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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was wondering what people's views are on stretch marks... I'm so conscious of mine and didn't know whether they disgust people or whether I'm just being stupid! Hubby loves them which is all I really care about but I wouldn't want to gross someone out if I were to meet them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love Strech marks!!  sign of a real woman!! X"
I never get comments like this. What makes a woman real? Really baffles me.
IMO there's nothing wrong with stretch marks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got them, don't exactly love them, but they're part of the imperfect patchwork of wobbly bits, squishy bits and stuff that isn't picture prefect that makes up me as a whole. |
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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago
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I'm very conscious of mine too but the vast majority of women who've had kids have them to a greater or lesser degree and we have to keep reminding ourselves that we've bloody well earned them! Most people understand that as very few of us are perfect and I'd be astonished if those rude enough to actually convey being 'grossed out' about something so natural are immaculate specimens either. Overall, you've got a great looking body ... a smattering of stretch marks should be irrelevant 
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"I was wondering what people's views are on stretch marks... I'm so conscious of mine and didn't know whether they disgust people or whether I'm just being stupid! Hubby loves them which is all I really care about but I wouldn't want to gross someone out if I were to meet them!"
OP you look great in your pics, I'm sure they are more obvious to you than anyone else in the world. I doubt a few stretch marks are going to bother anyone lucky enough to play with you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm very conscious of mine too but the vast majority of women who've had kids have them to a greater or lesser degree and we have to keep reminding ourselves that we've bloody well earned them! Most people understand that as very few of us are perfect and I'd be astonished if those rude enough to actually convey being 'grossed out' about something so natural are immaculate specimens either. Overall, you've got a great looking body ... a smattering of stretch marks should be irrelevant
Ms G"
Thank you, I guess I'm still getting used to them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was wondering what people's views are on stretch marks... I'm so conscious of mine and didn't know whether they disgust people or whether I'm just being stupid! Hubby loves them which is all I really care about but I wouldn't want to gross someone out if I were to meet them!
OP you look great in your pics, I'm sure they are more obvious to you than anyone else in the world. I doubt a few stretch marks are going to bother anyone lucky enough to play with you. "
Thank you, I think I am just really conscious of them as it takes some getting used to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love Strech marks!! sign of a real woman!! X
So women who can't have children or don't have children aren't really women in your opinion? What a stupid fucking comment."
I don't think that's what they meant - I think that's a bit of an overreaction particularly as this thread is about stretchmarks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was fortunate enough never to have had them through pregnancy..
All I have are very very small ones at the tops of my legs which are only noticeable to me .. And that's bad enough  |
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"Love Strech marks!! sign of a real woman!! X
So women who can't have children or don't have children aren't really women in your opinion? What a stupid fucking comment.
I don't think that's what they meant - I think that's a bit of an overreaction particularly as this thread is about stretchmarks!"
I thought this too  |
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"Love Strech marks!! sign of a real woman!! X
So women who can't have children or don't have children aren't really women in your opinion? What a stupid fucking comment."
The the guy was just trying to pay a complement and make the op feel better and I'm sure he had not meant for it to insult anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really really dislike mine! Not as much as I did but still prefer to cover my tum with lingerie for a meet, thr boss isnt bothered by them at all they're from growing his 4 babirs anyway so its tough haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stretch marks are just part of the human body, no different to a mole or a scar from an operation or injury. As others have said, more noticeable to you op than anyone else I'm sure. I doubt anyone would take notice in a play situation as their mind would be elsewhere!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love Strech marks!! sign of a real woman!! X
So women who can't have children or don't have children aren't really women in your opinion? What a stupid fucking comment."
Personally, I think it is your comment that is the stupid one. The guy was merely paying a compliment, not suggesting a woman without stretch marks is in any way inferior. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love Strech marks!! sign of a real woman!! X
So women who can't have children or don't have children aren't really women in your opinion? What a stupid fucking comment."
