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2nd time this week i have been let down for a meet
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think I have lost all faith in this site there is some great coupes and single ladies on here who iv chatted to its just tjat small amount that mess you about xx |
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By *DD1EMan
over a year ago
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Join the club mate, it happens, it's their loss, just pick yourself up and move on.
Their are many genuine people out there, I've always been let down by couples, never single females.
You have good weeks and bad weeks, suddenly you'll find that 3 come along at once and you'll have to say no to 2 of them and because you've said no to them (for whatever reason)in their eyes it looks like that YOU'VE let them down and they never contact you again.
But as they say C'est la vie
Enjoy the lifestyle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know this dont help but its just all part of swinging and a side you'll never get rid of
I had two no shows in the same day once, id booked a hotel and the guy didnt turn up so i went online to try and find someone else and he didnt turn up either lol
happens to us all x
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"I know this dont help but its just all part of swinging and a side you'll never get rid of
I had two no shows in the same day once, id booked a hotel and the guy didnt turn up so i went online to try and find someone else and he didnt turn up either lol
happens to us all x
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No, it doesn't happen to us all, it's never happened to us! However, we do tend to find that if we do want to meet a single guy, they are the ones to tend to be the most fickle - that's in our limited experience of course! Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a free site so you will get some time wasters. Use the phone to chat before leaving home is a good one. You get a good idea how genuine someone is on the phone. I have had a couple of messers but its all part of swinging. |
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it happens! and not just the ones who dont turn up, there are the ones who turn up, get their kicks then feck off without telling you!!
had a guy turn up the other day after getting really lost, his sat nav dying, his phone dying etc
came in, had a bit of a kiss etc, he had a bj then said he was going out for a fag but the fucker never came back!!!
its these people that give single guys a bad name, i can handle and understand people cancelling becuase of various reasons but to come in, decide i am not good enough to fuck but a bj is ok then leave without having the balls to tell me is just bang out of order!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh my god just when I thought I had heard or read it all you say that ! That's just disgusting isn't it ! I really wish you could name and shame because if anyone deserves it he does |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh my god just when I thought I had heard or read it all you say that ! That's just disgusting isn't it ! I really wish you could name and shame because if anyone deserves it he does "
I 2nd that, what a total asshole!!!
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By *edannaCouple
over a year ago
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"it happens! and not just the ones who dont turn up, there are the ones who turn up, get their kicks then feck off without telling you!!
had a guy turn up the other day after getting really lost, his sat nav dying, his phone dying etc
came in, had a bit of a kiss etc, he had a bj then said he was going out for a fag but the fucker never came back!!!
its these people that give single guys a bad name, i can handle and understand people cancelling becuase of various reasons but to come in, decide i am not good enough to fuck but a bj is ok then leave without having the balls to tell me is just bang out of order!!!!"
disgusting behaviour but see it as a compliment to your bj lol |
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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago
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eveshamgal that happened to me once as well he went to get his fone out of cat and never came back of the guy when i lived south we met at hotel, got room, he went to get bottle wine and never came back i was left with the dam bill |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"eveshamgal that happened to me once as well he went to get his fone out of cat and never came back of the guy when i lived south we met at hotel, got room, he went to get bottle wine and never came back i was left with the dam bill"
how did it get in there?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"eveshamgal that happened to me once as well he went to get his fone out of cat and never came back of the guy when i lived south we met at hotel, got room, he went to get bottle wine and never came back i was left with the dam bill
how did it get in there?! "
Poor cat lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it happens! and not just the ones who dont turn up, there are the ones who turn up, get their kicks then feck off without telling you!!
had a guy turn up the other day after getting really lost, his sat nav dying, his phone dying etc
came in, had a bit of a kiss etc, he had a bj then said he was going out for a fag but the fucker never came back!!!
its these people that give single guys a bad name, i can handle and understand people cancelling becuase of various reasons but to come in, decide i am not good enough to fuck but a bj is ok then leave without having the balls to tell me is just bang out of order!!!!"
What a prick! As if it wasn't hard enough for single men to get a meet, without "help" from guys like this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i was let down a few times in the past few weeks and a issue that happened this week
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its not stopping me meeting 
i'm just more fussy now and stick to my criteria unless a forum/ chat person/couple makes me to decide otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it happens! and not just the ones who dont turn up, there are the ones who turn up, get their kicks then feck off without telling you!!
had a guy turn up the other day after getting really lost, his sat nav dying, his phone dying etc
came in, had a bit of a kiss etc, he had a bj then said he was going out for a fag but the fucker never came back!!!
its these people that give single guys a bad name, i can handle and understand people cancelling becuase of various reasons but to come in, decide i am not good enough to fuck but a bj is ok then leave without having the balls to tell me is just bang out of order!!!!"
WTF!!! cheeky sod |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Luckily ive never been let down but I hear a lot of guys saying they have been, women arrange to meet them then just dont turn up, no idea why people do it!!
There are some very nice and very genuine people on here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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joe dnt let it get you down hun ,but speak on the fone before hand you will know if genuine then .if dont give you number well there not worth meeting .
like most say happened with us all just think there loss i know it is a waste of your time but line few up in case you get let down ,stick to ones you do meet as reg buddies with nsa .chin up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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happened to me a few times now , one guy left me standing outside a pub in the rain. never even text say he couldnt make it .then had cheek to ask for another meet ..lol |
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By *hocotreacleWoman
over a year ago
lost in the city of Atlantis |
"it happens! and not just the ones who dont turn up, there are the ones who turn up, get their kicks then feck off without telling you!!
had a guy turn up the other day after getting really lost, his sat nav dying, his phone dying etc
came in, had a bit of a kiss etc, he had a bj then said he was going out for a fag but the fucker never came back!!!
its these people that give single guys a bad name, i can handle and understand people cancelling becuase of various reasons but to come in, decide i am not good enough to fuck but a bj is ok then leave without having the balls to tell me is just bang out of order!!!!
