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Does friendship fun chemistry matter or just notch on a stick
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If there isn't any chemistry with someone, then I won't be getting intimate with them... Doesn't matter if you look like Dita Von Teese (phwoar!  ) If there isn't that electric tingle between us... well, it's a no thank you from me!  |
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"If there isn't any chemistry with someone, then I won't be getting intimate with them... Doesn't matter if you look like Dita Von Teese (phwoar! ) If there isn't that electric tingle between us... well, it's a no thank you from me! "
Dita - never heard of him... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Outside of a club situation
Friendship and comparability mean a lot to me
Spontaneous stuff at parties ect are fun
But if it's a 121
Gotta be able to connect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have played with people at clubs and parties that have somehow ended up in the mingle - but there has been a bit of banter at least across the bed - wouldnt be with anybody we got a bad vibe off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer to get to know people a bit but have had group sex where I didn't know their names and fucked them. "
This. Its nice to get to know people.
But also there are occasions when its great to just fuck people you absolutely dont know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like to build up friendships but have played on first meets and parties, as long as the chemistry is there and everyone is happy we will play.
Neither of us would 'take one for the team' if they weren't feeling it, so it wouldn't happen in that circumstance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As we have said before, you do not have to fuck us to be our friends, but if you want to fuck us you need to be friendly... "
Much more comfortable if there's some chemistry and friendship there at least socially or it's not a go-er for me .
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I've not done notches - the revolving door has an auto count mechanism.
I can understand teenagers counting but surely not the mature?
I only meet great people - I can't stand the thought of touching a person that I don't gel with and like. |
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Agree chemistry and the dynamic matters,swingers often get mistaken that they fuck anyone which often isn't the case, although after a few glasses of wine the chemistry window of participants widens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to have a spark - generally makes for better sex, otherwise it's a zombie fuck.... Don't get me wrong, they can be fun, but not the same.....  "
pmsl @ zombie fuck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My Fabs experience is not just about a fuck, been there, done that & it's nowhere near as good as having sex with someone who I have a connection with, on various different levels. |
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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago
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The missus just said "What's the point of Friends With Benefits" if you aren't really Friends?
Personally, I need to get along well with somebody and feel a bit of a mental connection before one ounce of blood drops down below my waist. Mostly, it's the mental connection that turns me on more than the physical. Of course there has to be physical attraction too, but with no mental connect, I'm trying to shoot pool with a rope.
-JD |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If there isn't any chemistry with someone, then I won't be getting intimate with them... Doesn't matter if you look like Dita Von Teese (phwoar! ) If there isn't that electric tingle between us... well, it's a no thank you from me! "
Never felt that "electric tingle" with anyone i've fucked off fab, only had that with my partner.
As long as i find them fairly attractive and we all get on then i'm happy with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It doesnt matter, it is just a fuck 
So you would fuck anyone as long as they have a pussy?That is right, as it is nsa x."
You don't feel there needs to be any sort of attraction as it's nsa?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As we have said before, you do not have to fuck us to be our friends, but if you want to fuck us you need to be friendly... "
Well said. I prefer to get a very casual NSA friendship going, but its not ABSOLUTELY essential to having fun.
Its far more likely that nice people will 'click' with other nice people. Be nice everyone, and lets make the world of Fab a nicer place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If there isn't any chemistry with someone, then I won't be getting intimate with them... Doesn't matter if you look like Dita Von Teese (phwoar! ) If there isn't that electric tingle between us... well, it's a no thank you from me! "
I couldn't agree with you more. Chemistry certainly gets the juices flowing. |
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