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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Years ago I got to the subject of swinging with my then wife and was told if shagging her wasn't enough leave, marriage was life. She then had an affair with her boss and left.!!!!
How did other couples get to the stage of agreeing to swing??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always been Intrigued tbh but it was actually my fuck buddy that suggested it one day and the next Saturday night we were going to the attic in Derby I loved it x |
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"Years ago I got to the subject of swinging with my then wife and was told if shagging her wasn't enough leave, marriage was life. She then had an affair with her boss and left.!!!!
How did other couples get to the stage of agreeing to swing???"
Are you comparing consensual swinging with cheating? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Years ago I got to the subject of swinging with my then wife and was told if shagging her wasn't enough leave, marriage was life. She then had an affair with her boss and left.!!!!
How did other couples get to the stage of agreeing to swing???
Are you comparing consensual swinging with cheating?"
no just wonder how people first say "i want us to have sex with other people" without it seeming like you are unsatisfied with your partner.
cheating is a whole different thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We started in the early days of our relationship ... got married a year after we began swinging .
We are just a filthy pair who love sex , so swinging was the obvious addition to our already fantastic sex llife .
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By *lubitMan
over a year ago
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Only messaged bi women on dating sites. Then when dating for a while, mentioned a swingers club nearby and if that interested then as they could get some girly action. Then went to clubs.
Drop it in casually and if they are horrified, move on fast. |
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Showed my new woman friend a porn video filmed in La Chambre and asked if she'd like to try it - she said "YES!" We both took to swinging like a duck to water, and we married a couple of years later. |
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We were at a friends party when things got a little d*unk and sexy. Spin the bottle and truth or dare made us realise that playing in front of people was a big turn on for both of us. After a few months of scenario discussion and boundaries we went to our first club. Loved it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Years ago I got to the subject of swinging with my then wife and was told if shagging her wasn't enough leave, marriage was life. She then had an affair with her boss and left.!!!!
How did other couples get to the stage of agreeing to swing???"
I met my husband while swinging as singles |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My husband casually said it would be a massive turn on to see me with another guy- to be honest I didn't mind! Since we've had this conversation I don't mind if he finds other women to have sex with, as long as I know about it, no problems! I suppose it could be new experiences that we can always take back to the bedroom ourselves to enhance our already great sex life |
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"We started in the early days of our relationship ... got married a year after we began swinging .
We are just a filthy pair who love sex , so swinging was the obvious addition to our already fantastic sex llife .
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And your exploits are legendary m'lady, even in the far north of the realm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We both talked about fantasies and decided that we would like to explore our bi sides but together. We've had opportunities to do this on our own too at various partied but keep coming back to it being a couples thing.
In fact it's very likely that we're only going to play with fully bi or curious couples in the future rather than singles.
It's all about developing our boundaries together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It always seems strange when people ask how you raise it, for us it was a natural progression from talking about our fantasies to actually realising there were places we could go to act upon them. Took us a long time to decide we wanted to take it past fantasy though |
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