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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are new to swinging together and are keen to invite a lady to join us primarily for A to explore her bi desires... Is this site the place to find the elusive single females??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can be yes, however clubs, socials etc are actually a better way to go in many cases as single ladies need to feel secure in the environment and with the couple so meeting them socially and getting to know them and then you helps a lot. |
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Yes and no.
There are plenty of bi women on here, some even meet couples.
BUT they are sought after. Can pick and choose from hundreds if not thousands of couples after the same thing. So will you have much luck? Possibly not.
You will have much better luck going to a club, hubby and I have found a few ladies there who liked spending time with us. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"It can be yes, however clubs, socials etc are actually a better way to go in many cases as single ladies need to feel secure in the environment and with the couple so meeting them socially and getting to know them and then you helps a lot."
This is the way to go - but also remember that single bi females have both feelings and desires of their own. They aren't just playthings for someone to try some thing out with. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It can be yes, however clubs, socials etc are actually a better way to go in many cases as single ladies need to feel secure in the environment and with the couple so meeting them socially and getting to know them and then you helps a lot.
This is the way to go - but also remember that single bi females have both feelings and desires of their own. They aren't just playthings for someone to try some thing out with. "
No absolutely! We are all about total respect and each other's desires by no means would we ever treat anyone as a plaything... Maybe couples is a better option |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"It can be yes, however clubs, socials etc are actually a better way to go in many cases as single ladies need to feel secure in the environment and with the couple so meeting them socially and getting to know them and then you helps a lot.
This is the way to go - but also remember that single bi females have both feelings and desires of their own. They aren't just playthings for someone to try some thing out with.
No absolutely! We are all about total respect and each other's desires by no means would we ever treat anyone as a plaything... Maybe couples is a better option"
wheres your other half, on pics OP? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It can be yes, however clubs, socials etc are actually a better way to go in many cases as single ladies need to feel secure in the environment and with the couple so meeting them socially and getting to know them and then you helps a lot.
This is the way to go - but also remember that single bi females have both feelings and desires of their own. They aren't just playthings for someone to try some thing out with.
No absolutely! We are all about total respect and each other's desires by no means would we ever treat anyone as a plaything... Maybe couples is a better option
wheres your other half, on pics OP?"
I was wondering this too? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It can be yes, however clubs, socials etc are actually a better way to go in many cases as single ladies need to feel secure in the environment and with the couple so meeting them socially and getting to know them and then you helps a lot.
This is the way to go - but also remember that single bi females have both feelings and desires of their own. They aren't just playthings for someone to try some thing out with.
No absolutely! We are all about total respect and each other's desires by no means would we ever treat anyone as a plaything... Maybe couples is a better option
wheres your other half, on pics OP?"
We have pics in private |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a single female and happy to meet couples. However, I took that option off my profile as I got messed around more by couples than by single males (hard to believe -huh?) I tend to do the approaching now.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am a single female and happy to meet couples. However, I took that option off my profile as I got messed around more by couples than by single males (hard to believe -huh?) I tend to do the approaching now...."
Feel free to drop us a message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It can be yes, however clubs, socials etc are actually a better way to go in many cases as single ladies need to feel secure in the environment and with the couple so meeting them socially and getting to know them and then you helps a lot."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It can be yes, however clubs, socials etc are actually a better way to go in many cases as single ladies need to feel secure in the environment and with the couple so meeting them socially and getting to know them and then you helps a lot.
This "
Well hopefully we will get the opportunity to arrange some socials etc m. We hope so |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"It can be yes, however clubs, socials etc are actually a better way to go in many cases as single ladies need to feel secure in the environment and with the couple so meeting them socially and getting to know them and then you helps a lot.
This is the way to go - but also remember that single bi females have both feelings and desires of their own. They aren't just playthings for someone to try some thing out with.
No absolutely! We are all about total respect and each other's desires by no means would we ever treat anyone as a plaything... Maybe couples is a better option
wheres your other half, on pics OP?
We have pics in private "
thats not going to get you anywhere with single women, we have enough easily available profiles and pics to see, all wanting to meet..my suggestion is that you make some public, you would be more appealing. we dont have time to ask, being honest, youll be passed by because of it, loads..and get a profile pic up..it makes us feel you are fake. i dont ever message anyone with a silhouette as a profile pic..just saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are new to swinging together and are keen to invite a lady to join us primarily for A to explore her bi desires... Is this site the place to find the elusive single females???"
Yes ... single bi females aren't elusive at all .
There are plenty who are just like us , seeing the play as a mutual expression of fun .
Just be wary of those who see themselves as entitled , as they will treat you as performing seals - there just for their amusement .
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It can be yes, however clubs, socials etc are actually a better way to go in many cases as single ladies need to feel secure in the environment and with the couple so meeting them socially and getting to know them and then you helps a lot.
This is the way to go - but also remember that single bi females have both feelings and desires of their own. They aren't just playthings for someone to try some thing out with.
No absolutely! We are all about total respect and each other's desires by no means would we ever treat anyone as a plaything... Maybe couples is a better option
wheres your other half, on pics OP?
