Who doesn't get this request to be 'imaginative' on profiles?
I mean sex isn't really an art that one gets imaginative about is it, I mean not properly imaginative, then basically you're just writing porn.
So to me it is like you are asking me to write some porn for you. |
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"It's all about seduction  If that's not an art I don't know what is  "
The art of seduction is the highest art, true. But isn't swinging about 'skipping to the good bit' and we're beyond all that need to seduce each other etc? |
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over a year ago
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"It's all about seduction If that's not an art I don't know what is
The art of seduction is the highest art, true. But isn't swinging about 'skipping to the good bit' and we're beyond all that need to seduce each other etc?"
I can't just get on and fuck someone I have no attraction to. Sometimes it is purely physical. Other times it us about what they can do to turn on my mind. For some people the mind is the biggest factor! |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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"Who doesn't get this request to be 'imaginative' on profiles?
I mean sex isn't really an art that one gets imaginative about is it, I mean not properly imaginative, then basically you're just writing porn.
So to me it is like you are asking me to write some porn for you."
For me, it's all about imagination. Thinking of new ways to do new things to each other. Straightforward getting down to it, just doesn't do it for me. |
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"It's all about seduction If that's not an art I don't know what is
The art of seduction is the highest art, true. But isn't swinging about 'skipping to the good bit' and we're beyond all that need to seduce each other etc?"
You are completely negating the art of seduction which you say you praise. It is part of the fun. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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You seem to get a lot of 'eccentric' profiles from forum users trying to use humour etc but not necessarily successful. I think just portraying your own interests and bit of personality is the way. You still have to let people be aware of boundaries etc to stop them wasting yours or their time. |
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"It's all about seduction If that's not an art I don't know what is
The art of seduction is the highest art, true. But isn't swinging about 'skipping to the good bit' and we're beyond all that need to seduce each other etc?"
The seduction is the good bit. |
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"Who doesn't get this request to be 'imaginative' on profiles?
I mean sex isn't really an art that one gets imaginative about is it, I mean not properly imaginative, then basically you're just writing porn.
So to me it is like you are asking me to write some porn for you."
I am a very imaginative creative artist, a musician and writer but I just seem to go blank or just totally crude when in this situation, which I don't see as a personal failing. Does anyone else understand what I am trying to say?
Can someone post an example of this 'imaginative' kind of message that they are hoping for? |
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"Who doesn't get this request to be 'imaginative' on profiles?
I mean sex isn't really an art that one gets imaginative about is it, I mean not properly imaginative, then basically you're just writing porn.
So to me it is like you are asking me to write some porn for you."
I'm a creative seducer with my dancing, also how I touch a woman. I think it would be quite nice to see some original erotic literature basically in a message. |
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"It's all about seduction If that's not an art I don't know what is
The art of seduction is the highest art, true. But isn't swinging about 'skipping to the good bit' and we're beyond all that need to seduce each other etc?"
It is for some and not for others. If you want to meet people who just want to "skip to the good bit" say so  .
It's just that for some the definition of the "good bit" is different to yours. |
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"It's all about seduction If that's not an art I don't know what is
The art of seduction is the highest art, true. But isn't swinging about 'skipping to the good bit' and we're beyond all that need to seduce each other etc?
It is for some and not for others. If you want to meet people who just want to "skip to the good bit" say so .
It's just that for some the definition of the "good bit" is different to yours. "
You're right of course, sorry I was interpreting my feelings wrongly, it is hard to put it into words, I just go blank I.guess. |
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I think part of the problem is that I get so little sex at present that I have become inarticulate and twisted, and I don't really have anything to talk about. Oh I had a great wank last night isn't very exciting. |
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I'm an out swinger on the frontline, manning the barricades against the encroaches of prudity, inhibitedness, and sexual negativity, or trying my best anyway. Anyone like to join me? There's gold in them thar hills |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The competition on here is pretty fierce I know I'd pick someone with a well written profile over someone with two or three words in the text.
It's the best way to sell your product!  |
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