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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering when a single guys meets a couple. Do you prefer if the hubby/bf just watches or joins in. Spit roast etc."
Join. No one should be left out. It's more fun when every body is involved.  |
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By *andhCouple
over a year ago
Ilford |
I do join in at some point. Depending on who we are meeting.
With our ex long term I wouldn't join in until after he had cum. Which would usually be a long time!
With our recent meets I have joined in after penetration has taken place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only had one MFM, and the hubby watched to start with, then joined in after a while. It worked pretty well as it gave me and the wife some time to "get to know each other" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering when a single guys meets a couple. Do you prefer if the hubby/bf just watches or joins in. Spit roast etc."
Get him to pop out for a pint x |
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Bit of both for me, I love watching, but also get involved. Usually hang back to start with while they explore each other then join in.
Do like to take some pics and vids as well
Now have a massive hard on thinking about seeing her getting fucked... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the most important point is that whatever role the husband has, he must have a role. Also the man who has been invited to join the couple, in whatever capacity, must enjoy the dynamics of playing with a couple. Otherwise that man may a well just fuck a single woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering when a single guys meets a couple. Do you prefer if the hubby/bf just watches or joins in. Spit roast etc."
Had guys join us for mmf but never been the joiner inner yet. Joining us I join in, I'm happy with that, I see it largely as a treat for her...so I think I'd view it the same way with another couple. Find out what they wanted, if they wanted to try something out, that kind of thing, maybe a dv or dp...whatever it was. I'd largely see it as a treat for her and do my best to make it a good event. |
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By *cepuncMan
over a year ago
Hayle |
Join in, every time. Two cocks, two tongues and four hands is about the right amount of toys for woman to have to hand though more is sometimes better. Being watched isnt up there in my list of 100 horny things to make and do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No preference when I was a single. I'm there to help their play time was the way I always approached it. If he wants to play great if he wants to watch, also great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only done this once with another couple. I enjoyed him watching more than I expected, but happy either way.
Was not on here, but I came in her mouth and I thought he was going to explode in excitement! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That is down to the couple as I feel I have been invited to enhance their sex life, whether it's the two of us pleasuring her or whether he is content just to sit and watch.
Happy playing either way. Or a mix of the two. |
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By *old200Man
over a year ago
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"Just wondering when a single guys meets a couple. Do you prefer if the hubby/bf just watches or joins in. Spit roast etc."
It's all down to what the couple/partners want,
At the end of the day they have invited you to partake in a very intimate part of their private life. as a second male, once they have achieved what they are looking for then you have to step back. they are the ones that love each other at the end of the day. |
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"Just wondering when a single guys meets a couple. Do you prefer if the hubby/bf just watches or joins in. Spit roast etc."
both! Either or! Both such a turn on for me and a ultimate fantasy of mine! Just aslong as I'm not the one in the middle  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we have an mmf it's always all in from the start and after playing for a while sometimes I'll sit back and watch if the guy is hitting the right spot then re-join the fun. I have been fantasizing about just watching Deb with another guy then taking her afterwards that's ultimately up to Deb. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Join in is definitely more fun. Unless, if they are in a cuckold scenario where it can sometimes be more sexy to watch him squirm and want to get involved with the fun but isn't allowed.
Im easy if people are having fun and enjoying it in a voyeristic way then thats cool. Everyone is different and people get their kicks in different ways |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So to all the single male guys that posted would rather the hubby pissed off and wasn't there, why look to meet couples. You obviously are not keen on the mf couple dynamic. As the hubby of the couple I find this disrespectful.. I love seeing E with other men and will always join in and watch, but if I thought the other guy was just wanting me to piss off he would be straight out of the house. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a couple that meets single guys,some on here have been taken off our hotlist and some added.interesting topic and answers."
ditto to that. Some guys have just killed any chance they possibly could of had
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