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over a year ago
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"Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
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Wife hates that. It's an instant no from her if we're on the couple profile looking for other couples. As you say, vast majority of them no male pics or just one blurry one of a cock that may or may not be his. |
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"Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
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Doctor, heal thyself?
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But otherwise, totally agree...
There should be a 60/40 split at least.
As otherwise, what do you presume of the guy?
And lol, as long as the other 40% aren't cock shot, cock shot, cock shot (My, your personality just shines through with that cock shot...).
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"Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
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Where as your profile has 18 pics of you and 3 cock shots  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
Where as your profile has 18 pics of you and 3 cock shots "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have plenty pics of us both, and of us both together. In our friend pics we have pics of us fucking, as well as face pics of us both, and of us both together. How it should be we think. |
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[]Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
Where as your profile has 18 pics of you and 3 cock shots [and all clear recent pics..so at least you can see what you are about to gratefully receive lol..and if friend request acceped all of him so nothing to hide here !! ]  |
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"We were the same but lately we've put a few of him on now. No cock pics either. He gets a few fabs but even those are mainly from men 
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Yeah, sorry / not sorry about that...
Hands up, Flames here, I found your profile hot as heck as a couple  |
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"Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
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Paul is camera shy...I'm always wanting to have more pics of him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
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Erm ... Have you looked at your own public pics lmao |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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Because I'm an exhibitionist and I like posing, while my partner enjoys taking photographs. Besides which, our profile works perfectly well for us (and apparently for others) so we don't see any need to change the balance of our photographs. |
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"Because I'm an exhibitionist and I like posing, while my partner enjoys taking photographs. Besides which, our profile works perfectly well for us (and apparently for others) so we don't see any need to change the balance of our photographs."
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Oops yes I am guilty as charged (thanks hubby for adding pics without telling lol)
I do believe someone may be in trouble later..
But to be fair it is a nice cock so I will gladly post more so the ladies can see clearly whats on offer..might even treat you to a arse shot as thats cute too lol..x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because I'm an exhibitionist and I like posing, while my partner enjoys taking photographs. Besides which, our profile works perfectly well for us (and apparently for others) so we don't see any need to change the balance of our photographs."
You've got a lot more pics of him on your profile (although largely of his cock, but they're good and clear pics) than most people have on their profile at all, so I'd say the balance of your pics was fine anyway. Some lovely photography there too, an enjoyable profile |
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"I get the female may be hot and sexy..but us ladies also like to know whats on offer..
We have passed some great profiles by just because of a lack of pictures of him..such a shame and waste lol x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
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ours are in our private photos |
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"Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
Where as your profile has 18 pics of you and 3 cock shots "
Was going to say the same but you beat me to it. People in glass houses and all that lol |
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"Because I'm an exhibitionist and I like posing, while my partner enjoys taking photographs."
Same here! Plus Steph is far more photogenic than Me If guys pics received half as many fab's as those of the ladies then I think there would be a greater incentive to take them.
I once made it onto page 7 of the guys hot pics list with 3 fab's....  |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"Depends on the couples i think and what there looking for, for instance a 'hotwife' you are advertising her but also if the female of the couple is hot it will obviously get more interest."
Bingo on the 'hotwife' comment, often gets overlooked. |
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"[]Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
Where as your profile has 18 pics of you and 3 cock shots [and all clear recent pics..so at least you can see what you are about to gratefully receive lol..and if friend request acceped all of him so nothing to hide here !! ] "
Maybe the other couples do the same, his pics are in the friends gallery.
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Depends on the couples i think and what there looking for, for instance a 'hotwife' you are advertising her but also if the female of the couple is hot it will obviously get more interest.
Bingo on the 'hotwife' comment, often gets overlooked. "
yeah can imagine it does, I like your pics  |
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I enjoy taking pics of my wife just so I can have my own collection for if we're apart. The best (tasteful) get added to the profile. She doesn't do the same so there just aren't many pics of me about. Should probably take a few more and get them up |
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"Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
Wife hates that. It's an instant no from her if we're on the couple profile looking for other couples. As you say, vast majority of them no male pics or just one blurry one of a cock that may or may not be his."
Thats same for me .Miss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get the female may be hot and sexy..but us ladies also like to know whats on offer..