We have pics in private thats not going to get you anywhere with single women, we have enough easily available profiles and pics to see, all wanting to meet..my suggestion is that you make some public, you would be more appealing. we dont have time to ask, being honest, youll be passed by because of it, loads..and get a profile pic up..it makes us feel you are fake. i dont ever message anyone with a silhouette as a profile pic..just saying"
Thank you for the advice we are just being cautious initially... We will see if we get any interaction from people for a couple of weeks before we decide further.
We have them in private ready to go but yes we understand single women can pick and choose |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"It can be yes, however clubs, socials etc are actually a better way to go in many cases as single ladies need to feel secure in the environment and with the couple so meeting them socially and getting to know them and then you helps a lot.
This is the way to go - but also remember that single bi females have both feelings and desires of their own. They aren't just playthings for someone to try some thing out with.
No absolutely! We are all about total respect and each other's desires by no means would we ever treat anyone as a plaything... Maybe couples is a better option
wheres your other half, on pics OP?
We have pics in private thats not going to get you anywhere with single women, we have enough easily available profiles and pics to see, all wanting to meet..my suggestion is that you make some public, you would be more appealing. we dont have time to ask, being honest, youll be passed by because of it, loads..and get a profile pic up..it makes us feel you are fake. i dont ever message anyone with a silhouette as a profile pic..just saying
Thank you for the advice we are just being cautious initially... We will see if we get any interaction from people for a couple of weeks before we decide further.
We have them in private ready to go but yes we understand single women can pick and choose"
if you wont take the advice then nothing else to be said..have fun x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It can be yes, however clubs, socials etc are actually a better way to go in many cases as single ladies need to feel secure in the environment and with the couple so meeting them socially and getting to know them and then you helps a lot.
This is the way to go - but also remember that single bi females have both feelings and desires of their own. They aren't just playthings for someone to try some thing out with.
No absolutely! We are all about total respect and each other's desires by no means would we ever treat anyone as a plaything... Maybe couples is a better option
wheres your other half, on pics OP?
We have pics in private thats not going to get you anywhere with single women, we have enough easily available profiles and pics to see, all wanting to meet..my suggestion is that you make some public, you would be more appealing. we dont have time to ask, being honest, youll be passed by because of it, loads..and get a profile pic up..it makes us feel you are fake. i dont ever message anyone with a silhouette as a profile pic..just saying
Thank you for the advice we are just being cautious initially... We will see if we get any interaction from people for a couple of weeks before we decide further.
We have them in private ready to go but yes we understand single women can pick and choose if you wont take the advice then nothing else to be said..have fun x"
We have taken it thank you we just don't feel confident enough yet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If your being cautious, don't put your face pic on show? .. Put them in private and take some other pics for the profile. "
Oh yes that's a good idea x |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"It can be yes, however clubs, socials etc are actually a better way to go in many cases as single ladies need to feel secure in the environment and with the couple so meeting them socially and getting to know them and then you helps a lot.
This is the way to go - but also remember that single bi females have both feelings and desires of their own. They aren't just playthings for someone to try some thing out with.
No absolutely! We are all about total respect and each other's desires by no means would we ever treat anyone as a plaything... Maybe couples is a better option
wheres your other half, on pics OP?
We have pics in private thats not going to get you anywhere with single women, we have enough easily available profiles and pics to see, all wanting to meet..my suggestion is that you make some public, you would be more appealing. we dont have time to ask, being honest, youll be passed by because of it, loads..and get a profile pic up..it makes us feel you are fake. i dont ever message anyone with a silhouette as a profile pic..just saying
Thank you for the advice we are just being cautious initially... We will see if we get any interaction from people for a couple of weeks before we decide further.
We have them in private ready to go but yes we understand single women can pick and choose if you wont take the advice then nothing else to be said..have fun x
We have taken it thank you we just don't feel confident enough yet "
fake it till you make it..well done you ..breathe... you see..no one died xxxx hugs x  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We changed our ethnics from bi lady to couples and bi ladues
And wow we get some many messages aday
Fun friendship and chemistry for us
No notch on stick"
Yeah that's what we want |
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"We are new to swinging together and are keen to invite a lady to join us primarily for A to explore her bi desires... Is this site the place to find the elusive single females???"
Yes there are some lovely single ladies here on Fab who play with couples, make friends with them first & once the trust is there...heaven. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've been here a short time.
And trying to find a naughty female to join us is harder than we thought.
Happy to meet socially too.
Beginning to think it was just us...
Happy not to be alone....lol |
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You guys are limiting your potential meets to just single ladies, couples would bypass you as soon as they see you both want interaction with a female but the male would be left high & dry.
Single ladies are a fantasy for most of us but in real life its a mixture of do they know you, do they trust you enough on their own & mainly do they have an attraction for both of you.
Try clubs as suggested & keep it cool when you do meet a lady because the last thing you want it to make her feel like she is just a trophy or fetish you want to experiment with...remember single ladies have feeling too.
I find just talking & maybe socialising a few times works as the last thing you want to do is act like a bull in a china shop & scare them away as soon as you meet. |
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