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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally wouldn't be interested in you being my master simply because your profile or interests show no hint of you being into it. Makes me think you are some mr Grey wannabe. I'm not saying you are, but that's my impression |
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Lol mr Grey wannabe....thanks for the advice and true i suppose nothing in my profile that states it but i have dabbled with it before so was just putting it out there as it were....Great advice though guys thanks....maybe i should re write my profile  |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
"Must be some genuine ones x"
Just because subs or hot wives are not putting themselves forward for your consideration, doesn't mean they aren't genuine or real. 
Echo what someone else has said... If there is no mention of it on your profile, then I'd think you're not really into it enough to mention it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How can you train someone if you are only dipping your toes in ,
Also sub picks her master not the other way round in a true D/S the sub is the real boss |
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A normal misconception made by wana be masters is that they are in control ,where in actual fact the submissive is the one in control . The submissive allows the master to dictate the scenario because of a bond of trust, the master acts out the fantasy scenario, but the submissive controls the situation with the use of a control word or words.mr grey in 50 shades was actually abusive not a master. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agreed she is a hotwife and im a very easy going man happy for her to indulge in single men, no one owns nor controls her or ever will I know from years of experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was just looking for a genuine hotwife or sub to form some kind of bond and explore a few different scenarios....isn't that the true term "master"  "
No that's not a sub/Dom relationship!
You just want someone to be kinky with and share the swinging experience with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok to make it easier i suppose its more of a hotwife i'm seeking all this master and sub/dom stuff seems a little complicated...good discussion though "
Perhaps you answer your own question here as to why nobody is interested in being sub to you? |
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"A D/s relationship is about mutual vulnerability and protection.
Too many guys think if they buy some restraints and a spanking paddle it makes them a master."
Not really into bondage just pure debauchary and fun....like the idea of knowing its someone elses wife....hence the hotwifing |
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Vague terms like 'pure debauchary and fun' mean very little to most people. I could interpret that as skinny dipping and crazy golf.
As a master you need to be directive, precise, show attention to detail and have very good intuition coupled with a keen eye for observation of your sub's needs and desires. Vague use of language doesn't go hand in hand with the above. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A D/s relationship is about mutual vulnerability and protection.
Too many guys think if they buy some restraints and a spanking paddle it makes them a master."
And this is why we keep our BDSM and swinging separate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can you train someone if you are only dipping your toes in ,
Also sub picks her master not the other way round in a true D/S the sub is the real boss "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol mr Grey wannabe....thanks for the advice and true i suppose nothing in my profile that states it but i have dabbled with it before so was just putting it out there as it were....Great advice though guys thanks....maybe i should re write my profile "
'Dabbled' isn't what I would look for in a master. Sorry. |
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"Didn't see this going well. Would the op have made the same request to a group of people in person? It kind of seems insensitive, which is the last thing I'd want from a dom."
Insensitive???? How do you work that out?....and why would i want to ask a group of people in person...this is a swinging forum for genuine adults  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A D/s relationship is about mutual vulnerability and protection.
Too many guys think if they buy some restraints and a spanking paddle it makes them a master."
very true !!! And go by the name of grey  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Crikey the OP has gone from looking to see if anyone is looking for a master to ok maybe just a hotwife,guess soon it will be "is anyone interested in a meet"  |
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"I was just looking for a genuine hotwife or sub to form some kind of bond and explore a few different scenarios....isn't that the true term "master" "
It really really isn't! Maybe top is the term you seek. If that. |
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"Ok to make it easier i suppose its more of a hotwife i'm seeking all this master and sub/dom stuff seems a little complicated...good discussion though "
I wonder what would have happened shold a naive submissive lady have presentend herself to you. Would have have admitted you don't have a clue what you were talking about? |
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"Ok to make it easier i suppose its more of a hotwife i'm seeking all this master and sub/dom stuff seems a little complicated...good discussion though
I wonder what would have happened shold a naive submissive lady have presentend herself to you. Would have have admitted you don't have a clue what you were talking about?"
Lol yeah i probably would....or shot off to the library to do some homework |
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"Must be some genuine ones x
Just because subs or hot wives are not putting themselves forward for your consideration, doesn't mean they aren't genuine or real.
