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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How hard is it to even get a wink never mind a fab or friend request. What I'm I doing wrong a little help ladies x"
Serious profile redo needed!! Cant say anymore!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP if you would like specific help on your profile you need to ask for it here, otherwise we can't give tips etc (forum rules)
But in general I would say to have a little patience, you've only been here two weeks
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In all honesty I don't know where to begin with your profile. At every point, from the status you posted earlier today, to your profile pictures, I get the impression at you don't really understand what turns women on or what the swing scene is all about. Also the one sentence you write in your profile doesn't make sense, and nowhere do you say what you have to offer. What would you say is tempting about your profile if you were woman? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Nothing at all it was a quick message when I joined and yes am new to the scene so that's why am a amateur at this game and may come across as not having a clue coz in all honesty I don't cheers for feedback |
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"Thanks am starting to realise my mistake and I have to actually put effort in to get some back."
You do I'm afraid. If you were a woman it wouldn't be an issue,but you're a guy and there's lots of you on here  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all for you're input it's made me think what I need to do differently an don't treat the site as I can say whatever it just don't work like that Iv updated my profile apart from pics as I don't know what else to do other than put my face in them.if you lovely people could take alook annd let me know if it's improved thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How hard is it to even get a wink never mind a fab or friend request. What I'm I doing wrong a little help ladies x"
Move to Leicester, Shaz could help you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you all for you're input it's made me think what I need to do differently an don't treat the site as I can say whatever it just don't work like that Iv updated my profile apart from pics as I don't know what else to do other than put my face in them.if you lovely people could take alook annd let me know if it's improved thank you"
Ok your profile reads very very badly, and I don't quite understand what you are trying to say at one point. Hate to sound like an English teacher but you really need to check the grammar and typos, as you would if you were applying for a job. You are waffling a lot and repeating yourself. Many people on this site judge intelligence by how well a profile is written.
I would not put too much emphasis on your lack of experience on the scene. Just say what you are up for and that will be sufficient. That's good that you mention your fantasies, but put some emphasis on what you have to offer. Remember couples will not be interested in what you want - you will be the one that they are inviting to join them, so it will be about you can do to realise their fantasies.
With regards to photos you can do a lot better to sell yourself. Take a look a profile picture of men who are well verified and see what sort of pics they show. That might give you some ideas. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As said above, you meed to redo your profile. Don't have so many dick pics up. People don't necissarily like them. Also your profile text needs some work. Space it out a little and condense the imformation. Five words can hold more meaning then 10. Also I'm dyslexic, so having your written text so cramped up made it pretty hard for me to read. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My two top tips. And I'm actually not taking the piss.
1. Put your cock away.
2. Be nice to people.
It still might take time but this is a good basis to work from. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Remember couples will not be interested in what you want - you will be the one that they are inviting to join them, so it will be about you can do to realise their fantasies.
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Surely he is inviting couples to join him too? It's not a one way street
OP just put a bit about you, what you're looking for and what you offer.... and maybe cut back on the dick pics hehe
Keep it simple, and good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Remember couples will not be interested in what you want - you will be the one that they are inviting to join them, so it will be about you can do to realise their fantasies.
Surely he is inviting couples to join him too? It's not a one way street "
Our experience on the swing scene is that the dynamic with couple play with single men, is that it does start off as a bit of a one-way street, with a focus on what the single man can do to add kink to a couple's marriage. I'm not saying that's right, and certainly as friendship develops the balance equalises. But it's just my observation. Could be wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your grammar and spelling needs serious attention. Your profile text is not appealing. You are competing against many men with better profiles.
Please limit the number of cock shots - and don't leave your socks on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your expecting a result or a reward to justify using the site and reassure you you have 'something' or you think a message/wink will directly lead to a fuck. Either will only stress you out.
Imagine fab like a bar.
With 3 girls.
And 3000 horny men.
How would you try to talk to that girl??
What's the chances you even would?...
Would you desperately try to..or enjoy your drink and see if your eyes met at some point? |
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