I know women with no kids who have stretch marks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex wife has really bad stretch marks and I was the only person she ever allowed to see her tummy. It made me feel special and I used to call it my comfort blanket. They are just part of being a woman, and many men get them too. I certainly wouldn't be put off by them and I certainly wouldn't make reference to them during a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like mine, I've had three sections one of my pregnancies were twin so my belly's been through the mill, I have a lot of stretch marks, a thick scare from the sections and it saggy
I always try to keep it covered even when having sex but as much as I hate it I think I view it a lot worse than other people do because when people have seen it nobodies ever got dressed and run off
We always see our faults worse than other people do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They're just a natural part of life. I definitely wouldn't worry about them. And I certainly wouldn't be put off in the slightest by them.
Mums who have them it's just a sign of beauty that you have brought a life into the world.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love Strech marks!! sign of a real woman!! X
So women who can't have children or don't have children aren't really women in your opinion? What a stupid fucking comment."
Wow.. So much anger in one comment!  |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"Love Strech marks!! sign of a real woman!! X
So women who can't have children or don't have children aren't really women in your opinion? What a stupid fucking comment.
Wow.. So much anger in one comment! "
Some couples are struggling with childlessness and comments like this can be really upsetting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love Strech marks!! sign of a real woman!! X
So women who can't have children or don't have children aren't really women in your opinion? What a stupid fucking comment.
Wow.. So much anger in one comment!
Some couples are struggling with childlessness and comments like this can be really upsetting. "
Stretch marks aren't just about kids though
Many women who have never had kids have stretch marks
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love Strech marks!! sign of a real woman!! X
So women who can't have children or don't have children aren't really women in your opinion? What a stupid fucking comment.
Wow.. So much anger in one comment!
Some couples are struggling with childlessness and comments like this can be really upsetting.
Stretch marks aren't just about kids though
Many women who have never had kids have stretch marks
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True! I got a few tiny silver ones at the sides of my boobs when I was a teenager x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't think the comment deserved such a harsh reply. ... all women are real ... stretch marks or no stretch marks but obviously touches a nerve on something maybe a little too close to your heart x |
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"Don't think the comment deserved such a harsh reply. ... all women are real ... stretch marks or no stretch marks but obviously touches a nerve on something maybe a little too close to your heart x"
Just doesn't make sense, you aren't a real woman unless you have been pregnant. Women aren't baby making machines. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't think the comment deserved such a harsh reply. ... all women are real ... stretch marks or no stretch marks but obviously touches a nerve on something maybe a little too close to your heart x
Just doesn't make sense, you aren't a real woman unless you have been pregnant. Women aren't baby making machines."
The original comment never said anything about babies?? And as others above have said, women get stretch marks whether pregnant or not. The OP was just trying to make someone feel better. There's so much anger and vitriol in the forums lately that a seemingly innocent comment gets slated. It's not a nice place to be lately x |
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I looked a lot better without stretch marks. I keep my top on but only take it off if the man I meet wants me to.
I noticed in one of my photos which isn't on here that my stretch marks looked ugly, I don't worry about what people I meet think though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have a view on them. When I meet a woman with stretch marks I savour them as part of the person that they are and the full life that they have lived. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stretch marks are just part of the human body, no different to a mole or a scar from an operation or injury. As others have said, more noticeable to you op than anyone else I'm sure. I doubt anyone would take notice in a play situation as their mind would be elsewhere! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was wondering what people's views are on stretch marks... I'm so conscious of mine and didn't know whether they disgust people or whether I'm just being stupid! Hubby loves them which is all I really care about but I wouldn't want to gross someone out if I were to meet them!"
Totally don't mind stretch marks st all. We're all beautiful in my eyes... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes stretch marks don't bother me either it means she's a real women!
So wouldn't you meet a woman who didn't have any because she wouldn't be a real woman?"
no I mean most women have had children in there life just saying that's all ps I meet any lady. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got loads no ones ever said anything !!!! I've had kids ! I'm sure almost all people have them !
If someone doesn't like them then that's their problem , nothing can do about them !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love Strech marks!! sign of a real woman!! X
So women who can't have children or don't have children aren't really women in your opinion? What a stupid fucking comment.
