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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why would someone who i dont know,never met,or even spoken to ,message someone ive met and left a verification for, start slagging me off to them ,unbelievable and so unnecessary. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Think the heat has affected some members this week. Block them, not worth a second thought."
i know but i dont know why they did it ,thought it was an adult site,i could never do that to another member ,pure trash.
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By *tyoursCouple
over a year ago
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Have had this happen a few times recently....its because there's a lot of sad angry wankers in the world and a few of them are on this fabulous free site ...read 1st line laugh at them block them move on have fun .....or abuse them back n block them lol tutt tutt didn't say that did I lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have had this happen a few times recently....its because there's a lot of sad angry wankers in the world and a few of them are on this fabulous free site ...read 1st line laugh at them block them move on have fun .....or abuse them back n block them lol tutt tutt didn't say that did I lol "
He was told because you have met her i wont meet you WTF .
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
Maybe you pissed them off in the forums? You seemed to agitate some in a thread the other week?
Not being nasty - just a suggestion as you didn't get favourable response to it.
It takes all sorts on here. I've had similar to you, as well as threats, stalkers n all kinds.
You need to just get these things reported and block them - thick skin is required 
Chin up lovely, it's their problem more than its yours x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe you pissed them off in the forums? You seemed to agitate some in a thread the other week?
Not being nasty - just a suggestion as you didn't get favourable response to it.
It takes all sorts on here. I've had similar to you, as well as threats, stalkers n all kinds.
You need to just get these things reported and block them - thick skin is required
Chin up lovely, it's their problem more than its yours x"
didnt mean to piss anyone off at all ,apologies if i did . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have had this happen a few times recently....its because there's a lot of sad angry wankers in the world and a few of them are on this fabulous free site ...read 1st line laugh at them block them move on have fun .....or abuse them back n block them lol tutt tutt didn't say that did I lol He was told because you have met her i wont meet you WTF ."
I've had this from people I've never met too .. I'd say they were jealous lol and that's definitely their problem not yours..
I now hide my verifications so no one has a clue who I've met  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have had this happen a few times recently....its because there's a lot of sad angry wankers in the world and a few of them are on this fabulous free site ...read 1st line laugh at them block them move on have fun .....or abuse them back n block them lol tutt tutt didn't say that did I lol He was told because you have met her i wont meet you WTF .
I've had this from people I've never met too .. I'd say they were jealous lol and that's definitely their problem not yours..
I now hide my verifications so no one has a clue who I've met "
well not sure why,but he has now taken my verification off so it wont happen again to him . |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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had this, lots...
i don't veri anymore, unless asked and that comes with a warning..you may get shit from others you meet, if i veri you...
some people are not pleasant, behind your back here. do your own thing, be yourself and those that matter, wont take any notice or, will ask you themselves about what they have been told. If they dont, well then, they really dont want to know the truth, so no point justifying yourself.
be well, be happy and try not to take it personally xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would someone who i dont know,never met,or even spoken to ,message someone ive met and left a verification for, start slagging me off to them ,unbelievable and so unnecessary."
You will always get that kind of thing on the internet, you could report them to admin.
You look very nice and sexy XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have had this happen a few times recently....its because there's a lot of sad angry wankers in the world and a few of them are on this fabulous free site ...read 1st line laugh at them block them move on have fun .....or abuse them back n block them lol tutt tutt didn't say that did I lol He was told because you have met her i wont meet you WTF ."
I get that loads, very odd behaviour indeed. Makes me laff. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"had this, lots...
i don't veri anymore, unless asked and that comes with a warning..you may get shit from others you meet, if i veri you...
some people are not pleasant, behind your back here. do your own thing, be yourself and those that matter, wont take any notice or, will ask you themselves about what they have been told. If they dont, well then, they really dont want to know the truth, so no point justifying yourself.
be well, be happy and try not to take it personally xx"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have had this happen a few times recently....its because there's a lot of sad angry wankers in the world and a few of them are on this fabulous free site ...read 1st line laugh at them block them move on have fun .....or abuse them back n block them lol tutt tutt didn't say that did I lol He was told because you have met her i wont meet you WTF .
I get that loads, very odd behaviour indeed. Makes me laff."
Really ,at least I'm not the only one then  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why would someone who i dont know,never met,or even spoken to ,message someone ive met and left a verification for, start slagging me off to them ,unbelievable and so unnecessary.
