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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My dear hubby being the oh so macho type refuses to entertain Anal unless it is my poor little bum he wants to probe lol.But my friend confided in me on a girls night that her hubby likes a bit of Anal action with a vibro and always has done and it gives him a very powerful climax because she says they guys g spot is in there. So folks how do I persuade dear hubby to give it a go ??  |
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try gently touching his anus during play...if he doesn't object, slip in a cheeky finger  ....but at the end of the day if it's not something he feels comfortable with you have to respect his feelings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your giving him a BJ start stroking his Rusty Sheriffs Star with a finger (preferably without a nail) and if he doesn't end up with his head stuck in the ceiling take it that he's enjoying it.
Well it does it for me lol |
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Honestly, guys who won't do any anal play don't know what they are missing, a little gland called the prostate is the male "g" spot, and when massaged can produce an extraordinary climax for a guy, if massaged in conjunction with penis masturbation the ejaculation is unlike anything they will have felt before, sometimes called "milking", it's so intense, ask him to chat with a tranny darling if you don't want to, I'll convince him , loll, hugz, Ruby, xxx
PS, just wait while you try a strap on, yipeeeee, chocs away darling, he he he |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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my prostate must be about three feet up there as I've had all manner of determined women - even a couple of self-proclaimed experts - have a good rummage around up there to try and find it for me without success |
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very good question, not being medically trained I can't answer you properly, I can only speak from my personal experiences and my friends descriptions too. There are one or two anal toys specifically designed for prostate massage and I have one of them and say it finds the exact spot for me, happy hunting, don't give up, you'll thnks me one day, lol, hugz, Ruby, xxxx |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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not for me in a million years...
if not his thing.. you shouldn't put pressure on, likewise he shouldnt expect it from you, unless you want to do it for your sexual pleasure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"my prostate must be about three feet up there as I've had all manner of determined women - even a couple of self-proclaimed experts - have a good rummage around up there to try and find it for me without success"
There is strong medical evidence that this type of prostate play and milking is a dangerous trend and can lead to prostate cancer. Considering most men will suffer from an enlarged prostate at some time in their lives and perhaps cancer purely because of their gender and susceptibility, I would have thought that it would a no go area for experimentation. You're wise to leave well alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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anal play is awsome! he doesnt know what he is missing.
I find it bizzare when women arnt interested in trying some anal play with a man.
I think most women should say well hey if you wona play with my arse i get to play with yours lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"my prostate must be about three feet up there as I've had all manner of determined women - even a couple of self-proclaimed experts - have a good rummage around up there to try and find it for me without success"
You don't need to go further than the joint of the index finger then make a "come hither" motion. The orgasm is amazing apparently, certainly amazing to watch!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"very good question, not being medically trained I can't answer you properly, I can only speak from my personal experiences and my friends descriptions too. There are one or two anal toys specifically designed for prostate massage and I have one of them and say it finds the exact spot for me, happy hunting, don't give up, you'll thnks me one day, lol, hugz, Ruby, xxxx"
I have several of those very expensive prostate massagers. Although they felt nice they didn't produce the desired effect: it took my finger...and patience! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"anal play is awsome! he doesnt know what he is missing.
I find it bizzare when women arnt interested in trying some anal play with a man.
I think most women should say well hey if you wona play with my arse i get to play with yours lol"
Anal play is awesome: for you! Saying someone is missing something is akin to the immature mutterings of "their loss" expressed by some. Anal play is not for everyone: nothing bizarre about personal choice!
As for "tit for tat"...please! I love restraining my playmates, blind folding and gagging them: it's certainly not for me! |
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Lay him down facing the bed, then gently kiss and stroke his back running your hands all over his back and legs. Then go down and star licking his balls and alternate between his balls and hole lubing it up with some saliva then gently stick a finger in while licking his cock at the same time all while he is lying face down! Works for me everytime! X |
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"anal play is awsome! he doesnt know what he is missing.
I find it bizzare when women arnt interested in trying some anal play with a man.
I think most women should say well hey if you wona play with my arse i get to play with yours lol
Anal play is awesome: for you! Saying someone is missing something is akin to the immature mutterings of "their loss" expressed by some. Anal play is not for everyone: nothing bizarre about personal choice!
As for "tit for tat"...please! I love restraining my playmates, blind folding and gagging them: it's certainly not for me! "
Restrained, blindfolded and gagged .... Where do I sign up |
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"My dear hubby being the oh so macho type refuses to entertain Anal unless it is my poor little bum he wants to probe lol.But my friend confided in me on a girls night that her hubby likes a bit of Anal action with a vibro and always has done and it gives him a very powerful climax because she says they guys g spot is in there. So folks how do I persuade dear hubby to give it a go ?? "
I'm the other way round,I am curious and wanted my ex to do gentle play just to see what it was like, (i love the skin between balls and bum to be played with ) but she wouldn't have anything to do with it!
perhaps we should get together and show you hubby then he might want to try!!!
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"my prostate must be about three feet up there as I've had all manner of determined women - even a couple of self-proclaimed experts - have a good rummage around up there to try and find it for me without success
You don't need to go further than the joint of the index finger then make a "come hither" motion. The orgasm is amazing apparently, certainly amazing to watch! "
A finger of fudge I can cope with, but if you wave that 18" monster cock at me I'm off!! |
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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago
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"There is strong medical evidence that this type of prostate play and milking is a dangerous trend and can lead to prostate cancer. Considering most men will suffer from an enlarged prostate at some time in their lives and perhaps cancer purely because of their gender and susceptibility, I would have thought that it would a no go area for experimentation. You're wise to leave well alone. "
Can you tell me where this evidence is please? I was under the impression of the precise opposite, that prostate stimulation helped keep things nice and healthy down there, kept things flowing along nicely. Obviously, ramming away and bruising it, or for people who are already suffering from prostate cancer, is to be avoided. Being a smoker is going to increase your risk way more than enjoying a finger up your arse. |
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"There is strong medical evidence that this type of prostate play and milking is a dangerous trend and can lead to prostate cancer. Considering most men will suffer from an enlarged prostate at some time in their lives and perhaps cancer purely because of their gender and susceptibility, I would have thought that it would a no go area for experimentation. You're wise to leave well alone.
Can you tell me where this evidence is please? I was under the impression of the precise opposite, that prostate stimulation helped keep things nice and healthy down there, kept things flowing along nicely. Obviously, ramming away and bruising it, or for people who are already suffering from prostate cancer, is to be avoided. Being a smoker is going to increase your risk way more than enjoying a finger up your arse."
I'd also heard that milking the prostate was good for you!! |
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My hubby was exactly the same as the op. Happy to do me up the ass but I wasnt allowed anywhere near his.
Then, when he bought me a magic wand, I held it onto his perineum (the bit between the balls and the ass), quite close to his ass and pushed it quite hard. The vibrations from this gave him a feeling he had never had before and it was stimulating his prostate. He loved it and is now asking me to slip him a digit!!  |
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By *averiMan
over a year ago
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"My dear hubby being the oh so macho type refuses to entertain Anal unless it is my poor little bum he wants to probe lol.But my friend confided in me on a girls night that her hubby likes a bit of Anal action with a vibro and always has done and it gives him a very powerful climax because she says they guys g spot is in there. So folks how do I persuade dear hubby to give it a go ?? "
a really stiff.................................drink or three! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a quick double check around the web suggests that its beneficial, which is just as well ....... Theres plenty of advice on the practicalities already but relaxation and lube is the key (for an extra smooth sensation with a hint of kink add an exam glove ,,, ! )
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