The the guy was just trying to pay a complement and make the op feel better and I'm sure he had not meant for it to insult anyone"
Totally agree |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"I've got them, don't exactly love them, but they're part of the imperfect patchwork of wobbly bits, squishy bits and stuff that isn't picture prefect that makes up me as a whole. "
I think that's an excellent description.. Well said.
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Can we please drop the 'real women' line? I get that it's intended to be a body positive comment towards those who don't fit into the classic media portrayal of beauty and that's great! However it's actually really damaging and conversely body shaming to those who naturally don't have 'curves' / big boobs / stretch marks / freckles or any myriad other attributes traditionally considered to be negative. 'you're a fake woman if you don't have these things'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can we please drop the 'real women' line? I get that it's intended to be a body positive comment towards those who don't fit into the classic media portrayal of beauty and that's great! However it's actually really damaging and conversely body shaming to those who naturally don't have 'curves' / big boobs / stretch marks / freckles or any myriad other attributes traditionally considered to be negative. 'you're a fake woman if you don't have these things'."
Everybody has their own idea of what a real woman is though
Some men think big women are real women some men think slim women are real women, stretch marks have nothing to do with size any size woman can have stretch marks but if somebody's idea of a real woman is one with stretch marks surely that's for them to decide and say
Why do we have the rights to dictate what others see as real woman And why are they not allowed to voice that opinion
Everybody's going to get offended over something, if you only said stuff that didn't offend anybody you'd never bloody talk |
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Crazy idea, but how about they just refer to them as 'women' then? Take that word 'real' and put it back on the shelf and bring it out when referring to ale. Obviously not to be used when talking about that 'fake ale'. |
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"Can we please drop the 'real women' line? I get that it's intended to be a body positive comment towards those who don't fit into the classic media portrayal of beauty and that's great! However it's actually really damaging and conversely body shaming to those who naturally don't have 'curves' / big boobs / stretch marks / freckles or any myriad other attributes traditionally considered to be negative. 'you're a fake woman if you don't have these things'."
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"Love Strech marks!! sign of a real woman!! X
So women who can't have children or don't have children aren't really women in your opinion? What a stupid fucking comment.
The the guy was just trying to pay a complement and make the op feel better and I'm sure he had not meant for it to insult anyone
Totally agree"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Crazy idea, but how about they just refer to them as 'women' then? Take that word 'real' and put it back on the shelf and bring it out when referring to ale. Obviously not to be used when talking about that 'fake ale'. "
Maybe poor choice of words
When I see guys put thats a real woman I just take that as them meaning that type of woman is my type not them meaning every other woman is not a real woman
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"Love Strech marks!! sign of a real woman!! X
So women who can't have children or don't have children aren't really women in your opinion? What a stupid fucking comment.
Wow.. So much anger in one comment!
Some couples are struggling with childlessness and comments like this can be really upsetting. "
Stretchmarks are not inherently tied up with children. Woman and men get stretchmarks through both weighloss and gain. So you found something in the comment that wasn't there. |
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"Crazy idea, but how about they just refer to them as 'women' then? Take that word 'real' and put it back on the shelf and bring it out when referring to ale. Obviously not to be used when talking about that 'fake ale'.
Maybe poor choice of words
When I see guys put thats a real woman I just take that as them meaning that type of woman is my type not them meaning every other woman is not a real woman
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Then maybe we need to encourage a change in how we use language that could be damaging to others
'Now that's my kind of woman!' works much better to me
Yay inclusiveness! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Crazy idea, but how about they just refer to them as 'women' then? Take that word 'real' and put it back on the shelf and bring it out when referring to ale. Obviously not to be used when talking about that 'fake ale'.