You will always get that kind of thing on the internet, you could report them to admin.
You look very nice and sexy XXX"
aw Thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have had this happen a few times recently....its because there's a lot of sad angry wankers in the world and a few of them are on this fabulous free site ...read 1st line laugh at them block them move on have fun .....or abuse them back n block them lol tutt tutt didn't say that did I lol He was told because you have met her i wont meet you WTF .
I get that loads, very odd behaviour indeed. Makes me laff. Really ,at least I'm not the only one then "
Yea lots of guys I have met hide my veris, because of the backlash from other women  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have had this happen a few times recently....its because there's a lot of sad angry wankers in the world and a few of them are on this fabulous free site ...read 1st line laugh at them block them move on have fun .....or abuse them back n block them lol tutt tutt didn't say that did I lol He was told because you have met her i wont meet you WTF ."
I'd be scared to follow you too. She obviously knew he'd be disappointed with her after having time with you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because they're mental and/or jealous.
Block. Ignore. jealous of what lol I'm fair fat and 58 for Gawds sake  "
You seem to have made a mistake Pamela...I'm sure that you meant to describe yourself as: 'fair, fat, fifty-eight and FUCKING FABULOUS!'
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have had this happen a few times recently....its because there's a lot of sad angry wankers in the world and a few of them are on this fabulous free site ...read 1st line laugh at them block them move on have fun .....or abuse them back n block them lol tutt tutt didn't say that did I lol He was told because you have met her i wont meet you WTF .
I've had this from people I've never met too .. I'd say they were jealous lol and that's definitely their problem not yours..
I now hide my verifications so no one has a clue who I've met well not sure why,but he has now taken my verification off so it wont happen again to him ."
You should hide yours... So that they can't see who you've met |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have had this happen a few times recently....its because there's a lot of sad angry wankers in the world and a few of them are on this fabulous free site ...read 1st line laugh at them block them move on have fun .....or abuse them back n block them lol tutt tutt didn't say that did I lol He was told because you have met her i wont meet you WTF .
I've had this from people I've never met too .. I'd say they were jealous lol and that's definitely their problem not yours..
I now hide my verifications so no one has a clue who I've met well not sure why,but he has now taken my verification off so it wont happen again to him .
You should hide yours... So that they can't see who you've met"
I like reading members verifications then you can at least get an idea of what type of people they are ,and especially if you intend to meet them ,you should be able to show them without repercussions  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because they're mental and/or jealous.
Block. Ignore. jealous of what lol I'm fair fat and 58 for Gawds sake
You seem to have made a mistake Pamela...I'm sure that you meant to describe yourself as: 'fair, fat, fifty-eight and FUCKING FABULOUS!'
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oh ok lol |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Why would someone who i dont know,never met,or even spoken to ,message someone ive met and left a verification for, start slagging me off to them ,unbelievable and so unnecessary."
Yeap! I had this at the weekend as well |
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Forget them and rise above it not worth you time or effort. if others are going to listen to their rubbish well its their bad plenty of blokes to meet on here. Lifes to short to let arseholes bring you down. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why would someone who i dont know,never met,or even spoken to ,message someone ive met and left a verification for, start slagging me off to them ,unbelievable and so unnecessary.
Yeap! I had this at the weekend as well "
really ,whatever for ,good job they cant say anything before the meet lol as i dont think anyone would meet me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Forget them and rise above it not worth you time or effort. if others are going to listen to their rubbish well its their bad plenty of blokes to meet on here. Lifes to short to let arseholes bring you down."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would someone who i dont know,never met,or even spoken to ,message someone ive met and left a verification for, start slagging me off to them ,unbelievable and so unnecessary."
Pure jealousy. Ignore them. |
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"I'd be scared to follow you too. She obviously knew he'd be disappointed with her after having time with you xx"
Well said Rachael!!