We have passed some great profiles by just because of a lack of pictures of him..such a shame and waste lol x"
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
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That will be because men aren't wanted as much here |
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"I get the female may be hot and sexy..but us ladies also like to know whats on offer..
We have passed some great profiles by just because of a lack of pictures of him..such a shame and waste lol x
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We have tried to tackle this issue in recent months, (have added more of me) but it's difficult.
One, I'm usually the one taking the pics of Alice
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Two, she's a lot more photogenic and comfortable in front of the camera.
PLUS, I love her pics and want others to enjoy them too.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
That will be because men aren't wanted as much here"
The male half of the couple is wanted by the female half of the other couple (usually). For a full straight swap the females need to see the males. |
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"I get the female may be hot and sexy..but us ladies also like to know whats on offer..
We have passed some great profiles by just because of a lack of pictures of him..such a shame and waste lol x
This
We have tried to tackle this issue in recent months, (have added more of me) but it's difficult.
One, I'm usually the one taking the pics of Alice
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Two, she's a lot more photogenic and comfortable in front of the camera.
PLUS, I love her pics and want others to enjoy them too.
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She is very photogenic but you both look good in your pics
My partner hates being photographed full stop. I usually ask him to take pics of me too. I managed to get him to do a few over the years but I'm not going to push him into something he doesn't want to do. I think everyone has their differences and I can't often tell if I want to play with someone from their photos alone. Need to have some connection through chatting. |
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Some really interesting replys..
Some a little snakey..(looks like I upset some people)..was never my intention. So apologies if i have offended any of you..
I dont go on the profile much, (normally leave that to Mr)...however we are away on holiday so thought Id take a cheeky look... and it was just a passing observation that not many pics of men and us ladies like a little peak sometimes too lol..
And I get you are proud of your ladies and so you should be..you have some amazing profiles.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we like to see more of the guy, nothing worse than contacting a cple as the fem looks nice then after chat see pics of him and think oooh no then you have to backtrack and excuse yourself,
we have 50/50 full frontalso you can see exactly what your getting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
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Well a lot of couples are here because the husband wants to swing! He doesn't, however, want to "wife swap". You'll also notice how many profiles like this where the female is "bi". This is because he has a fantasy of watching his wife with another woman. Even better if he can join in of course in the heat if the moment! But keep those grubby male paws away from his wife, *he's* not into that.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well lets be honest, men arent exactly important when it comes to swinging...its all about the woman. Yeah yeah, it cant all be one gender i know but men are ten-a-penny in general so unless the guy is above average in looks or body type, best keep him away from the camera and not draw attention to him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
Well a lot of couples are here because the husband wants to swing! He doesn't, however, want to "wife swap". You'll also notice how many profiles like this where the female is "bi". This is because he has a fantasy of watching his wife with another woman. Even better if he can join in of course in the heat if the moment! But keep those grubby male paws away from his wife, *he's* not into that.."
How do you feel about soft swap couples?
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"Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
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There are a couple of John but we are not looking for couples if we ever do then we would post more of John. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
Well a lot of couples are here because the husband wants to swing! He doesn't, however, want to "wife swap". You'll also notice how many profiles like this where the female is "bi". This is because he has a fantasy of watching his wife with another woman. Even better if he can join in of course in the heat if the moment! But keep those grubby male paws away from his wife, *he's* not into that..
How do you feel about soft swap couples?
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Not sure i see the point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
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Haha just asked someone who messaged us this same thing |
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We're happy with our ratio of pics, I think there are 3/4 of MrT on his own- couple of full body shots, bum and cock. It seems to work for us, there are some of use together too but the majority of pictures are of myself and, like others have already said for themselves, it's because I'm an exhibitionist and I want to show off.
It hasn't affected us getting messages, that we know of anyway, so if it ain't broke....we'll stick with what we've got.
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"We're happy with our ratio of pics, I think there are 3/4 of MrT on his own- couple of full body shots, bum and cock. It seems to work for us, there are some of use together too but the majority of pictures are of myself and, like others have already said for themselves, it's because I'm an exhibitionist and I want to show off.
It hasn't affected us getting messages, that we know of anyway, so if it ain't broke....we'll stick with what we've got.