Maybe poor choice of words
When I see guys put thats a real woman I just take that as them meaning that type of woman is my type not them meaning every other woman is not a real woman
Then maybe we need to encourage a change in how we use language that could be damaging to others
'Now that's my kind of woman!' works much better to me
Yay inclusiveness! "
There's never going to be a day when something we say will not be damaging to somebody
Everything you say will be taken offensively by somebody |
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"Crazy idea, but how about they just refer to them as 'women' then? Take that word 'real' and put it back on the shelf and bring it out when referring to ale. Obviously not to be used when talking about that 'fake ale'.
Maybe poor choice of words
When I see guys put thats a real woman I just take that as them meaning that type of woman is my type not them meaning every other woman is not a real woman
Then maybe we need to encourage a change in how we use language that could be damaging to others
'Now that's my kind of woman!' works much better to me
Yay inclusiveness!
There's never going to be a day when something we say will not be damaging to somebody
Everything you say will be taken offensively by somebody "
Try being a single man on fab with lit offending someone! |
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"I was wondering what people's views are on stretch marks... I'm so conscious of mine and didn't know whether they disgust people or whether I'm just being stupid! Hubby loves them which is all I really care about but I wouldn't want to gross someone out if I were to meet them!"
There are very few people on this planet without them, it's all down to genetics.
If they make some people feel disgusted, I'd be gobsmacked. |
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"Tiger scratches from being a real woman and havering a kid or more.
Never botherd me in the slightest.
I wouldn't turn you down because of them x"
You don't have to be a mother to have stretch marks, nor does being a mother make you a real woman. |
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"Tiger scratches from being a real woman and havering a kid or more.
Never botherd me in the slightest.
I wouldn't turn you down because of them x
You don't have to be a mother to have stretch marks, nor does being a mother make you a real woman."
Fair point . I'll go sit in the corner and be quiet now lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Crazy idea, but how about they just refer to them as 'women' then? Take that word 'real' and put it back on the shelf and bring it out when referring to ale. Obviously not to be used when talking about that 'fake ale'. "
or how about you don't be so touchy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got quite a few myself as a result of my previous lifelong excessive weight that are becoming less and less noticeable over time as the skin tightens up.
I must admit I'm not really that bothered as i think in terms of how much things have improved and not how imperfect things are.
I wouldn't say I'm massively body confident but having gone to a gym for the last five years where everyone changes communally and spending a few days at a Spanish nudist beach last year has really made me feel a lot more confident and now I really don't care.. I'll fling it off at the drop of a hat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was wondering what people's views are on stretch marks... I'm so conscious of mine and didn't know whether they disgust people or whether I'm just being stupid! Hubby loves them which is all I really care about but I wouldn't want to gross someone out if I were to meet them!"
If you are really that self conscious that you are really worried about a few stretch marks then meeting is going to be really traumatic for you. Work on your self confidence first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've even met men with stretch marks "
hah! Shouldn't admit it but I have them. In my late teens I had a growth spurt that gave me them (9% body fat at the time too!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love Strech marks!! sign of a real woman!! X
So women who can't have children or don't have children aren't really women in your opinion? What a stupid fucking comment.
Wow.. So much anger in one comment!
Some couples are struggling with childlessness and comments like this can be really upsetting. "
I think the point was that lots of media pictures would airbrush stretch marks as an imperfection and the person is trying to say that stretch marks are a natural part of many people's lives and therefore they look more relatable.
As for the people talking about them being amazing - get real. |
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"Love Strech marks!! sign of a real woman!! X"
Odd I know lots of people with stretch marks both male and female, its pretty common with obesity.
Also know lots of women who have kids, yet have no stretch marks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love Strech marks!! sign of a real woman!! X
So women who can't have children or don't have children aren't really women in your opinion? What a stupid fucking comment.
Wow.. So much anger in one comment!
Some couples are struggling with childlessness and comments like this can be really upsetting.
I think the point was that lots of media pictures would airbrush stretch marks as an imperfection and the person is trying to say that stretch marks are a natural part of many people's lives and therefore they look more relatable.
As for the people talking about them being amazing - get real. "
You know these white knights will say anything  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love Strech marks!! sign of a real woman!! X
So women who can't have children or don't have children aren't really women in your opinion? What a stupid fucking comment.
