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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it still a hushed word these days. A lot of people use fab solely for one offs almost to scratch an itch...so...why not enrol the help of a professional where NSA REALLY means NSA..
People say "I'd never pay for sex" but you do sometimes..hotel room. Drinks, travel etc. I mean I adore huge breasts..I've looked on line and you can now select from a wide array of escorts of all shapes and sizes..if you are after a genuine NSA one off...isn't it a logical answer? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess a lot of people would rather pay for a room for somebody that like's them than a pay a woman who's just fucking you for money, plus you may still need to get a room anyway 
On here is real no strings anyway
I don't accommodate, I never give my phone number out so after I have met they have no way of contacting me besides on here and you can easily block if they get a pain |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can see why some guys Do it but not the same much better to meet someone who wants fun not just money and you have fab there is someone for everyone here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it still a hushed word these days. A lot of people use fab solely for one offs almost to scratch an itch...so...why not enrol the help of a professional where NSA REALLY means NSA..
People say they never pay for sex" but you do sometimes..hotel room. Drinks, travel etc. I mean I adore huge breasts..I've looked on line and you can now select from a wide array of escorts of all shapes and sizes..if you are after a genuine NSA one off...isn't it a logical answer?"
Do you class travel costs to a meet and the cost of a hotel or the cost of the entrance fee to clubs that off a social scene where likeminded adults can interact and indulge if they desire as paying for sex...
You could say I am paying my employer to go to work as I have to put fuel in the car..
You have to spend money in life to get everywhere these days but it doesn't mean your intestinally paying for sex and being honest I don't think females here who have met in hotels as such would like to be put in that category of feeling guy is buying their services through hotels and fab.
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I know couples who have paid for a 'professional' when taking their first steps into threesomes or bi play. They wanted someone who knew what they were doing and who wouldn't attach any sneaky strings after the fact.
I see nothing wrong with this whatsoever and have a good friend who is keen to get into this line of work in the future |
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Not really - The fun for me is giving pleasure that is genuinely recieved and reciprocated. If the other person doesn't GENUINELY spark it doesn't work. My fear is that an escort would primarily be in it for the cash. I think I would spend the next month genuinely depressed after hiring one.....
"Is it still a hushed word these days. A lot of people use fab solely for one offs almost to scratch an itch...so...why not enrol the help of a professional where NSA REALLY means NSA..
People say "I'd never pay for sex" but you do sometimes..hotel room. Drinks, travel etc. I mean I adore huge breasts..I've looked on line and you can now select from a wide array of escorts of all shapes and sizes..if you are after a genuine NSA one off...isn't it a logical answer?"
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men always pay for it wether married or a one off in a bar... fact of life....the best fuck i ever had with my wife was the night after she got her new car...the best BJ was in Chelsea Boutique 5 minutes before I paid for some outfit....the best early morning fucks always seemed prior to her going shopping for the day with my credit card..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do this for my pleasure. Escorts do it for money so it would be like going to work
I would be going to work if you charged "
Which hotel we getting lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm merely putting forward the idea that escorts and the idea of paying for sex may still have an outdated image...
When we are hungry we can go out for lovely meal, everything is done for you and you return satisfied without a single dish to wash..it's an effective satisfying service that we could do ourselves!
Also we can presume they all lay back and think of England, many may have turned a passion into a living..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do this for my pleasure. Escorts do it for money so it would be like going to work
I would be going to work if you charged
Which hotel we getting lol"
How much you paying 
(That was a joke before anybody reports me ) |
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"Not really - The fun for me is giving pleasure that is genuinely recieved and reciprocated. If the other person doesn't GENUINELY spark it doesn't work. My fear is that an escort would primarily be in it for the cash. I think I would spend the next month genuinely depressed after hiring one.....
Nail on the head!!
Is it still a hushed word these days. A lot of people use fab solely for one offs almost to scratch an itch...so...why not enrol the help of a professional where NSA REALLY means NSA..
People say "I'd never pay for sex" but you do sometimes..hotel room. Drinks, travel etc. I mean I adore huge breasts..I've looked on line and you can now select from a wide array of escorts of all shapes and sizes..if you are after a genuine NSA one off...isn't it a logical answer?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do this for my pleasure. Escorts do it for money so it would be like going to work
I would be going to work if you charged
Which hotel we getting lol
How much you paying
(That was a joke before anybody reports me )"
Check out my pm I sent you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree - it's not about being a cheapskate, it's just different when there is a contract for someone to make you feel good, rather than doing it mutually out of friendship. Even on fab, it's a bit dismal if its just sex and no human engagement. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know couples who have paid for a 'professional' when taking their first steps into threesomes or bi play. They wanted someone who knew what they were doing and who wouldn't attach any sneaky strings after the fact.
I see nothing wrong with this whatsoever and have a good friend who is keen to get into this line of work in the future "
At the risk of sounding patronising, what a very sensible reply.
We have never done it, but if there was something we specifically wanted to try and we couldn't find the right person on Fab we wouldn't hesitate to hire an escort |
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The cost I think is irrelevant. I'm not guaranteed any form of "play" when I go out, and play a lot less than the times that I do! - however if I do, then I sleep tight in the satisfaction that the person(s) I played with, did so because they wanted to.
I'm not knocking it, but personally it's not something I'd consider now. I have considered it in the past and see nothing wrong with it, but it's not for me.
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"I know couples who have paid for a 'professional' when taking their first steps into threesomes or bi play. They wanted someone who knew what they were doing and who wouldn't attach any sneaky strings after the fact.
I see nothing wrong with this whatsoever and have a good friend who is keen to get into this line of work in the future
At the risk of sounding patronising, what a very sensible reply.