WTF!!! cheeky sod "
Hard to believe someone would do that.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" but to come in, decide i am not good enough to fuck but a bj is ok then leave without having the balls to tell me is just bang out of order!!!!"
Maybe after all the time it took him to find you, he had to rush off before the Mrs missed him.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I have lost all faith in this site there is some great coupes and single ladies on here who iv chatted to its just tjat small amount that mess you about xx"
Wait till you've had 15 cancelled meets or no shows in a row over 5 months!!! |
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By *DD1EMan
over a year ago
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"Join the club mate, it happens, it's their loss, just pick yourself up and move on.
Their are many genuine people out there, I've always been let down by couples, never single females.
You have good weeks and bad weeks, suddenly you'll find that 3 come along at once and you'll have to say no to 2 of them and because you've said no to them (for whatever reason)in their eyes it looks like that YOU'VE let them down and they never contact you again.
But as they say C'est la vie
Enjoy the lifestyle "
I tell a lie....I have been let down by a single female....just the one....but as I guess I forgot all about her, I must be over it
I went to a late night meet one night in Paignton, me another guy and the host couple, I received a text and the other single guy said "oh I've left my phone in the car" he went out and never came back and this was before play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to the OP i got let down by the same guy twice in two weeks needless to say he never got a third chance"
You gave him a second chance!!!!!
Not been let down yet, but I guess going by the popular majority, my time will come.
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"to the OP i got let down by the same guy twice in two weeks needless to say he never got a third chance
You gave him a second chance!!!!!
Not been let down yet, but I guess going by the popular majority, my time will come.
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I doubt that you'd be let down! I don't think it should be considered a 'normal' part of swinging personally, it seems to be becoming more prevalent but that maybe more to do with an ineffective screening/selection (!) system or more people liking the idea without ever having the intention of meeting. Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"to the OP i got let down by the same guy twice in two weeks needless to say he never got a third chance
You gave him a second chance!!!!!
Not been let down yet, but I guess going by the popular majority, my time will come.
I doubt that you'd be let down! I don't think it should be considered a 'normal' part of swinging personally, it seems to be becoming more prevalent but that maybe more to do with an ineffective screening/selection (!) system or more people liking the idea without ever having the intention of meeting. Z"
lol, you are right, but I think that may be down to finding out where they live and threatening a slow and painful death if let down tends to work .....failing that, handcuffing them immediately works.
My screening methods are taken from gestapo guidlines and tend to le out the fantasists. |
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"to the OP i got let down by the same guy twice in two weeks needless to say he never got a third chance
You gave him a second chance!!!!!
Not been let down yet, but I guess going by the popular majority, my time will come.
I doubt that you'd be let down! I don't think it should be considered a 'normal' part of swinging personally, it seems to be becoming more prevalent but that maybe more to do with an ineffective screening/selection (!) system or more people liking the idea without ever having the intention of meeting. Z
lol, you are right, but I think that may be down to finding out where they live and threatening a slow and painful death if let down tends to work.....failing that, handcuffing them immediately works.
My screening methods are taken from gestapo guidlines and tend to le out the fantasists."
lol - I did hear that you got drummed out of the ss for cruelty! Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to the OP i got let down by the same guy twice in two weeks needless to say he never got a third chance
You gave him a second chance!!!!!
Not been let down yet, but I guess going by the popular majority, my time will come.
I doubt that you'd be let down! I don't think it should be considered a 'normal' part of swinging personally, it seems to be becoming more prevalent but that maybe more to do with an ineffective screening/selection (!) system or more people liking the idea without ever having the intention of meeting. Z
lol, you are right, but I think that may be down to finding out where they live and threatening a slow and painful death if let down tends to work.....failing that, handcuffing them immediately works.
My screening methods are taken from gestapo guidlines and tend to le out the fantasists.
lol - I did hear that you got drummed out of the ss for cruelty! Z"
lol, bunch of softies.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I did learn a lesson when I paid for £180 for hotel meet and was supposed to be reimbursed half of it but couple did not show and ignored my messages etc ( to be honest I think it was a case of a pushy husband and wife not being entirely happy or 100%)but apart from fairly geniune excuses..not been too bad ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to the OP i got let down by the same guy twice in two weeks needless to say he never got a third chance
You gave him a second chance!!!!!
Not been let down yet, but I guess going by the popular majority, my time will come.
I doubt that you'd be let down! I don't think it should be considered a 'normal' part of swinging personally, it seems to be becoming more prevalent but that maybe more to do with an ineffective screening/selection (!) system or more people liking the idea without ever having the intention of meeting. Z"
I think I take the wind out of their sails somewhat. I meet during my lunch time outside the Mark's where I usually grab a sarnie or in the station 15 mins before my train. If you know you're not turning up makes absolutely no difference or cost to the other person then there's no thrill for some. I think some people get off knowing someone has travelled miles/forked out for a hotel etc when they have no intention of meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nevermind happens to us all at some point.thought i read in one of your posts afew weeks back that you were leaving the site joe,you deciced to stay,hooray....nice one. |
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