"Nowt stranger than folk"
Chin up pretty lady, dont let the morons on the site get you down! Xx |
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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago
Where the streets have no name |
This is a case similar to the relation between celebrities and fans. From the moment you (or whoever of us) make public a picture or comment and they enter into private cells or Pc,s, someone could obsess with you and pretend some kind of possession over you. If you don't give him the attention he THINKS he deserves, this relation turns toxic. You know what they say: "Or mine's or nobody else's. Unfortunatly, it's one if the darkest prices of public appearance. Try to not give more attention and if the problem persists, denounce it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we had similar backlash so very careful with veris and pics now - never show friends list anymore to stop folk contacting people off it - why people cant just get on with their own fun beats me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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either the person you verified is stirring or wants an excuse to chat to you?
or you turned the person slagging you off down is what happened to me. weird thing was the guy who slagged me off i'd said i'd meet him but forgot i'd arranged to meet someone else previously so i told him well in advance i'd have to cancel but would rearrange, must have been about a year later he slagged me off. he'd held a grudge for at lest a year so i'm glad i didn't meet him anyway. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
The only opinion that matters to me is the one belonging to whoever I'm meeting. I'd be just as cross with the guy who hid your verification as I would be with the woman who assumed he would meet her if he hadn't met you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Pam, I wouldn't worry about it. You have some lovely verifications, so I suspect someone is jealous of you as you sound a lovely lady! "
Thank you very much x I'm just a gentle soul who just plods along |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"either the person you verified is stirring or wants an excuse to chat to you?
or you turned the person slagging you off down is what happened to me. weird thing was the guy who slagged me off i'd said i'd meet him but forgot i'd arranged to meet someone else previously so i told him well in advance i'd have to cancel but would rearrange, must have been about a year later he slagged me off. he'd held a grudge for at lest a year so i'm glad i didn't meet him anyway."
no it was female and i dont meet ladies |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"either the person you verified is stirring or wants an excuse to chat to you?
or you turned the person slagging you off down is what happened to me. weird thing was the guy who slagged me off i'd said i'd meet him but forgot i'd arranged to meet someone else previously so i told him well in advance i'd have to cancel but would rearrange, must have been about a year later he slagged me off. he'd held a grudge for at lest a year so i'm glad i didn't meet him anyway. no it was female and i dont meet ladies "
oh well. some right weirdos on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because they're mental and/or jealous.
Block. Ignore. jealous of what lol I'm fair fat and 58 for Gawds sake
You seem to have made a mistake Pamela...I'm sure that you meant to describe yourself as: 'fair, fat, fifty-eight and FUCKING FABULOUS!'
oh ok lol "
Hey, you know how sexy I think you are!
If only I wasn't considered just a wee bit too young for you... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because they're mental and/or jealous.
Block. Ignore. jealous of what lol I'm fair fat and 58 for Gawds sake
You seem to have made a mistake Pamela...I'm sure that you meant to describe yourself as: 'fair, fat, fifty-eight and FUCKING FABULOUS!'
oh ok lol
Hey, you know how sexy I think you are!
If only I wasn't considered just a wee bit too young for you... "
To young ,very young ,but youre a very nice man |
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"Have had this happen a few times recently....its because there's a lot of sad angry wankers in the world and a few of them are on this fabulous free site ...read 1st line laugh at them block them move on have fun .....or abuse them back n block them lol tutt tutt didn't say that did I lol He was told because you have met her i wont meet you WTF ."
Hey, you got there first then so you win.  |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe you pissed them off in the forums? You seemed to agitate some in a thread the other week?
Not being nasty - just a suggestion as you didn't get favourable response to it.
It takes all sorts on here. I've had similar to you, as well as threats, stalkers n all kinds.
You need to just get these things reported and block them - thick skin is required
Chin up lovely, it's their problem more than its yours x didnt mean to piss anyone off at all ,apologies if i did . "
You've not pissed me off - takes a lot to pee me off 
Honestly I would just report it and forget about them - they are sad individuals x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had the same problem both on this profile and on my fem profile. I tend to not bother with verifications now unless the guy is of strong character and can cope with hassle from unstable people lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because they're mental and/or jealous.
Block. Ignore. jealous of what lol I'm fair fat and 58 for Gawds sake
You seem to have made a mistake Pamela...I'm sure that you meant to describe yourself as: 'fair, fat, fifty-eight and FUCKING FABULOUS!'
oh ok lol
Hey, you know how sexy I think you are!
If only I wasn't considered just a wee bit too young for you... Too young, very young. but youre a very nice man "
Why thank you.  |
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"Why would someone who i dont know,never met,or even spoken to ,message someone ive met and left a verification for, start slagging me off to them ,unbelievable and so unnecessary."
It's why I hid mine for a long time. I'm giving them a short holiday before they go back in the box. |
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