Sassy "
Bloody hell, there's more of him on ours than I thought six of him on his own, surely that's enough?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
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People in glass houses. Lol. Pot. Kettle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't make any excuses ever for this.
All our public pictures are of me, I like them, I'm happy with it, I don't feel aggrieved that people pass us, I've never given any thought to that, couldn't care less.
We have face pics of Mr Iconic and we send these to people we are interested in meeting, there are no cock pics or posed body shots, bottom pics etc, as he is not interested in doing this.
People just have to accept that others won't do what they want them to, we all make our own choices |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"Depends on the couples i think and what there looking for, for instance a 'hotwife' you are advertising her but also if the female of the couple is hot it will obviously get more interest.
Bingo on the 'hotwife' comment, often gets overlooked. yeah can imagine it does, I like your pics "
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just find the op's op funny because it's hypocritical. "
Exactly!!
They appear to have made an effort for hers to be sexy yet every single one of him is a cock shot!
OP he doesn't look in too bad shape - make a little effort and show him off FFS instead of criticising everyone else.... |
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I'm very careful to make our ratio of photos equal... Even with the small amount we display. It's important to me to do that and when looking at other couple's profiles I personally like to see the guy represented in someway other than just a cock pic.
The number of pictures, style of pictures, type of pictures are all decision making factors. And the diversity here on fab should be embraced even if it falls out of our preferences.
Cherry |
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"I'm very careful to make our ratio of photos equal... Even with the small amount we display. It's important to me to do that and when looking at other couple's profiles I personally like to see the guy represented in someway other than just a cock pic.
The number of pictures, style of pictures, type of pictures are all decision making factors. And the diversity here on fab should be embraced even if it falls out of our preferences.
Cherry "
Great to see a properly shared couple profile & a pic of you together! |
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"I'm very careful to make our ratio of photos equal... Even with the small amount we display. It's important to me to do that and when looking at other couple's profiles I personally like to see the guy represented in someway other than just a cock pic.
The number of pictures, style of pictures, type of pictures are all decision making factors. And the diversity here on fab should be embraced even if it falls out of our preferences.
Cherry "
Great profile pics guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can take a passable pic, L's skills with a camera are sadly lacking. Plus, unless you happen to have the body of a Greek god, then any poses that a guy tries to make look sexy fail with spectacular results  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Lots of thoughtful comments on here, yes it's true most profiles show more of the lady than the guy, but at least our main profile pic is of both of us! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have both of us on ours although C does take up most of ours.
We do agree that if the male half isn't represented the copies do tend to get looked over |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
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Surley its each members pref to show what they want to show on their profile, we mix ours up all the time to keep it fresh
Im not sure a couple of cock pics amongst an abundance of lady shots justifies your original post though, and your comment on adding as friends to see more pics makes your post even more ironic! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
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Coz I'm ugly as sin!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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generally pictures of the woman 'sells' the profile better.
I forget some are couples profiles on here from the content, it's like chatting to a single woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have more pics of me as we not looking for another couple. So Tonys picture are not as important as mine in a way he has some on there but only our friends can see them. Marie x |
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"Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
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We do agree with the OP, clearly there are some profiles where couples have photo's of the guy as well as the girl, but for the vast majority it is mainly just the girl. Both happy to perve lovely ladies, but at least one of us enjoys looking at the guys.
It also helps a lot if we are looking for a meet, we have tended to arrange to meet in clubs as we can't be sure of what we are looking at!
Lots of guys seem to make the excuse that their other halves are more photogenic, etc but put a torso photo, or a clothed photo up - lets have torso Tuesday! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Nobody wants to see the little fella haha. The female form is far more beautiful I think that's the reason oh and a large majority of couples on here are single men and too many pics of them would blow their cover hehe |
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We are thinking of taking some new pics but it's hard to think what type to take of the male, especially when he hates having his picture taken anyway and doesn't consider himself as above average in any way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We had this very same conversation so put a few "arty" black and white ones on. You don't know how chuffed I was when I got to 10 FABs , made it all worthwhile ! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it that the majority of couples profiles have 30 odd pictures of the women and then one of the guy..
Come on fellas dont be shy ..us ladies like to know whats on offer too..
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Think it's because most men on here are looking for women and most women are bi (therefore also looking fr women) |
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