We have never done it, but if there was something we specifically wanted to try and we couldn't find the right person on Fab we wouldn't hesitate to hire an escort"
We considered an escort before we tried swinging. In hindsight I'm glad we didn't. I actually think it would have ruined it for us.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think a lot of people on this site do not have a deep powerful collision of souls...as much as they think they do...sex is the agenda...if not there's far better sites for the other perks...
Over the years I've used fab I've not once thought of using it to find a soulmate..
I've had some amazing sexual experiences but i think some people like to elevate themselves above what the site is aimed for and worse some people try and use the elevation as pulling aid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well i've never used an escort but have thought about it and don't see a problem with it at all. A friend of mine used a ts escorts and highly recomended her! |
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By *pal2Man
over a year ago
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With escorts its sex for cash not for fun un and charge by the hour and I dont want to keep watching the clock, very offputting.
I did have a relationship with an escort and shw was a singer before she became an escort. other than that too impersonal and escorts are often hardened in their attitude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No because anyone who charges for sex will see it primarily as a commercial transaction and probably won't really have their heart in it. They also presably will be timing everything, so no thanks
Would never pay for sex in any way |
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I (mr) used to date an escort & never had an issue with her work. (What we do for a living should not necessarily define who we are as a person) both flirty & I have thought about using an escort for our first ffm as it's an easier option in many ways. We also both have loads of fantasies about being paid for sex. So escorts provide a really good service in our view and could help many people fulfil fantasies |
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I can see where the idea came from. But I like to take time when I'm with someone. Sharing pleasure and exploring. I would have pleasure to pocket ratio in my head if I was paying by the hour. Plus I would then be rushing to get to the finish line before I bankrupted myself. Strangely enough I think I'd actually feel dirty!! Lol
Nah it's not the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On here we give it away for free while a escort charges ,,and people think that escorts don't get pleasure from there job were in fact most do ,also it's mainly married men and business men who go to escorts with the same excuses that you get on here from men ... |
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"On here we give it away for free while a escort charges ,,and people think that escorts don't get pleasure from there job were in fact most do ,also it's mainly married men and business men who go to escorts with the same excuses that you get on here from men ..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I believe anything you do for money becomes a job... My views of escorts goes something like this.
I love to cook every Sunday for my friends and family I do that from the heart.
Now if I decide to cook at a restaurant every Sunday that becomes a job...
I really couldn't see myself working at McDonald's for 8 hours, then come home and have hamburgers for dinner....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a significant number of swingers on Fab who are also sex workers. There is no hard dividing line between the two worlds."
Aside from one being a commercial transaction you mean  |
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By *pal2Man
over a year ago
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Agree with others that an escort is a commercial transaction and not 'free' sex but nothing in life is really free and escorts could be cheaper than dating and definitely cheaper than a divorce.
The other thing aboout escorts is that even fugly men can fook a 'stunner' whereas he'd get nothing on here. |
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"is it allowed to ask for expenses ...ie share costs ? petrol hotel etc ?"
I don't see why not Hun at all. I openly admit I do escort jobs from other sites. Fab is for my fun for me escort jobs business a job. A lot have a moral issue with meeting random strangers for sex but is that not exactly what you do on fab? Escort clients are usually nice clean well presented guys they use the service because it saves them time to effect it's like a takeaway menu. Escort operating on a site like fab and if they are asking for money well that's just wrong. But think about it logical you spend money to go to a sex club or sauna so in effect your paying for it there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it still a hushed word these days. A lot of people use fab solely for one offs almost to scratch an itch...so...why not enrol the help of a professional where NSA REALLY means NSA..
People say "I'd never pay for sex" but you do sometimes..hotel room. Drinks, travel etc. I mean I adore huge breasts..I've looked on line and you can now select from a wide array of escorts of all shapes and sizes..if you are after a genuine NSA one off...isn't it a logical answer?"
I do fully admit I pay for sex in the terms of buying a woman drinks and a hotel room etc, but I feel that's treating them and showing that I like their company. Paying for sex in like £30 for a BJ, or £50 for full sex is one thing I would not do this is because the greatest reward for sex is mutual enjoyment, I don't want someone to touch me that way if they are just doing it for the money I want them to enjoy it for what it is. As for my company I want the lady to enjoy spending time with me, if I can provide a venue and refreshments I feel the women do it not because they get a free drink or a hotel room for a few hours, but because they like me. What lady would be so crazy as to make the effort to leave their nice warm house and travel at their own expense only to have a drink and use of a hotel for a few hours, without the added incentive of actually getting to know someone?
So I feel the OP has a very interpretation of what paying for sex means than I have. Unlike the OP I don't think getting a hotel room etc is paying for sex, it's getting to know someone - You could broaden this by saying anyone who pays to get in to a swingers club is really paying for sex for example. What I won't do is to pay for someones company, in that way, who's main aim is to earn some money rather than enjoy my company.
Each to their own though - I do support people right's not to think like me and if two or more people wish to exchange sex for money I support their right to do so, it's just not for me however.
And if you want NSA sex there's lots of clubs and people who want NSA on this site |
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I'm with current times, I like to split the cost, we're both there because we both wanted to meet, so I'm not going to expect the man to pay for everything. I've never had a hotel meet but if I did I would either go halves or buy food, depending on what the plan is. So either I'm with the times or just become so independent that I don't want to rely on a man. |
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Well yes we don't walk round with a price list on our backs. Fab we use for people we want to meet as even we need a sex life. Those that use fab to charge are crossing the line it's not fair on people and is unethical report anyone who wants to charge on a fab meet. |
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