Echo what someone else has said... If there is no mention of it on your profile, then I'd think you're not really into it enough to mention it. "
Yep!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is why it's so hard for a Dom to make contact with a true submissive on this site. It's over run with people that think controlling someone and slapping their arse makes them a "Master" and it's not only the wonnabe Tops that are doing it, the so called subs read a couple of fictional books and think they will give it ago.
I sorry if I upset people but this lifestyle isn't a game.
Oh and for anyone not aware it's the sub that is in control, they have the ultimate power and they are the ones that choose their partner.
It's all about trust and commitment.
Sorry to those that are in the scene but it makes my blood boil when people think you can become a Dom over night. |
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"Let me know what you guys think x
try some genuine pics and go from there I have been on here 4 years 2 years ago I had 18 meets and this year nothing to many fakes on here and other things"
Thanks for the genuine advice mate....seems some people are to quick to judge and just jump down your throat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every one has their own take on Masters and Submissives which is ok ....but only a true Master and a true Submissive knows ...every one is different but it is in you the total power exchange the heights that it takes you ...only then you will know what the difference is.
My path that i chose freely was only a year ago before that Bdsm was just a word to me ...and it was my Master that chose me ....moulded me and cherished me and for that i will always honour and obey his every needs. x
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
"This is why it's so hard for a Dom to make contact with a true submissive on this site. It's over run with people that think controlling someone and slapping their arse makes them a "Master" and it's not only the wonnabe Tops that are doing it, the so called subs read a couple of fictional books and think they will give it ago.
I sorry if I upset people but this lifestyle isn't a game.
Oh and for anyone not aware it's the sub that is in control, they have the ultimate power and they are the ones that choose their partner.
It's all about trust and commitment.
Sorry to those that are in the scene but it makes my blood boil when people think you can become a Dom over night."
I'm so bored of seeing 'true' this and that. I'm very much into lifestyle BDSM but so what if people read a book and decide to experiment. No, you don't become a dom or a sub overnight but you have got to start somewhere. The swinging scene is a good a place as any to start. If someone is a 'bedroom' dom/sub and that makes them happy, stop being so dismissive of it. Everyone plays at different levels. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is why it's so hard for a Dom to make contact with a true submissive on this site. It's over run with people that think controlling someone and slapping their arse makes them a "Master" and it's not only the wonnabe Tops that are doing it, the so called subs read a couple of fictional books and think they will give it ago.
I sorry if I upset people but this lifestyle isn't a game.
Oh and for anyone not aware it's the sub that is in control, they have the ultimate power and they are the ones that choose their partner.
It's all about trust and commitment.
Sorry to those that are in the scene but it makes my blood boil when people think you can become a Dom over night.
I'm so bored of seeing 'true' this and that. I'm very much into lifestyle BDSM but so what if people read a book and decide to experiment. No, you don't become a dom or a sub overnight but you have got to start somewhere. The swinging scene is a good a place as any to start. If someone is a 'bedroom' dom/sub and that makes them happy, stop being so dismissive of it. Everyone plays at different levels. "
Well said |
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"This is why it's so hard for a Dom to make contact with a true submissive on this site. It's over run with people that think controlling someone and slapping their arse makes them a "Master" and it's not only the wonnabe Tops that are doing it, the so called subs read a couple of fictional books and think they will give it ago.
I sorry if I upset people but this lifestyle isn't a game.
Oh and for anyone not aware it's the sub that is in control, they have the ultimate power and they are the ones that choose their partner.
It's all about trust and commitment.
Sorry to those that are in the scene but it makes my blood boil when people think you can become a Dom over night.
I'm so bored of seeing 'true' this and that. I'm very much into lifestyle BDSM but so what if people read a book and decide to experiment. No, you don't become a dom or a sub overnight but you have got to start somewhere. The swinging scene is a good a place as any to start. If someone is a 'bedroom' dom/sub and that makes them happy, stop being so dismissive of it. Everyone plays at different levels. "
Well said and in a positive manner....why do some people just jump down your throat and be negative...this is supposed to be a fun lifestyle |
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