Wow.. So much anger in one comment!
Some couples are struggling with childlessness and comments like this can be really upsetting.
I think the point was that lots of media pictures would airbrush stretch marks as an imperfection and the person is trying to say that stretch marks are a natural part of many people's lives and therefore they look more relatable.
As for the people talking about them being amazing - get real.
You know these white knights will say anything "
I bet if I said the Mrs was insecure about her ear lobes then some moron would come on here talking about he's the president of the south east ear lobe appreciation society. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I was wondering what people's views are on stretch marks... I'm so conscious of mine and didn't know whether they disgust people or whether I'm just being stupid! Hubby loves them which is all I really care about but I wouldn't want to gross someone out if I were to meet them!
If you are really that self conscious that you are really worried about a few stretch marks then meeting is going to be really traumatic for you. Work on your self confidence first."
I've already had a couple of meets but it's just something in the back of my mind. I wouldn't say they were traumatic! it's just I feel a little bit conscious of them being naked in front of someone new for the first time - just wanted other people's views |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was wondering what people's views are on stretch marks... I'm so conscious of mine and didn't know whether they disgust people or whether I'm just being stupid! Hubby loves them which is all I really care about but I wouldn't want to gross someone out if I were to meet them!
If you are really that self conscious that you are really worried about a few stretch marks then meeting is going to be really traumatic for you. Work on your self confidence first.
I've already had a couple of meets but it's just something in the back of my mind. I wouldn't say they were traumatic! it's just I feel a little bit conscious of them being naked in front of someone new for the first time - just wanted other people's views"
Ok well my views are that i think of them as insignificant. I don't notice mine or other people's that's why I'm surprised when people worry about such things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well sirlust seems to have a problem with them... Hasn't even seen them and decides a polite no thanks means he can make a dig... Really mature!"
It's nice that he validated you making the correct decision then! |
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"Love Strech marks!! sign of a real woman!! X
So women who can't have children or don't have children aren't really women in your opinion? What a stupid fucking comment.
Wow.. So much anger in one comment!
Some couples are struggling with childlessness and comments like this can be really upsetting.
I think the point was that lots of media pictures would airbrush stretch marks as an imperfection and the person is trying to say that stretch marks are a natural part of many people's lives and therefore they look more relatable.
As for the people talking about them being amazing - get real.
You know these white knights will say anything
I bet if I said the Mrs was insecure about her ear lobes then some moron would come on here talking about he's the president of the south east ear lobe appreciation society. "
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By *s1981Couple
over a year ago
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"Love Strech marks!! sign of a real woman!! X
So women who can't have children or don't have children aren't really women in your opinion? What a stupid fucking comment."
So you can only get stretch marks through pregnancy? Now that's a stupid fucking comment. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"Love Strech marks!! sign of a real woman!! X
So women who can't have children or don't have children aren't really women in your opinion? What a stupid fucking comment.
So you can only get stretch marks through pregnancy? Now that's a stupid fucking comment."
No, but I'm pretty sure that's what the OP was talking about, and what the "real women" comment was about. |
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Not an issue. None of us are like the airbrushed images seen in photos. If you have them then I'm sure no one needs to either focus on them or comment. It's all part of life and maturing. You look great to me. Be proud of who you are. |
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"Love Strech marks!! sign of a real woman!! X
So women who can't have children or don't have children aren't really women in your opinion? What a stupid fucking comment.
So you can only get stretch marks through pregnancy? Now that's a stupid fucking comment.
No, but I'm pretty sure that's what the OP was talking about, and what the "real women" comment was about. "
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By *at-cWoman
over a year ago
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I hate that initial moment with someone new when they are seen for the first time. This is my issue, no one has ever reacted in a negative way, in fact no one ever has any kind of reaction to them at all until I draw attention to them trying to hide them or being self conscious about them. Usually I get told 'shuuuut up and get over here'!
Go for it and remember they are only a minor part of the full package you bring to a meet. |
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