guess we are hardened swingers as we meet more than once a week , have loads of veris , are unshockable and are willing to try anything twice .
Hey ho , as others have said that its a derogatory turn of phrase , we will take it in the chin , and keep having fun .
At the end of the day , we have no problem finding people who want to meet us , and we would far rather meet open minded and fun people than judgemental , narrow minded people any day of the week  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Someone who has done more than I have?
So that must make us hardened swingers then? But we don't consider ourselves to be hardened swingers.
--but you don't know what I've done"
That sounds alot more ominous than I think you intended   ! |
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"People to avoid because they think they know everything and others should abide by their rules. see I think they should be held in higher respect to a degree
I respect everyone equally and don't put anyone on a pedestal. Their swinging experiences do not impress me not on a pedestal but I respect any veterans an would value their opinion more than unexperienced swingers.
Their opinion of what? on threads on here or veris of other people I will think yeah they seem to know what they are talking about whereas other people will comment who have no evidence of experience and I will think maybe they are full of shit.
Couldn't agree more
I guess we are hardened swingers as we meet more than once a week , have loads of veris , are unshockable and are willing to try anything twice .
Hey ho , as others have said that its a derogatory turn of phrase , we will take it in the chin , and keep having fun .
At the end of the day , we have no problem finding people who want to meet us , and we would far rather meet open minded and fun people than judgemental , narrow minded people any day of the week "
You are direct and that is refreshing. If someone looks like fun that is who I want to know either hardened or newbie |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People to avoid because they think they know everything and others should abide by their rules. see I think they should be held in higher respect to a degree
I respect everyone equally and don't put anyone on a pedestal. Their swinging experiences do not impress me not on a pedestal but I respect any veterans an would value their opinion more than unexperienced swingers.
Their opinion of what? on threads on here or veris of other people I will think yeah they seem to know what they are talking about whereas other people will comment who have no evidence of experience and I will think maybe they are full of shit."
But how can you tell?
Our profile isn't very old, and it looks like we don't have much experience, yet we've been swinging a few years and have met a lot of people. You cant necessarily know who is or isn't experienced |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People to avoid because they think they know everything and others should abide by their rules. see I think they should be held in higher respect to a degree
I respect everyone equally and don't put anyone on a pedestal. Their swinging experiences do not impress me not on a pedestal but I respect any veterans an would value their opinion more than unexperienced swingers.
Their opinion of what? on threads on here or veris of other people I will think yeah they seem to know what they are talking about whereas other people will comment who have no evidence of experience and I will think maybe they are full of shit.
But how can you tell?
Our profile isn't very old, and it looks like we don't have much experience, yet we've been swinging a few years and have met a lot of people. You cant necessarily know who is or isn't experienced "
It amuses me no end.
It's usually the ones that really are full of shit that accuse everyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People to avoid because they think they know everything and others should abide by their rules. see I think they should be held in higher respect to a degree
I respect everyone equally and don't put anyone on a pedestal. Their swinging experiences do not impress me not on a pedestal but I respect any veterans an would value their opinion more than unexperienced swingers.
Their opinion of what? on threads on here or veris of other people I will think yeah they seem to know what they are talking about whereas other people will comment who have no evidence of experience and I will think maybe they are full of shit.
But how can you tell?
Our profile isn't very old, and it looks like we don't have much experience, yet we've been swinging a few years and have met a lot of people. You cant necessarily know who is or isn't experienced
It amuses me no end.
It's usually the ones that really are full of shit that accuse everyone else. "
Lol are you implying we're full of shit?
I wasnt saying we are so experienced and know everything, far from it, just that you can't tell from profiles, especially as people come and go, and using ours as an example.
As for our opinions, we dont care if anyone agrees with us or not,
I'd rather say what I think whether anyone agrees or not, rather than follow the herd |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People to avoid because they think they know everything and others should abide by their rules. see I think they should be held in higher respect to a degree
I respect everyone equally and don't put anyone on a pedestal. Their swinging experiences do not impress me not on a pedestal but I respect any veterans an would value their opinion more than unexperienced swingers.
Their opinion of what? on threads on here or veris of other people I will think yeah they seem to know what they are talking about whereas other people will comment who have no evidence of experience and I will think maybe they are full of shit.
But how can you tell?
Our profile isn't very old, and it looks like we don't have much experience, yet we've been swinging a few years and have met a lot of people. You cant necessarily know who is or isn't experienced
It amuses me no end.
It's usually the ones that really are full of shit that accuse everyone else.
Lol are you implying we're full of shit?
I wasnt saying we are so experienced and know everything, far from it, just that you can't tell from profiles, especially as people come and go, and using ours as an example.
As for our opinions, we dont care if anyone agrees with us or not,
I'd rather say what I think whether anyone agrees or not, rather than follow the herd "
Crikey no! I was agreeing with you. I didn't mean that YOU are full of shit. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People to avoid because they think they know everything and others should abide by their rules. see I think they should be held in higher respect to a degree
I respect everyone equally and don't put anyone on a pedestal. Their swinging experiences do not impress me not on a pedestal but I respect any veterans an would value their opinion more than unexperienced swingers.
Their opinion of what? on threads on here or veris of other people I will think yeah they seem to know what they are talking about whereas other people will comment who have no evidence of experience and I will think maybe they are full of shit.
But how can you tell?
Our profile isn't very old, and it looks like we don't have much experience, yet we've been swinging a few years and have met a lot of people. You cant necessarily know who is or isn't experienced
It amuses me no end.
It's usually the ones that really are full of shit that accuse everyone else.
Lol are you implying we're full of shit?
I wasnt saying we are so experienced and know everything, far from it, just that you can't tell from profiles, especially as people come and go, and using ours as an example.
As for our opinions, we dont care if anyone agrees with us or not,
I'd rather say what I think whether anyone agrees or not, rather than follow the herd
Crikey no! I was agreeing with you. I didn't mean that YOU are full of shit. x"
Haha ok, just read it the wrong way, sorry x |
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Probably means someone or a couple who are far out beyond the initial emotional adjustments which many of us have to make on entering the swinging world. With many of us at the moment coming from a "faithful and true together for ever" (!!!) background and absorbed received opinion.
If you have these initial "wobblies" as you strip out occasional eruptions of emotions like "jealousy" or comparison of who, over a short term, gets what (many of us did in the beginning?), they get less in time.
Then you get so you can arrive and simply get on playing. You know what you look forward to, you know the beneficial effect it will have on you, and you get on getting it...
That to us is what we'd visualise as being meant by "a hardened swinger". |
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Probably no one is this - I find it a judgemental term and have limited understanding of what the user would mean by it. Perhaps they shag everything in sight, never forming any mental connections or with affection? |
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